Damn son 14! You spark it first you know? Get it in the air, then you turn the water on. So while your smoking the water is getting hot. By the time any of the smoke clears you should of dip set by then. Dont worry man I still smoke in my moms bathroom when I go over there. I know what its like to be smoking under someone else's roof. Dont worry about it bro we all have to go through it at one point in our lives.