I am sure you are. But just wanna ask the question...
Printable View
I am sure you are. But just wanna ask the question...
In my experience, most girls don't take alot of intreast in fatty guys, or muscle heads, most of all the testosterone goes strait to there head. Most girls like well maintained guys, who take care of there bodies. So yeah muscular, but even they know when too much is to much. Hey some chicks are just retards tho so dont take what they like actually as what other girls like. Most of my x-girlfriends have been good looking and sexy, some that i dated way back in the day arent anymore, but either way, im a skinny guys with no acne and i keep my self well maintained and i got some muscle but not alot, and i still get the chicka's hope this helps man, once u hit a certain age alot of girls go for the personality more then anything but they do rate your looks and it could be a factor still.
Mebbe an mebbe not...
Muscles are sexy.
Like construction guy muscles.
Not desk job + 3 hours at the gym and "I can't figure out which end of the hammer to hit the little metal whatsit with" muscles.
Guys who look like they spend waaaay too much time at the gym, and even more admiring themselves in the mirror, FORGET IT.
Besides... doesn't shooting 'roids fuck up your sexual function?
Nice garage to keep your car in... too bad the thing won't start :D
I think it depends on the girl. My g/f saw pictures of me from when I played football and she said she is happy I don't look like that anymore. She want's something a little less hard to cuddle up to.
Just like some guys like short girls, others like tall. Some like bone thin, some like a little meat, and some like fat. It depends on the individual.
I like it when guys look strong, but not when they look like they're taking anything to maintain that look. If I had to choose between either extreme though I would choose the skinny guy. I dont want to be with someone who looks like they could break me in half
im a guy its about confidence not looking power ripped...if looking power ripped gives you confidence go for it...my girls liked the way i looked i wasnt super strong wasnt weak, wasnt super fat wasnt super thin
i used to do construction
i lost most of my fat this way
when i was 180-190 girls would spare me a second glance
now that im down to 140 and have some muscle the girls are all over me
im getting back into construction, its good money
NO, the grungy no muscle guys are the cutest
it depends on the individual guy. nice, natural muscles are can be good on a guy, but i wouldn't necessarily not be attracted to a guy because he didn't have muscles. of course, if he looks like a steroid using bodybuilder, then that is really unattractive.
a guy's body type isn't really that big of a factor for me. i've liked skinny guys, medium, and slightly chubby. the only thing i don't do is fatties lol (no offense)
I like guys with some chunk!
You know, the ones who look like they enjoy a bit of hedonism and know their way around a kitchen.
No slobs though! Blech. Take care of yourself!
I like muscles but am not obsessed with them. The ripped bodybuilder look is just creepy IMO, and yes Stinky 'roids do fuck up sexual function (ED i believe)! I too wouldn't mind a little bit of pudge to be honest, it's more comfy to cuddle with. Basically, I don't really care about body shape, as long as it's kept in shape! Being healthy and taking care of yourself (ie no body odor, lol) is what really counts.
I agree. I like well-muscled, lean types like my husband. Not the over-muscled, steroid-enhanced competitive bodybuilder types. Nothing could be less sexy to me. Just thinking about Ahnold in his competitive days makes me feel queasy. But the healthy, chiseled, lean look where you can see muscle definition in the arms and legs and abs is definitely a turn-on for me. It just sends the message of health and strength. My husband played football in high school and college but long ago got rid of that beefy, thick-necked defensive-end muscular look and now just looks, well, like a very healthy, fit guy.
I'm actually a quite skinny guy, and short at the same time. I always thought I needed muscles (and still do think that honestly lol) but the time and money it takes to gain them could be well-spent on a female companion instead :)
I actually have a girlfriend now who is a little taller than me, but she is also very thin like me. She says my body is perfect the way it is, so I don't plan to change anything.
my wife likes me to flex my muscles while we are having sex. she likes to feel them. it makes her cum harder.
steriods.... they dont fuck with function, but they do with form, lol, im pretty sure they give you liver problems possibly cancer very bad for you in the long run, ppl dont realize that, and it stops your body from making testosterone, so say bye to your balls.
I am a pretty muscular guy. I weigh about 190 and have only 13% body fat(not competition but good)
In my experience since I lost fat and gained about 45 pounds of muscle, I have gotten many many more chicks. But that could entirely be because my confidence skyrocketed. Then again, I tend to dictate very well, and present myself in a humble manner, and when girls hear it I always get an approach.
So I think other factors play more of a role, but through natural selection the more muscular guys tend to get the look first.
Oh, all natural gain, no roids. I figure wtf would be the point of losing weight and gaining muscle with roids. For me its about overall health, not just look, and roids give you temporary muscle. Natural muscle gains keep the muscle around longer in off periods between the gym, and roids muscle tends to disappear much quicker.
im like tha skinniest dude i know, like i can almost touch my thumb & finger around my bicep, an i have like 0% body fat but i still get MAD bitches & its usually my abs, penis, face and the fact im very well groomed & dressed
i dont care about my muscles, as long as i can still kick ass and feel good im happy.
yes i like a man with muscles, i have/would date skinny guys but tbh the first thing i notice about a guy is there body if i see a guy with muscle i will check him out and i will jump on him lol but by muscler i dont mean the type of guys you see strongest men in the world that kindof freaks me out.
