Quote Originally Posted by dutch.lover
I'm gonna try to work this through with you. First off, is she on birth control? Because it lowers sex drive substantially in a lot of women.
Beat me to it!
I was VERY unhappy and unhorny on the pill... it finally got to the point where it was like, dude seriously, I don't want to have sex like EVER, why even bother being on this stupid drug?

And yeah, I seriously suggest cutting down on the drinking because it can lead to depression and depression leads to a lack of interest in things you USED to enjoy, including sex. How old is she anyway?

And then about the other stuff... jealousy etc... it sounds like there's other issues... does she still dig you? Was that 'you can break up with me' her way of saying that she doesn't want to be with you any more? I know it sucks to think about but it's part of life; if you can't make a relationship work, it's healthier to end it before you are sitting there years from now wishing that you had freed yourself sooner.

Good luck!