I dont think the pain ever stops when u lose sumone that u love. I just think it gets easier to deal with as time passes on. I was with my ex for 10 years and we didnt have the best relationship at times, but when it was good it was good. and now that we are not together i think about it alot all the what ifs and shoulda coulda woulda's. I have accepted the fact that we just cant be together, But still when i got the devorice papers it almost killed me. Funny thing is im the one that wanted the devorice. I loved him more then anything in the world the love i felt for him is comparable to the love i have for my childern. Yet it wasnt enuff to make it work. I still hurt alot but its starting to get so much easier to deal with. Time heals all wounds babe im sure it will get easier for u too. just hang in there and keep ur head up. Theres many more fish in the sea. Im tryin to realize that i just went and bought bait and tackle im goin fishin this weekend. hahahahaha