Feeling Evaded

Now I know this is long but I really need opinions. Thank you for your time, Triv.


Alright so heres my deal. In september I made the stupidest mistake I could but I thought he was a good friend because he was at the time. I didnt feel that he would rip me off in anyway what so ever but he has obviously betrayed my trust. A certain someone Ill use the name "John" to describe this. Alright so me and a few other were chilling at my place and my buddy John comes over and at this point me and my buddys are all high on e and what not, now not like most people I can handle my shit on e and not feel that generous/giving feeling left right and center I just want you guys to know this wasnt out of stupidity. Ive known John for about 4-5 years so here it is. Alright so my friend John comes over and starts chillin, soon enough he starts doin some lines with us because I offered it to him because hes a good friend of mine right. We ended up going on a week long binge, all of us and there was 6 of us including John. So throughout the weak I fronted beans to certain friends you know, so I wouldnt have to keep putting my shit down and pull from my pocket all the time. The course of time went over and the week was over, my totals have were added up and John owed me 280$ and 2 of my other friends owed me under 150$ because they werent that good of friends and thats as high as I would let it go. Now John still hasnt payed me to this day and its now almost the end of february, the other 2 who werent even good friends just occasional buyers payed me back asap. Over the past 5-6 months its been John hasnt even botherd to call me, or let me know what hes doing. He doesnt have a job and last time I talked to him he said he was getting a job with his uncles moving company. That was before just after the new year. I havent heard from him since, or seen him for a long while now. Im wondering what I should do, he is a good friend but yet I want my money so Im not going to do anything rational yet. I sit here every day doing nothing but pondering when the fuck hes going to give me my money. I try to contact him but no answer. Need your guys opinions on this one as they have always been much more clearer then real life people who kiss your ass because you sell hard shit.

dude...its $280....whats this guy doing trying to avoid you over something so low as that?
you need to catch him face to face and have a good stern talk with him about the principles of business

you offered, thats your fault, you cant expect someone to pay if you offered, now, this thread will be deleted

Talk to one of his friends. Maybe if you feel confident set up a confrontation where he dosn't know you'll be there.

personally i would tell him bring me 280 in 5 days or ill shoot you and ill have my 280 worth of fun. but a more logical way is to have a serious talk. samwhore is right though u offered it to him, what else can u expect???

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Originally Posted by Samwhore

you offered, thats your fault, you cant expect someone to pay if you offered, now, this thread will be deleted

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nah if it was going to be deleted a mod would have done so already instead of moving it.

when it comes to money, you really never know who to trust.... an aquantince may pay you back asap just because that's how their morals go, while a really good freind, may never pay you back...

i don't front money for anything anymore... i learned the hard way... i won't even let people borrow my shit anymore... and if they got a problem with it they can kiss my ass... i done been burned too many times.

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Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho

nah if it was going to be deleted a mod would have done so already instead of moving it.

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which is tarded because it goes against the rules, but skinks the only one on and I dont think he read it entirely. ive noticed too many threads with talk about other drugs these days

Let him know whats up.

Maybe give him a dead line, "If you don't have anything to show in the next week, we got problems"

but if your going to confront him, you have to do something. show up at his house and kick his ass. If he'd pull that shit on you, hes not really a friend.

If you offered it and didn't nut up and tell him it was going to cost him before you gave it to him, you've got no one to blame but yourself. I'm sure he just assumed it was free because you were good friends. Case in point, John is not a very good friend, and although I don't know your history with him, I'd assume you're probably not going to get any money from him any time soon.

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Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho

i don't front money for anything anymore... i learned the hard way... i won't even let people borrow my shit anymore... and if they got a problem with it they can kiss my ass... i done been burned too many times.

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Yeah, I remember that story. That guy was a pretty extreme dink though, especially to say your the one who's ungrateful.

The reason that stuck with me is because I had a buddy like that once... It just really sucks, because you still like them, their still your friend you enjoy being with, but then when they pull shit like that, it's just so hard ...nearly impossible... to move forward with that friendship, because when they show that kind of disrespect, you know the friendship means less to them than it does to you.

Anyway, Peace.

Fuuuuck it man! Drive by his house one night with the uzi and light it up as a warning. He'll come home with bullet holes riddling the house, and be freaked out. Then, call him in a few days and tell him you want your money.

Whatever else you do from there is on your own, cause I aint sayin shit.

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Originally Posted by Pipe Dreams

Fuuuuck it man! Drive by his house one night with the uzi and light it up as a warning. He'll come home with bullet holes riddling the house, and be freaked out. Then, call him in a few days and tell him you want your money.

Whatever else you do from there is on your own, cause I aint sayin shit.

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first off...where is he gonna get an uzi? second...how is noone gonna hear that uzi being fired....third...his friend would probably just call the cops if he called a few days later asking for the money.

Samwhore. Stfu. I did not offer him shit, he asked to front it wich is why his debt became. I dont just go around offering people if they wanna front beans off me, thats the stupidest thing Ive ever heard. Plz do me a favour and dont come back here and post your bullshit. Why would my thread get deleted? There is many more threads on this forum about selling drugs, or ecstacy, or acid, or w.e you think Im talking about.

