I can relate to most everybodies pet peeves on this subject. Generally speaking I have found that the only person I can change/be responsible is
myself. I wonder if folks don't give thanks when you hold a door open for them it may be a trust issue , like what is your ulterior motive for opening that door for me? You gay or something equally fucked up. I am happy to hear that other pot users at least try to show some manners.