Way to take this opportunity to interject your physical state!!Quote:
Originally Posted by JaggedEdge
Is this really a question, or is this guy just looking for some responses?
Different people appreciate different things, doesn't everyone realize this??
Do you see every girl in the world in public with John Q. Muscle?? Nooo. So do the math.
Does size matter?? OF COURSE IT DOES, but helllloooo..... too big is TOO BIG. Obvious? Yes. Any girl that tells you size doesn't matter is too nice for the likes of you, a girl givin the choice will 99% of the time choose a slightly larger penis to tackle.
C'mon this is all common sense stuff. Seems like the trend nowadays in the schools is all this emo shit... girls go for the "dark", skinny-as-fuck, pants so tight it's silly and bangs all up in my face type mostly.
Just look around you.
I use to work at the gym as well as personally ranging from being very fit to being very unfit.
All in all, from my personal experience, I think most girls like guys who are 'average' to 'toned and in shape'... Guys who are REALLY big or REALLY ripped seem to turn the average girl off more so then they turn them on.
Finally, I also think a lot has to do with your body type. Guys who are more 'average' build can get away easier being in 'average' shape. Guys who are more slender (like me) tend to need to be a little more in shape to off-set the smaller frame or risk looking too 'wimpy'. In general, girls want to feel protected so if you look like you couldnt protect a warm cup of piss then you might be losing some potential points ;)
Some muscles is sexy...but like greased up muscles ontop of muscles...nahh
dunno, i'm skinny but well-toned, hasnt worked out the greatest for me so far, most girls prefer the muscle boneheads imo
in my experience women dont like greased up body builder doofus's.
besides its all about confidence and how you carry yourself. otherwise its just superficial attraction.
yup and thats what girls are all aboutQuote:
Originally Posted by halfassedjediknight
Quote:
Originally Posted by Wesley Pipes
i hope so. otherwise i got something wrong. but it seems im doing something right haha!
lol i like to keep fit and strong, not for girls but for myself, theres nothing more handy than being able to move big things when you need too, and being able to accomplish a physical task easily and quickly.. lol life gets alot easier the stronger you get...
i keep myself fit for myself, if girls like that, i guess its a bonus.. though if a girl didnt like that, i cant see myself bothering to make the change for them...
lol and i definately cant see myself on steroids haha
hahaha dude what do you mean move big things? are you pushin around cars or somethin?! :D
but of course guys arent:rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by Wesley Pipes
guess youre lookin at the wrong guysQuote:
Originally Posted by blackbarbie
I like guys who are a bit chubby actually. The whole look-at-me-I-work-out-6-days-a-week-and-look-like-an-abercrombie-model kind of guys gross me out. I dont like fat guys though, just maybe 15-20 pounds over is fine.
I go through phases, one year ill eat alot and put on weight to get bigger, the last 3 years ive weighed around 185. This year im already down to 145 and extreamly lean....kinda have the swimmers body. Since then ive had 2 ex gf's try to come back to big poppa. I think the thinner/ runner/ swimmer body is more attractive to girls.... although there are the chicks that definatly dig a big ass 250lb muscle head.
depends witch muscle!lol
:rastasmoke:
hey you girls stereotype us guys a hell of a lot more than we stereotype you girls, the fact that you didn't even argue with my statement proves that your as shallow as a barbie doll, which is quite ironic considering the name you've chosen for yourself ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by blackbarbie
lmaoQuote:
Originally Posted by plymouth stoner
I am not attracted to muscles at all. I like softness, but not fatness.
i like them toned not bulky.. thats sexy :)
try not to flatter yourself, dear. i didn't argue with your statement because i'm not on here everyday. you have no way of knowing how often girls stereotype guys compared to guys doing the same to girls. have you seen the posts on here from guys stating that they'd rather date a really hot girl with a bitchy personality vs. a ugly or plain girl with a great personality? or the way they talk about fat or ugly girls? if you weren't so stereotypical yourself, you would never have made that initial statement. anyone with experience with the opposite sex and even common sense would know that girls aren't just all about superficial attraction. some are, just like some guys are - but saying we all are like that? boy stop. if that were true, how do you explain ugly guys having girlfriends? fyi, my membername comes from a nickname i got a long time ago;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Wesley Pipes
yeh, im pushing cars around... right now... typing with my nose... you know how we do!Quote:
Originally Posted by halfassedjediknight
i think ive already posted in here already, but what the hell. I agree with what Rebgirl had to say...I prefer a guy with a couple extra pounds, compared to one with not enough. Perhaps this all comes down to the evolutionary-reproduction theory...men with a couple extra pounds look "well fed" and therefore healthier. Also, a little squishiness is much better to cuddle with than pointy boniness.