Heres how you send her bitchy ass a message. get a pickup truck 5 shovels and 5 friends. At 2am pull up and dig a hole as big as you can in about 10-15 minutes, putting the grass/dirt into the truck, then hop in drive 10 miles away to a predetermined spot and dump it. Then watch them lose their mind the next day when the wake up to a crater in their yard.