for once im not sure what to say:0. I do agree with ur hubby that it would be better commin from u then a stranger, but thinkin about how u would say it is a hard one. i think u have the right idea with gettin her sumthing for christmas in a bigger size. then make sure u reasure her that it looks so much better and she looks slimer that works well.lol. other then that im not sure what else u can do :s!! sry babe wish i could help more.