Is what I did wrong??

Ok so like 2 or 3 days ago me and my gf of 4 months broke up. I did at one time like her a lot, but she just got jealous and shit, and she just pissed me off a lot. Well on valentines day, we went on like a double date thing. We were all baked except for her best friends boyfriend. Well i guess my gf got pissed off cuz she thought me and her best friend were flirting. Which i dont know if i was or not. Well newayz...i just recently broke up with her, and she was crying and everything. She took it pretty hard. Plus she just paid for me to get a new glass pipe about a week ago. She never use to get along with my friends....and she never smoked. But once she got the feeling i was gonna break up with her, she started trying really hard to get me not to. Buying me weed, buying me that pipe...smoking with me and my friends, she apparently didn't get along with.

But yeah, last night me and her EX best friend hung out. We had been talking for a few days...and last night we got blitzed and had a good time. It was all too random....but in a good way. And at the end of the night....we fucking made out and shit...I was just wondering if you guys, or girls think this is fucking wrong...and if im an asshole or what.

Well you were broken up when you did it right? Because if so then your fine.

You are a free man.......

i believe your in the right:thumbsup:

Debatable really. If the relationship wasn't serious then I guess it's fine, but if it was then you're out of line in my opinion.

haha her best friend is a whore. who the fuck sells out their best friend like that? not your fault, but i wouldn't trust that new chick!

I would see it as wrong whereas others wouldnt, however, the fact that you were "with" your ex must mean you Should have had feelings for her.
True feelings and getting it on with the friend just dont click and is flatout dirty.

All I can say is...you did a good thing by breaking up with her.
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(other half of me says)

You're young and need to live life the way you want to live it! Don't be scared of anything and fuck those who don't agree haha.
What you did was natural...sometimes us guys tend to think with our dicks :thumbsup:

Well...is the EX best friend the same girl that she accused you of flirting with?
It sounds like you were flirting with her when your gf accused you...you were like "I don't know if I was flirting or not" - not that that's wrong...but maybe you liked this girl even when you were still with your gf? So....since you're not with your gf anymore I guess she can't really say anything...but I could understand your ex gf being a little pissed since she suspected it anyway! My advice to you is to always be honest with yourself...if you liked her before...you should have broken up with your gf earlier...but hopefully you are happy now...I dunno - just my 2cents - Peace!!

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But yeah, last night me and her EX best friend hung out.

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Wait, is this the same friend she thought you were flirting with?

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Originally Posted by PatrickHenry

haha her best friend is a whore. who the fuck sells out their best friend like that? not your fault, but i wouldn't trust that new chick!

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QFMFT!

You're not wrong but I do see it as a bit fucked up because if your ex finds out, it's going to make her feel even worse that you got over her so quickly, with her friend no less. You know what I mean?

Dude, you and your girl where/are in a doomed relationship anyway. Plus you were broke up..don't be trying to get back with her cause you want a new bong. lol

Your ex gf almost certainly will find out, and she will be hurt. So if you believe that hurting people is wrong, then yes. On the other hand, you can't live your life only trying to keep others happy. Shades of grey, Kiddo.


If this new fling looks like it is going to become a regular deal, you could do some damage control with the ex... Sit down with her and clearly tell her that the two of you won't be getting back together, and that you're seeing someone new. Explain that you're not telling her this to be hurtful, but rather that after what the 2 of you shared, you feel it is right to be honest, and that you want her to be able to move on.

And stop accepting gifts from the ex. That's kinda sleazy.

Good luck!

Technically not wrong but morally cold. I agree with JR.....first thing you need to do is learn to be honest with yourself.

Well, an unspoken rule is you don't date your best friends ex. Your ex just wanted to hold to you and got a little paranoid and uptight, which is almost understandable for some girls, but that doesn't make it a good thing. If your ex knows you made out with her friend she's gonna be piiiissssed! lol

yeah the girl i've been talking to now, IS the girl she accused me of flirting with. And wen i did start liking her, i was on the verge of breaking up with my gf newayz. I know its kinda wrong, but i guess i do think with my dick too much. Im just a horny bastard and thats all i can say lol. And i think she knows that me and her EX best friend have been talking. Shit gets around in small towns.

It's all gravy.

