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This is to be looked at when your otherhalf wants some lov'n. How ofter are you just not feeling it. 1 out of every 5 attempt by your other half your not intrested, 1 out of two attemps, or are you only interested in sex about 25% of the time your partner is? How guilty do you feel about just flat out saying Not Now, and are you strait foward or try to buffer it with some kindness or soft demenor or words?
hm, if im not in the mood im not, I have no problem saying no
never ild have sex all day everyday if i could:jointsmile:
this girl that i'm sleeping with at the moment ( we're not dating or anything, we just sleep together) i would say 9/10 times i'm not in the mood. i dont know why, but my sex drive just doesn't seem to be very high. when i was dating this girl about two years ago i was the same way, we had sex a lot, but it wasn't uncommon for me to say no not tonight. and when i say no not tonight, i dont butter it up.
im pretty much up for sex all the time. the only times i say no, is when i feel like im too high to handle it. other times when im high, i get super horny. it's weird.
if it looks tempting to dive in, ill dive in. im not always in the mood, but a little rubbing/sucking/etc can make me get in the mood.
Never had that problem. I am always in the mood.
For me I'm not in the mood all the time, but consider myself about average 1-3 times a week, but if I'm not in the mood I'm willing to try and get in the mood with a little palying around but if I'm not after that then its a no go lets just chill and watch some TV or do something else together, I don't like to leave her alone right after I flat out say no to her but I leave that up to her.
When your mate starts saying i'm not in the mood a lot after they always were it's time to check their e-mail...
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Originally Posted by dutch.lover
oddly enough I am NEVER in the mood until I see my lovely g/f whereupon Im instantly ready. Its getting annoying becuase I dont always want to screw her brains out. Sometimes we'd just like to enjoy a nice dinner or something :(
of course, when Im high Im always in the mood, but thats an exception.
i usually am... my g/f on the other hand tho... SEX FIEND
the funny part... she wasnt one until we hooked up hehehe
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Originally Posted by Skink
90% of the time I'm not in the mood. I've never had a high sex drive to go ga-ga over girls. If I see a good looking one, I glace, then move on. My friends used to make comments like, "hey sexy girl!" and retarded shit like that. When I went to the bar, they would try so hard to get a girl to go home at the end of the night, but me, sure, there were a lot of good looking girls but I prefered to have conversation.
But when I do get in the mood, I like to go all out. Not just the old in and out as that is VERY boring.
I don't know. I don't call it a bad thing I don't think. I call it making smart choices with people who I want to have sex with. I've never been the kind of guy to screw a different girl every weekend. I prefer quality over quantity. :) I'll take 1 hot chick over 10 fatties anyday.
Heh, i'm in the mood a lot.. but i don't see why guys always think girls don't like sex.. we like it just as much as you do, as long as you're good at it:p
but when i'm not, i'm usually not straight forward at it.. and tell him no..
Getting high+sex= the fuckin shit.