No Dest, it's an older brother actually. He's six years my senior, and is exceedingly self centered. He has an abrasive personality and the whole family pretty much struggles to get along with him. I am really excited about the entire process of growing Abunai. I have everything ready and waiting to try my first soil grow. I am also somewhat fascinated with hydroponics so after I have several soil crops under my belt I may buy some equipment and give hydro a try. I think I've read every single grow log on cannabis.com at this point. I have actually started a reference file for myself. Anytime I read about plant problems and the solutions the veteran growers offer I make note of it and add it to my file. The part that really confuses me devising a nutrient feeding scale and schedule. There are so many differing opinions that it can be tough to decide which route to follow.