Ok, for the most part, everyone seems to agree that I need to say/do something to stop her madness. I've already made comments about "other ppl" (strangers) but she doesn't get the hint. She's trying to draw attention to her chest but the tight clothing is also showing all of her extra weight. I don't know how she breathes or sits down without being sliced in half by her own jeans. Well, I'll say something, I'll just have to find a nice way to put it. First, I think I'll buy her something to wear for Christmas in a bigger size, so maybe I can still skate out of having to say something and risk hurt feelings.