Quote Originally Posted by xmordeciax
i think the issue here is your 19 and your going out with a guy almost twice our age! Obviously he's not gonna be as jumpy and excited as he used to be... find someone closer to ure age!
A relationship is about more than sex. If you haven't noticed he is my husband and we have a daughter togather. And he was jumpy and very energetic, but since being pregnant, having a child, and a few bodily changes, things have dropped off because we have to look at eachother as growing developing individuals and need to adapt accordingly. This is something we wanted to do before I became morning sick I figured it would maybe let him know that I'm ready to pick up where we left off. Alot of the issues here are related to me and my comfort level since a huge life change. If he was my age and the same guy it probably would have happened anyways, some people aren't as attracted to pregnancy, every one has preferences. It's time to move on, I just have to figure out how to do that to best suit us. This happens all the time after babies.

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He wants sex all the time and we can easily go 45 minutes or more with him on top, but I want more out of sex, I'm bored with what once got me off. The energy is there the chemistry has faded, I'm satisfied but I was to collapse into the sheets in a state of bliss after ..... wait no mfor others ears...