ahhh damn,

well what i did was I went to aubuchon hardware.. idk if you have that where you live but its a hardware store and went to the section which had all the sockets, joints, connectors for water piping and found the perfect thing it was a bowl shaped thing with a metal down stem that was 1 cm long... so i pulled that out of its plastic container thing walk two feet to my right to the plastic tubing and found the perfect fit...

then went to the faucet section and got those screens that go into the faucet head

easy as 1. 2. 3. lol