im at a young age and i would like to figure out a way to break the news to my parnets that i smoke weed cause im sick of aving to hide it :confused:
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im at a young age and i would like to figure out a way to break the news to my parnets that i smoke weed cause im sick of aving to hide it :confused:
how many years is "a young age"? and as far as breaking the news to your parents, I finally told my dad a few months ago and I'm almost 40! (but then again my dad was a NYC cop when I was growing up so I sure as shit wasn't going to tell him then.) So as far as how to tell your parents... you're on your own.
im 14 years old and i smoke about once er twice a week for about a year now
14 years old
i wouldent tell your parents unless your sure that they are cool wit it, becuase wut if they dont want you to? it will ruin your nice stoner life..lol
do wut you want, just givin you a heads up
thanks man
yeah man definitely don't tell you parents, i guarentee if their not cool as mine aren't, they'll wig out and ground you for your first half of senior year, fuck it sucked man. Oh well good luck and untill you move out your gonna have to avoid them or else they will never trust you again and they will hate you.
don`t tell them, they might put you in a rehab or something. wait till your older or on your own.
thanks but im just so used to going to my friends house and his mom saying to him dont get ur ashes on the floor or clean ur bowl out i wish my parents were like that
yeah man don't we all...
Oh man, that is so fuckin true! My parents do not trust me for anything. I dont have a car and they never EVER let me drive. They hide my dexadrine and all their cash from me lol, they took my fucking door off my bedroom!! They also search my room occasionally,read my journals, steal weed from me, it's pretty much as bad as it gets :( . Try as hard as you possibly can to keep your parents from finding out, and even then just tell them you do it on weekends only! :cool: :DQuote:
Originally Posted by TheKizzy
I told my mom like a month ago, I'm seventeen. I thought she would be okay with it, she wasn't. Well, bummer I guess, it didn't change anything.
Im 16 a Junior in High school and have been smokin for 3-4 years. Like a year and a half ago my mom and I got in a heated argument over somthing and she popped the question are you smoking like it had to do with my additude towards things, I told her no mom i dont but i have tried it who hasent, she then followed by telling me my 2 uncles(her 2 brothers) smoke weed, ones in prison for years for possesion (coke or somthing else) and the other one just moved out of his parents house at the age of like 42 because he couldnt find a stable job to support himself and his habbit. I told her i know and wont let that happen I cant it would hurt her to much. I left thinking she would leave it at that, a few days later im sitting with my dad (hes a cop) talking to him and he comes out saying "are you smoking" i said no i have he said if i ever catch you i will kick your ass and throw u in jail, not sure if it was the truth or just a scare tatic.Year or so went by and i guess im getting lazy about covering up my high because the last 2 weeks or so my mom keeps telling me i smell like smoke asking me have i been smoking. I simply say no but i think she knows somthings up. Then my dad popped the question agin, why do you smell like smoke blah blah blah i say no dad i havent started smoking weed agin i hang out with people that smoke and drink its there life i cant controll them he said ok and left it at that. I dunno what there planing but the least of my worries is a drug test the worst would prob be a drug test,me failing bad,and either being arrested by my dad and taken to jail just to scare me , or being sent to rehab or some military school.
If you think your parents are chill about the fact that you smoke weed and you can usally tell then tell them and explain to them that its not a bigg thing just a few times a week with some freinds, just dotn get cuaght up with the police or school and keep our grades up dont let them have any excuses as to why smoking weed is bad for you. good luck
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think how theyll react and if u do tell em make sure u mention how they dnt wake up finding you withotu a hangover and how they dnt find u pukin down da toilet and use the common mariujana vs alchohol arugment.
good luck ;)
if my dad arrested me becasue he found out i smoked i would never forgive him, never! that must really suck for you day dreamin but you got it under control about coverin it up. my mums cool with me smokin she knows im responsible about it. if your gonna tell your parents youve got to be mature about it and sit them down and tlak to them like your an adult. also print out the faq about weed on this site and talk to them about that and how its not as bad as every1 says it is. i agree with the guy that said use the alcohol vs weed arguement. good luck whatever you decide to do.
My dad caught me at the beginning of senior year, and that was fuckin' it, since I didn't get that good've grades he fuckin' wigged out, like he was sooo ashamed with me. I then got into college granted I have never done well academically in my life. My first semester I study soooo hard and smokin' weed everyday, I pulled off a 4.0 and he shut the fuck up. Bitch, ruined my senior year for me it sucked no parties, grounded, no trust just goin' to work school and home and chillin' with my little bro who is 8 yrs at the time. Point is I know my dad smoked weed because my mom told me,(me and my mom are totally cool about it), she won't tell my dad, get this I have even smoked a j with my mom, well not directly but she was with her friend who's been puffin' for like 30 yrs. and she hit right in front of me, my mom rocks. But anyways my dad is insane and he wigged out, what an idiot, he thinks you can't do great things while smokin' "This Shit," well I proved him wrong, peace to all and keep smokin' just be smart and keep your grades up, its not that hard just a little effort as I found out...
