It's come up in the past but when the time comes same old rut, I'll try to shift things around or redirect things but then he takes control that I want him to take just to put it right back where it was.
I love my Baby but she's put such a kink in all this, I'm one that loved to be choked, tied, hair pulled and such, there is a time for quiet sex because of the baby but there is a need to make up for it later with some more excitement.