Quagmire can do anything he damn well pleases.

your a single man now. enjoy it. :jointsmile:

Girl in Quagmire's bed: "Glen honey, I got a question for you. What do you do for a living?"
Quagmire: "I got a question for you. Why are you still here?"

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Originally Posted by PatrickHenry

haha her best friend is a whore. who the fuck sells out their best friend like that? not your fault, but i wouldn't trust that new chick!

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Hahaha exactly what I was thinking..

But don't worry about it man. Fuck drama like that.

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Originally Posted by SonicBloom

Quagmire can do anything he damn well pleases.

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lol

sounds a bit fishy to me. as soon as your ex finds out, shes gonna start ranting that she was right all along. do you want that kind of stress/drama in your life? your a free man now, but getting with her best friend, when she would care and shortly after you all broke up, is gonna cause some problems.

I smell BS...

sew your seeds buddy

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Originally Posted by Skink

I smell BS...

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that sucks dude im sorry, must be stinky.. haha..

but idk dude, you were broken up.. and shit so basically your free...

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Originally Posted by GotWake88

Girl in Quagmire's bed: "Glen honey, I got a question for you. What do you do for a living?"
Quagmire: "I got a question for you. Why are you still here?"

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Def one of my favorites ;)

Or another one by Alex Borstein..

Quagmire: hey brian, what do ya think of my sign?
Brian: ''Quagmire's cross country tour''...Isnt there an ''o'' in ''country''?
Quagmire: nop!

I think you wanted to fuk her friend so you made it happen... you had no regard for your girlfriend and she was nice to you... You could of kept your dick in your pants at least long enought to let your GF got over U...

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Originally Posted by blazed620

Ok so like 2 or 3 days ago me and my gf of 4 months broke up. I did at one time like her a lot, but she just got jealous and shit, and she just pissed me off a lot. Well on valentines day, we went on like a double date thing. We were all baked except for her best friends boyfriend. Well i guess my gf got pissed off cuz she thought me and her best friend were flirting. Which i dont know if i was or not. Well newayz...i just recently broke up with her, and she was crying and everything. She took it pretty hard. Plus she just paid for me to get a new glass pipe about a week ago. She never use to get along with my friends....and she never smoked. But once she got the feeling i was gonna break up with her, she started trying really hard to get me not to. Buying me weed, buying me that pipe...smoking with me and my friends, she apparently didn't get along with.

But yeah, last night me and her EX best friend hung out. We had been talking for a few days...and last night we got blitzed and had a good time. It was all too random....but in a good way. And at the end of the night....we fucking made out and shit...I was just wondering if you guys, or girls think this is fucking wrong...and if im an asshole or what.

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So what happened to your ex gf's ex best friends bf from the double date. She break up with him for you? And is she not your ex gf best friend because she was flirting with you or something? If so then there might be a girl fight you should video tape that shit and put it on this thread i would want to see that shit.:thumbsup:

There are rules but you are young and they still haven't registered so I'll not get on ya.
Next time you see your old gf, it would be decent if you paid her the money she spent on you.. Poor girl was buying you things, trying to get you to love her and you took advantage of that. THEN you mess with her best friend. That's the #1 no-no as it causes so much trouble and heartache.


Hey, you're young, you're free....have fun but don't hurt others.:jointsmile:

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Originally Posted by smokeblunts3

So what happened to your ex gf's ex best friends bf from the double date. She break up with him for you? And is she not your ex gf best friend because she was flirting with you or something? If so then there might be a girl fight you should video tape that shit and put it on this thread i would want to see that shit.:thumbsup:

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yeah well they broke up, and now believe it or not...i guess me and her ex best friend are together. And now my ex girlfriend is talking to her ex best friend's ex boyfriend. Confusing i know. So its like a total switch around. But i think they are just doing it to get us jealous. But me and this girl really like each other. We have soo much more in common then me and my ex did. She gets along with my friends, and she smokes weed and she's got a hot fucking body. And yeah some shits been getting started, and she wants to fight my ex. and they aren't friend ne more cuz of that, plus my ex is a two faced bitch that talks shit behind ppls backs. GOD.......highschool drama...3 more months....and im done:stoned:

Harsh dude.

Poor girl.

You're an asshole.

:)

you broke up with her
its over
you were single
don't feel bad
and if she tries to make you feel bad don't because you didn't do shit wrong