Bad situation

so i posted this on sum1s thread about girl problems... and while i was typing this i finally noticed how fucked up it was...

ex: "lizzy" whom will now be known as "subject-L"
ex: "aleigha" whom will now be known as "subject-A"
ex: "krystal" now "subject-K"

subject-L and i dated casually or whatever hung out for several months had a decent relationship an shit but i got locked up and when i got out she had another man and i was clownin wit other females etc. so we kind of grew apart that way but to this day shes still one of my closest friends

never gotten over me, tries to get with me every chance possible

i asked subject-a out an we talked on tha phone, texted etc. for like a week an a half, we never had ANYTHING physical i never so much as kissed the girl, so she hears rumors of me cheating on her with subject-k and dumps me, very very very regrettable decision, and to this day she still tells me it was one of her worst decisions of her life

so anyways basically same thing on a worse scale she got depressed and trippin over me, affected really badly emotionally, gave up on men/dating for a few months, etc.

now shes mostly over me and moved on and is also one of my closest female friends

after subject-a and i broke up i got with subject-k and we mainly just drank and fucked a lot for maybe 4-5 months, somehow fell in love but this time it was both ways instead of one-way

broke up with her yesterday because of heavy use of white nasal narcotics

contemplating going back to subject-L

the twist: she's pregnant with that other dudes baby

im 100% sure that as soon as subject-k can get her nose clean(pun intended;) ) we will get back together (we both are very clear on how much we are in love with each other and want to spend our lives together)

ok now does anybody have any advice, questions, concerns, similar situations, etc.

and if i go back with subject-L, become a father figure in the child's life, would that be wrong to do, and then get back with subject-k at a later point? what type of effect would this have on the child? on the mother even? etc. i'd b glad to hear what my fellow cannabis users have to say

Wait wait wait, how old are you dude? haha. Anyways just go with "subject k", she seems cool. Don't even bother with the other chick dude, that's just like fucked up, I wouldn't get myself involved.

i just turned 16

subject A and L are 15

subject k is 17

the thing is subject L is one of my closest friends, closer than most of my guy friends and i care about her a lot, she was jus wit 1 of my best friends an he broke up wit her cuz she had that other dudes baby in her, an shes going thru a LOT a bull shit in her life right now i dont need to go into details

yes im sticking with subject k in the end but for now would it be good or bad to get with subject L for a while? im trying to find her a good b/f that'll treat her right an shit but those are pretty hard to find

what im planning on doing is spending time and shit wit subject L but i dont want her thinking that we're "together" or have any thoughts of anything long-term

and fuck subject A when she comes back (she recently moved to denver and is coming for spring break in like 3 weeks)

Well dude this is a pretty weird situation. I say you should help L out, but seems like you really like K man. And A I guess yeah you should just mess around with her. But deffinatley try to help out L if she is your friend.

Help out whomever you can, when you can.

Otherwise, don't worry about love yet... you gotta a shitload of life ahead of you

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Originally Posted by couch-potato

Help out whomever you can, when you can.

Otherwise, don't worry about love yet... you gotta a shitload of life ahead of you

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yea seriously, thats a lot of commitment to make at the age of 16.

support L as a friend, help K get clean and then see what happens with you and K then.

Do not try to be the babys daddy, when you leave, L and the baby will be torn and pissed off.

If you feel love with K, might as well make the most of it:thumbsup:

and these fucked up police! its about coming up and staying on top and screamin 1-8-7 on a motherfucking cop.

havent heard that song in ages

be that good friend of L you say you are, and wait for K to get clean - if you do really think you and K have something going on, dont throw A into the equation

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Originally Posted by higher4hockey

and these fucked up police! its about coming up and staying on top and screamin 1-8-7 on a motherfucking cop.

havent heard that song in ages

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ya baby it dont stop!!!!!

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Originally Posted by higher4hockey

and these fucked up police! its about coming up and staying on top and screamin 1-8-7 on a motherfucking cop.

havent heard that song in ages

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you know what... u guys reminded me of the other reason i live for, besides my weed money & bitches

great rap music

i have that video on my myspace lol

Be there for L as a friend. That means dont sleep with her, even if she wants you to. You can be a good role model in that childs life by respecting its mother and being there to help out if they need it. Kind of like an uncle or something. If you really love K dont mess around with other girls in the mean time. You may think "well I'm young and horny" but bringing a third person into the situation will make it harder for you and K to get back together. Things like that hurt girls. A lot. It may even make it harder for her to get clean. I think you made the right choice by breaking up with her until she gets clean though. If your relationship was strong enough maybe that could be the push she needs to get her life in order. Good Luck.