Peace and Good Luck to everyone
Smoking weed is bound to be against ur parents wishes..especially as ur so young but telling them is something else. Your choice too bring this out in t open with them is a good one, ur parents will think more of u knwing u took it upon urself to bring it up rather than hide it from or lie to them.
As daydreaminfaze said...give them nothing to push the weed being bad point. Keep ur grades up at school, work hard and prove to them that smoking weed isnt necesarilly a bad thing.
If of course things happen to go tits up :rolleyes: ...which is t risk u tk, i suggest you allow time for t dust too settle and discuss it with them further. I suspect if ur parents tell u its not allowed, u will do anyway so instead of hide it or lie, tell them so. Keep it away from them, dont let it bring negativity into ur life and be straight with ur parents. Come to an agreement tht keeps everyone happy.
And remember...u still hv plenty of time to do these things yet, u cant always do what u want when u want and whether u like it or not u r still a child who should respect their parents wishes. At 14 i do not think u should be smoking but all i cn do is offer u t best advice to follow and make ur own decisions, u have a mind of ur own so use it.
Im sure u will be able to work out what is t best thing to do. Good luck n let us knw how it goes :)
*hugs*
socks xxx :rolleyes:
thanks yall
lol dude odds are your parents will not take it well. and by that my advice is do not tell them. tell them when your 30 and have a stable life and living on your own ect...doing it now since your young..wont be pretty. lost of trust, they'll be on your ass about everything from HW, tests, they'll hound you for where your going and will phone you constantly. if you think sneaking and hiding it from them is bad wait till you tell them. i would stick to the hush hush.
dude... that sounds like my asshole parents.Quote:
Originally Posted by powair
Don't tell them. Keep your grades up, your attitude down, and yourself together. Years down the road when you're on your own and hopefully doing well for yourself; that's the time to say something. The only way to break down the walls of misconceptions that have been made is by showing that you can still be successful with responsible use.
i wish i could tell me parents but last time i got caught my mom went into a depression for a week. dont just go up to them and be like i smoke weed all the time, if you are gonna tell them ease it into a conversation.
i broke the news to my parents. well, me and my mom were having a deep talk a few months ago, and i just told her. shes very open about her habits when she was my age and older, (she told me about how she used to grow hydro in her college dorm lmfao) but i just told her and shes like OK but i said i only tried it not that its a habit.
man my parrents SOOOO know. on top of other things, i left my lighter out the other day.
the day i tell my parents is the day i am out on my own (own apartment/house, paycheck) so not really the exact day but when i am able to support myself
i told my mom when i was 13 and my dad caught me when i was 14 im now 16 and my mom doesnt care at all and smokes weed with me and my dad doesnt really care but hes still against it...
my parents know i smoke but its not talked about ever... they dont say anything and i dont say anything and everyones happy. i want to sit my dad down, cuz he's more open to it, and put him on norml.org and make him read it. then maybe he'll let me smoke in my house, which is what i hope to accomplish with this tactic.
420purplehaze420 I hope that's a picture of your ass!!! :) Wooooow
Hehe, anyway...oh wait, you're 16 now? I guess I should hope it's not your ass lol..
Once again, anyway, my parents figured it out when I was 14 when I tried to run away from home haha. My dad found my toy chest was converted into a pot growing chest. :) He wasn't too happy about the whole thing, and of course over the course of the next few years he would rip the other plants out too. :(
When I was 17 (25 now) though my mom said if me and my cousin watched my little sister so my mom could go out, that she would give us something to smoke. We did and she did, but it was really old since she didn't smoke and not very good at all. I remember barely feeling anything. Another time though my cousin and I were driving with my mom and she pulls into a nice house in Stamford, (Connecticut) and we're like, ummm, in case you didn't know we don't feel like meeting your friends or whatever. My mom was like, oh, ok but this guy has like $20,000,000 and likes to smoke pot. We were both like, ok lets visit him. :) He had an awesome house, awesome hot tub, and some awesome Jamaican. :) That was the first and only time I smoked in front of my mom and she was making fun of us because we were sooooo high.
just get yourself cought. im 14 and was cought pretty recently.
i almost got so busted yesterday i smoked a hooter and put the roach in my hoodie pcoket and when i got inside i took my hoodie off and the roach fell out i seen it happen but was to scared to react so i just sat on the coach and watched my dog run up and eat it.
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Originally Posted by Dankmike