"20 pounds of shit in a 5 pound bag!'
now thats brutally funny
i apologize for luaghing like blithering idiot
and u should tell her only if your friends ,real freinds,ya know
set her down say look,your ass does not fit in the clothes,once maybe,not now
and i say this cuase i care enough to not let you look like 20 pounds of shit in a 5 pound bag!(jokes,)
but yes tell her KINDLY but surely
just think if u notice her,,,,so do THEY and they dont see but the view,they dont know her or care what she is like,if she looks like
'20 pounds of shit in a 5 pound bag!"
somebody who dont care ,will surely piont that out in a cold manner,at the worst time,

hope it works out
peace