haha ive heard of that movie.. actually i have the movie poster in my room (ive never seen it, just liked the poster)

anyway.. thanks everyone for your replies ;]

so this is what ive come up with:

ask the guy
do it slow
dont HURT it
dont be too limp

hmmm. lol. well then.

oh and i also learned:

receiving a blowjob is like handing over control

gotcha.