most online shops use discreet shipping (the piece will come in a blank box or envelope and they usually have a phoney return adress) so u can tell mom its sumthin else as long as she doesnt open it. but if u dont have a CC u should probly go with a money order. i wouldnt send cash. especialy over-seas to like holland or smthing. and if u want to be extra stealthy you can have the package shipped to a local post office and go pick it up so it will never come to ur door and mom will never see it, good luckimp: