kinda bummin

[birdgirl73]

Johnny, I've been thinking about this thread since this morning. I hate to tell you this, but while libido differences and her self-consciousness about weight gain may factor in a bit, she frankly is acting like a woman who's indirectly trying to tell you that she "wants a bit more space in the relationship," which generally translates to "wants out." Instead of dealing with you directly and telling you that straight out, she's not getting pleasure anymore from sex, not feeling like physical intimacy, flirting openly and hugging other guys in front of you, and getting angry. Sorry to put it this bluntly, but it really does sound to me like she's essentially saying she's not that into you anymore.

I know this wasn't the answer you wanted to hear, and I certainly didn't write this to be hurtful. I know this must be horribly painful for you. But I think you might need to consider this possibility. And if you want to spare yourself some future pain and can stand to, you might even ask her directly and see if she'll tell you honestly that that is indeed what's going on.

[kdspecial]

I'd have to agree with brid Girl Shes not being all there with you i'd say...

Girls are great for that....

your only 19 and 20....

Theres alot of drinking and mind games yet to come..... More sluts to bone and more gurls to date.....

Ask her upfront and you'll get the answers your looking for... As long as you know the signs to look for.

If she shys away and gets pissed shes lying forsure, Or doesn't know how to answer cuz she doesn't want to hurt your feelings.

If she answers right away with what you want to hear shes probs being honest,,,

If she gives a bit of both Its a tough call... I look right into the eyes when I want to find somthing out from a gurl, They will look away or start crying or get angry if they are hiding somthing,,,

It don't sound right but trust me You'll get over it,, welcome to the complicated mind of a Women.....

They sure are great tho.... Whats your really looking for ina women is your BESTFRIEND....

Everything else you can ask for... Sex, sympathy, fun times... ONe thing you can't make somone be is your BESTFRIEND,,,

kd

[kdspecial]

One more thing don't mention anything about getting advice on this Website,,,,

That will forsure piss her offf,,,,

kd

[invision]

you know i really want to thank you girls for the advice giving to this person, sounds to me like she wants out, you may want to just end up bring the issue right out in the open.

but back to you ladies, after reading your advice and all the problems every relationship encounters you girls tell it just like it is, your advice had made me understand my own girlfriend a lot better tonight as a person, you made even more reason why i love this woman to death.

[stinkyattic]

One more thing don't mention anything about getting advice on this Website,,,,
That will forsure piss her offf,,,,
kd

uh oh kd do I read something between the lines?

As for Johnny,
Head for the hills.
Life is too short to worry about this shit.
Drinking may increase her sex drive WHILE SHE IS DRUNK but in general will act as a depressant... do you want to only get to fuck drunk girls? F'real, you sound unhappy, go make yourself happy because a relationship can't do it on its own, especially an unhealthy one, and yours is running a bad case of mono atm.

[kdspecial]

uh oh kd do I read something between the lines?

hahahaha No No nothing has happened like that to me. Cuz I would never say

"Somone said that your acting like this cuz....." etc etc...

I learned that lession a long long time ago probs in High Shcool Or early college.....

If I did say somthing like that though It would be a death wish...



Jonny If you really want to figure gurls out Read "men Are From Mars Women Are from Venus"

It sounds stupid in the title, But its rreally tru and a worth while read. It really clears some things up. and puts things into perspective. I also suggest this book to the Ladies as well,,, Ever wonder why We don't like Talking? or always want to find a Solution to a problem?

kd

[stinkyattic]

hahahaha No No nothing has happened like that to me. Cuz I would never say
"Somone said that your acting like this cuz....." etc etc...
I learned that lession a long long time ago probs in High Shcool Or early college.....
If I did say somthing like that though It would be a death wish...
kd

lol some people never learn the lesson.. and in their 40s tell their spouse, "my shrink said you're acting that way because..." hahahahaha that's pretty bad, eh?

[napolitana869]

I'm going to have to agree with others and say that it sounds like she's not emotionally involved in the relationship anymore and wants out. Besides you sound unhapppy in it as well. You shouldnt have to worry about your girlfriend around other guys, drunk or sober. You sound like a nice guy and I'm sure theres other girls out there who would gladly be in a relationship with you. I dont know any girls that get angry when the person they love wants to go down on them. Good luck, you deserve better.