it doesnt matter what u do or say to ur mother. A mothers love for her child over comes it all. It dont matter what u do or say to her she is always goin to be there and love u unconditionally. But even tho this is true i can see y she gets upset when u dont call her or tell her ur stayin out. Losing ur father was prolly the worst thing that has ever happened to her. U are him and u are all she has left of him. She is prolly thinkin all kinds of things when u dont show up. I couldnt imagin bein in her shoes. U need to just show her everyday how much she means to u. Tell her u love her and show her. If ur not goin to come home and ur goin to stay out atleast make sure she knows what u are doin. There is nothing worse then waiting and wondering whats goin on. Make sure that when u fight u dont just let it go. Tell her that ur sry and want a better relationship with her. Moms love haveing and open relationship with there kids. We want to be ur friend. Just sit down with her and tell her the things that u shared with us. Tell her "mom i want to talk to u about sumthings that have been buggin me, and i just want u to listen til im done then tell me how it makes u feel." Be as open and honest as u can be. Trust me she is waiting for this. I hope things work for u sweety and good luck. Hug ur mom for me too k