Thanx folks for the advice I really do appreciate it very much and as for the want ad?....well that was a dare from my friends cause their tired of seeing me single and actually being able to do things I want without having to get permission from the *BOSS* a.k.a. the *WIFE or GIRLFRIEND*...lmao........Oh well? suck's to be them I guess?....I'm just happy beeing me and chatting with all of folks on here......So I told my friends if that was a crime then lock me up and throw away the key but make sure I have a comp so I can come online and come to this site and have fun.....lol......Hope to hear from you all again real soon....Hotnorthernguy