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Originally Posted by napolitana869

Be there for L as a friend. That means dont sleep with her, even if she wants you to. You can be a good role model in that childs life by respecting its mother and being there to help out if they need it. Kind of like an uncle or something. If you really love K dont mess around with other girls in the mean time. You may think "well I'm young and horny" but bringing a third person into the situation will make it harder for you and K to get back together. Things like that hurt girls. A lot. It may even make it harder for her to get clean. I think you made the right choice by breaking up with her until she gets clean though. If your relationship was strong enough maybe that could be the push she needs to get her life in order. Good Luck.

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thats the exact word i used today when i talked to her

"i could be more like an uncle or somethin"

great minds think alike ainit

Man you got too much drama in your life.

Stay away from the pregnant one.

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Originally Posted by Pipe Dreams

Man you got too much drama in your life.

Stay away from the pregnant one.

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lol... no

"the pregnant one" and i have been the closest of closest of friends for several years

lol her ex who is one of my closest boys refers to her as "the cut one" i beleive we are going to start using "the pregnant one" now

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Originally Posted by Jake Martinez

Subject K. Not only because she's the best of the three, but because she sounds like the test name for some mind-expanding drug XD

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umm... i already know this... if u read the thing... subject k and i are broke up temprarily, we're getting back together

mostly i was asking what to do in the mean time, not who to pick

but i had a very very deep discussion with a friend about the situation and im getting back with subject-k after a blunt and long discussion of emotions

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Originally Posted by Jake Martinez

Interim relationships lead to trouble.

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whats interim mean?

i have a 140 IQ im sure i "get it" i jus never heard of the word before and was asking

but that would be some good advice if you had a reason why theyre trouble... i dont see anything wrong with it...

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Originally Posted by JeenYuss

lol... no

"the pregnant one" and i have been the closest of closest of friends for several years

lol her ex who is one of my closest boys refers to her as "the cut one" i beleive we are going to start using "the pregnant one" now

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Stay friends with her, just keep your dick in your pants fool.


Youre fuckin 15 or 16 years old, you dont know shit anyways.

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Originally Posted by Pipe Dreams

Stay friends with her, just keep your dick in your pants fool.


Youre fuckin 15 or 16 years old, you dont know shit anyways.

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i'll try:)

but i know more than you think... a LOT more

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Originally Posted by Jake Martinez

So do I, so don't brag about it to me. Besides, any good teacher knows to make sure their student understands his/her teaching.

Because someone's heart will end up broken. It could be the interim girlfriend, it could be the girlfriend you want, or it may be yourself.

The interim when you have to break up with her for the other one.

The other one when she realizes you had to have someone else with you.

And possibly yourself if both girls tell you to fuck off.

That's why I say they're trouble and why I avoid them.

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Well I try to get laid as much as possible, but I dont have all this drama and shit in my life. Only with ONE girl, not like 3.

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Originally Posted by Jake Martinez

So do I, so don't brag about it to me. Besides, any good teacher knows to make sure their student understands his/her teaching.

Because someone's heart will end up broken. It could be the interim girlfriend, it could be the girlfriend you want, or it may be yourself.

The interim when you have to break up with her for the other one.

The other one when she realizes you had to have someone else with you.

And possibly yourself if both girls tell you to fuck off.

That's why I say they're trouble and why I avoid them.

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subject a aka "interim" already had her heart brokeded when she dumped me an i gat wit subject k, then after that she found out she broke up wit me for no reason anyways

i havent been on this shit in like a month... last night subject k was all drunk/high.etc. an broke up wit me... happens every once in a while i dump her or she dumps me... we'll b back tagether within like a week...

i decided to stick wit subject K even tho shes does yay, she hasnt been doin it lately an me bein wit her prolly helps her have just one more reason not to

subject K and L are just fucked oh well... i still hang out wit'm pop a couple bottles or whatever but they aint gettin no cutty

oh and i was referring to them as subjects cuz i was high when i originally posted it an it sounded cool as hell, so then i jus decided ta stick wit it

Doesn't everyone have an IQ of 140 on the internet?

naw not really i tested at 132 before an 138 an 142 but i jus say 140 cuz it sounds better

this aint about that i was tryna c if ppl had similar situations or could help me give me advice or whatever