Quote Originally Posted by birdgirl73
I think Mattks1 is exactly right. Most people, in my experience, don't suck. It's just that the ones who do are the ones we remember more easily. My impression is that most people are pretty cool in at least some way. It's a matter of uncovering the coolness. I've learned that lesson here better than anywhere else, but it seems to extend to other parts of life and give me a nice sense of peace about people's differences.
Ditto.

Personally, the only thing that defines sucking, and not sucking, is suction.
But besides that, I really only care about respect, and positivity. If someone is disrespectful of others (ANY OTHERS), they suck. If they only see through a pessimistic pair of shades, then they also suck, although not as bad as the disrespectful ones.
I've stopped caring about intelligence, or beauty, or even humor.
Good people are good people.
That is all.