No, it's NOT alright! Ask yourself WHY he wants you to kill that cop! WHY he regards his Mother as a "rat" (even if she was). What messages are YOU (and his Mother) sending him? Kids do NOT spontaneously want to kill cops or defame their Mother. It is him echoing what he has heard from SOMEWHERE. If he is like this at age 3, what will he be doing at age 13? 23? You are treading on some very dangerous ground.

I was a child caught in the middle of a nasty divorce, so I know how that goes. Parents use their kid as a weapon against their ex. It is ugly and immoral and results in a screwed up kid! I am a mother and I work at a school with emotionally disturbed children. I am very worried about your child! -Granny:hippy: