you know what my real advice is? CHILL OUT! it's a toke, not prom. spark that shit and just play it by ear. make sure you're safe and you have time to explore yourself (don't want responsibilities your first time) but don't have any plans, cause most plans will be abandoned (at least, that's how I am) unless they're really important, in which case you really shouldn't be smoking right then... but yeah I wouldn't try to make a big deal of it or structure it, cause that's usually a buzz kill for me...