The doors of sexuality.

[Ganj]

I think I am bi-sexual. I have reoccurring thoughts of having intercourse with another guy. Well I have accepted my sexuality, although not wholly. Intercourse with another male is still merely a dream...A very twisted one at that. I don't think I could do it. I don't think I could take it! I don't get it. How can someone's sexuality be affirmed unless they have explored the limits of their own interest without bailing out to avoid the judgments and torment of societies, friends, family?

Our sexuality would probably find us many places...Many queer places, no pun intended. Places many of us would not find ourselves in, unless the fear of humiliation had you screaming and running with your hands over your asshole, like someone was going to remove your penis on the spot.

Ganj Reviewed by Ganj on 03-18-2007. The doors of sexuality. I think I am bi-sexual. I have reoccurring thoughts of having intercourse with another guy. Well I have accepted my sexuality, although not wholly. Intercourse with another male is still merely a dream...A very twisted one at that. I don't think I could do it. I don't think I could take it! I don't get it. How can someone's sexuality be affirmed unless they have explored the limits of their own interest without bailing out to avoid the judgments and torment of societies, friends, family? Our Rating: 5

[blackbarbie]

you don't need to have sex with the same gender to affirm you're really hetero. you know you're straight if you're attracted only to the opposite sex.

[Gatekeeper777]

are you attracted to males? do you get a boner looking at what you would consider an attractive man like you would a girl?
Do you eat cucumbers and dream its his member in your mouth?
when you poo do you wish it was your "buddy" getting you with the OUT stroke?
if you answered yes to any of the above questions... you may be bi.

[Samwhore]

you could just be bi-curious,

[Breukelen advocaat]

Thoughts like the one you described usually do not mean anything. I have read that many homosexual people have "straight" fantasies, also - and have no intention of living them out.

Find a kinky girlfriend, or one that's willing to try, and you'll have enough to handle.

[Ganj]

are you attracted to males? do you get a boner looking at what you would consider an attractive man like you would a girl?
Do you eat cucumbers and dream its his member in your mouth?
when you poo do you wish it was your "buddy" getting you with the OUT stroke?
if you answered yes to any of the above questions... you may be bi.

No. But if there were no girls around that weren't off-limits to me being the friend I am, and if I had a half-bottle of rum with coke, then I could let myself get head from another dude as I affirmed yesterday when I was drunk on half a bottle of Malibu rum and fighting urges. Sometimes thoughts jump into my head and I can run with them or I can't, when I explore my thoughts on the matter, a strange comfort accepts them even when I continue to deny the absolution of my claim. Now it grows increasingly difficult to ignore what I have typed here today, as if I didn't mean it, despite what it confirms about my sexuality. To turn away would only take me further from reality than my life needs to be.

[Ganj]

The fact that I would even consider myself to be bi-sexual is interesting in itself! However, it's true I have thought about having sex with another male the notion comes from a fear that I was raped by a male friend while I was unconscious. I believed it was some irrational fear until the time came where another friend of mine admitted he too thought he was raped while he was unconscious. The fact of the matter is that these thoughts are pertinent to sexuality and although my orientation hangs in the balance, opening myself to my interests remains ever more important than disguising them with pride. This has "life lesson" written all over it.

[Hookah.]

im bi and thought itd just be too weird to be with another girl but once put in the situation...it just becomes different.
to be honest...if your having dreams about it..you probally are bi. but who cares. be yourself. id hate to be stuck in the closet my whole life. not be able to be me.

[dutch.lover]

dreams don't mean anything, really. if you dream you murdered someone, that doesn't make you a murderer does it? straight people have gay dreams and gay people have straight dreams, it doesn't change who they are or what sexual orientation they identify with. only ganj knows his sexual orientation, and I understand how confusing it can be when wondering if oneself is bi or not. Especially if you have lived your whole life assuming one sexual orientation, and then one day you start realizing that the same/opposite sex attracts you...

ps: I had quite a popular thread a while back entitled Theory of Sexuality, where I mentioned my own little theory of sexual orientation, and other people pitched in too. You might find it interesting.

[cannabis=freedom]

I'd do a guy only if it was Robert Plant. Because....come on, it's Robert Plant. He's the most beautiful thing that ever lived.