ok thank you for the insight and replies and sorry i took some time to come back but theres a hole new addation to the puzzle, but first to dutch.lover no she is not on the pill (i wish she was). two her drinking if anything INCREASES her sex drive. and last when it comes to sex we have it when she wants, where, why, and how she wants. i have offered and tried to give her head and i never ask for anything that all just kinda happenes, but latley when i try to or offer she says no and gets mad that im tring. and to stinky when her and i talked she says that she just doesnt enjoy it, just doesnt want to have sex.

so the new piece, this weekend her brothers had a bday party at their house and it was nice sized and we all got drunk. well i went to get a beer for me, her, and her friend and when i come down stairs i see a guy talking to her friend sas their going outside to smoke so i follow them and as the guy is leaving he makes a gesture to his frind like hes going fuck her friend. so i become very obsevint (sp?) and when i get out side i see his arm around my girlfriends neck so i kinda get pissed and i wanted to punch the fucker in the face, but i didnt and was a gentalmen and firmly remove his arm, not jerking just picked up and moved back. well they turn around and she flips yelling what are you doing and runs off. well the guy says " hey man im a friend of the family iv known her since middle school i wouldnt do that to you girl man. plus i got a girlfriend so dont worry." and i tell him i didnt know and i was sorry and he said it was cool. so i went to find her.

shes in the front yard crying i go out there and she frips out: "hes my brothers friend and my friend!""why would you do that to my friend!""you cant do that!",ect. i tell her that i was sorry and that i didnt know he was a friend. she says " i dont care if i dont want a guys arm on me then ill move it and if you dont like that then just go home!" so i threw my beer in the street and jumped in my car and she stops me saying im to drunk, which was true. then i tell her about the guys gesture about her friend and she says "oh well i didnt know that, still gives you no right." well everything cools down and the night goes ok untile the po po show up and strait nock over a beercan covered table in her basement.

well as i ready to pass out we talked about it a little more and the fact comes out that she doesnt even like the guy as a friend. she actually hates him, in her own words. so i ask why it was such a big deal and she said i didnt want to be rude and make him think i didnt like him. and i thought to my self what the fuck she hates him but gets pissed that i moved his arm. so i kinda said what ever and passed the fuck out.

well the next day she comes over and everythings going fine till i say sorry about it and then we start arguing AGAIN about it and she ended up leaving at like 11, kind of pissed. about 2am rolls around and im almost a sleep and she calls saying she had a bad dream that some one was in my back yard and cum to find out it was her. she was drunk and drove back to my house and shes very horny. she comes in we smoke a bowl of hippie crack and have some of the best sex we have had in 6 months. the next night shes wearing this really short nice fucking skirt and is acting very playful like making me think she wants to have it again, well when i went for it she said that was a great suprise last night, arent you good for tonite and tomorrow. and i said yeah i just want to eat you out (because i love giving a girl head) and she said no and got mad.

so what the fuck?
JC