Everyone else. I know 280$ is low but I would much rather prefer the 280$ instead of going out and paying another 100$ for him to be scared for his life. Anyway thx for the reading&responses guys, I remind you I dont wanna shoot this guy up lol, I have known him for 4 years. Anyway Im goin lookin for him tommorow, and if I cant find him then Ill find one of his buddys who can set something up. Im not sure how frank I should make this conversation or not, Should I treat it like hes ripping me off?

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Originally Posted by Trivium

Samwhore. Stfu. I did not offer him shit, he asked to front it wich is why his debt became. I dont just go around offering people if they wanna front beans off me, thats the stupidest thing Ive ever heard. Plz do me a favour and dont come back here and post your bullshit. Why would my thread get deleted? There is many more threads on this forum about selling drugs, or ecstacy, or acid, or w.e you think Im talking about.

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you said this

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Originally Posted by Trivium

Ive known John for about 4-5 years so here it is. Alright so my friend John comes over and starts chillin, soon enough he starts doin some lines with us because I offered it to him because hes a good friend of mine right.

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say that you fronted it to him in the first place :p

And you thread would have gotten deleted because your talking about E and coke

LOL I offerd lines to him, not the 280$ rofl. The 280$ was over the course of the week fool. & There is more threads on this site that talk about ecstacy and coke that dont get deleted .... To clear things up , the 280$ is a drug debt because he fronted more n more shit off me throughout the week wich was cool because he is a good friend. No money was loaned it was just to keep his high goin for tha week.

EDIT :: go to advanced search -- keywords ecstacy cocaine lololol 2 pages of threads.

samwhore chill out he just barely mentioned it.......you arent a mod

trivium, get ahold of him, and tell him you NEED that money back NOW. if he says he doesnt have it, tell him you need it within a week, and tell him he had better have it at the end of that week

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Originally Posted by d00d989

samwhore chill out he just barely mentioned it.......you arent a mod

trivium, get ahold of him, and tell him you NEED that money back NOW. if he says he doesnt have it, tell him you need it within a week, and tell him he had better have it at the end of that week

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Thank you, this was the kind of post I was looking for.
Much thanks d00d.

i remember when we could talk about any drugs we wanted on this web site

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Originally Posted by Samwhore

you offered, thats your fault, you cant expect someone to pay if you offered, now, this thread will be deleted

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Admin in training?

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Originally Posted by TheAtomicPunk

Admin in training?

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More like a wannabe adimn, but won't get selected, so is twisted about it. All these factors make ya want to try harder, pulling up loads of non-entities, trying to make it into something bigger than it is, and just making a mess.

You get more respect by not picking at every little thing, trying to prove something. Sam, just toke a Jay, and chill a bit.

Dude, I agree with sam. Its not really fair to pick and choose which posts to delete. I had a thread deleted that made a vague referance to another drug, and it got burned right away. My story wasnt even about that thing, it was just a casual referance, but it still got deleted. But, oh well. Lifes not fair.

Back to the original post.. I would tell him he was a week to give you the money. If he doesnt pay up, go over and kick his ass. Dont kill him, just hurt him. Give him three more days. If he doesnt pay up again, break his kneecaps with a metal baseball bat (they dent more than wood, but just sound so much cooler when they hit bone). Tell him youll be back tomorrow to get the money. If he still doesnt have it, start removing fingers and toes.

He should get the picture soon enough.

My advice is to just flat out tell him that if he doesn't have your money the next time you see him, he won't like it. (That will make him think)

I'm not suggesting to beat his ass or anything, but if he actually owes you money, you need to be a man, and tell him how it is, bro. Give him a good slap across the head, and tell to get to get out of your site if he doesn't have it when you see him next. That is a humiliating experience...trust me, I know.

If he doesn't pay, then count it as a loss and cut him off entirely. Let others know about his shady business ethics, and maybe you'll save another poor gullibite from getting burned. You can't get blood from a turnip, or so they say....

yup yup


Junk~ :smokin:

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Originally Posted by cambam

Sam, just toke a Jay, and chill a bit.

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I cant court issues and UA's

lmao, it's kinda your fault to trust an e-tard to be brutally honest. That binge must've been fun, takes me back!

Anyway, find people that know him and pay him a visit. That's really the only way you are going to get your money back.

Ok back with an update. I did as you told me and I confronted him and told him to give me my fucking money or else. He asked or else what so I fucking told him to use his imagination , I think 3-4 days ago I got my cash. Anyway thanks for all the advice heh. Sometimes that scares the fuckers too. BTW He wasnt an etard ;) He was a good buddy of mine and we decided to have a good time throughout the week and we were working in same place at the time so I thought it was aight, You'd think good buddy + same job = pay you back asap. lol ... I also told pretty much every dealer I know about his shit and they cutting him from any business unless its good.

Once again, thank you all. Never will I get the short end of the stick -.-