is anyone else as frustrated how the vast majority of friends ditch you when they get a significant other??? i mean i know priorities will shift, but why do they have to disappear?!:S4: :(
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is anyone else as frustrated how the vast majority of friends ditch you when they get a significant other??? i mean i know priorities will shift, but why do they have to disappear?!:S4: :(
because they can get something from them that you cant give
pussy
The significant other is a good way for you to get pussy also. She has friends. Use your friend to your advantage.
thats a part of life, sounds like someones jealous...
They will be back........they ALWAYS come back. lol
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Originally Posted by Samwhore
Welcome to growing up........it sucks doesn't it?
haha yes ALWAYS.Quote:
Originally Posted by Oh F Yeah
People phase people out. I hardly ever see my old friends anymore. I live to far away to see them regularly and I love spending time with my g/f. I may see them once or twice every two weeks.
Just be happy for your friend.
He uses the word ditch and no its not cool its one thing to shift priorities its another thing to just bolt on a friend and only talk to them like 5% of what you use too. Doesn't sound like they where real friends but in reality its a good thing good ridence. Other than that yea try to turn it into a possitive and talk to some of her friends so you can make some contacts before you buddy blows it, then he'll be like DAMN hes the one that got something out of me seeing a girl that no longers wants to talk to me - Flip the Script. :rasta:Quote:
Originally Posted by hazetwostep
I can't fucking stand when this happens. I mean I know how to my woman in her place and when it is friend time it is friend time damnit.
two of my best friends one of them definetly my best friends for most ofthe past five years are goign to liv ein france together, the girl 9the relaly close frined) no longer comes to school and only sees us with her man. its a real kick in the teeth most of all because i know she will come crawling back to the friends andfamily she has completely dropped from her life in a couple of months and i won't have the heart to be angry.
That is life. Get used to it or shoot yourself in the head, because things will get even morew fucked up than this. :p
I used to be like that, then I started going to a different school than my gf so I've got my crew and gf seperately..
yeah this happend the other night. me and 1 of my good buds where suppose to go play some puck but he instead took some lil hottie to the movies. at the time i was pissed more then ever cause he wasnt pickin his phone up or any of that and i was feenin for some pond hockey but then he called around 11 and told me wat was goin down. it was all good after that. pussy first over anything. lol. iv done it to my friends plently of times. HAHA
and hazetwostep no worries dude this is jus life. iv lost many friends jus cause thats life. shit sucks when ya grow up. trust.
One of my best friends ditches me for his g/f sometimes, but I did it as well, and you would too if it happens. He always set times for his friends tho.
Thing is, I can't complain about the choice he made, she's a really nice girl. Usually when you friends run off, you find a way to criticize his choice. I can't, he would be dumb to lose her.
I've never ditched my friends for a girlfriend. I guess the GF's I've had have not minded my friends.
I used to date a girl who could drink all of us under the table. It was kind of sexy her screaming, "you fuckin pussy!" while a big talkin drinker starts puking from excess. :p
It's a part of growing up I guess. I don't see as much of my friends anymore due to us all having our own lives now. Some of us work, have Uni, seeing the misses, living with the misses, and all that jazz.
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Originally Posted by station
hockey before hoes
Bros before Hoes imo
True when the girl is in fact a hoe. But when you're in a serious relationship it's very different. Intimacy is a very overwhelming thing and love is an addiction. My misses means a lot to me and I have been with n' without her, either way I'm constantly thinking of her.Quote:
Originally Posted by TheFatKid
BROS BEFORE HOS, whoever said that, I said it again lol
THere's no reason for any ditching to be going on, if it was a real friend he'd tell you straight up, "im chilling with my girl today, i can't make it to whatever" and whatever, not just ditch you.....
But you should have your own girl to go to when your friend is going out with his girl, it sounds like your kinda jealous, and there's no way to stop it, you know why? Cause you don't have a pussy.....lol
If he's going to chill with his girl and you wanna chill with him that badly, go get a girl and you guys can double somewhere, like to a movie or something......
I hate this shit man on of my boys that has always thought he was a fucking pimp and shit is date'n this girl now and he never chills with any of his friends anymore ever i havent even talked to him in like 3 weeks he put a big ass sticker of his and his girls name on the back of his escalade and i just found out the him and his girl moved in to his parents basement and he just got her name tatooed on his arm and shit that nigga is falling off. I understand the importance of a serious relationship but he is only 17 how serious can they be.
^^HE'S WHIPPED, After shes gone he'll feel like a complete jackass lol that's why until you're married don't tatoo no ones name on you, cause what if shit fucks up and your stuck with some broads name on you for life, unless you pay for the removal.........
Pussy does strange things to a person. even mad me say Please and thank you once.
Ditching is one thing. If they make plans and pull out or don't show, thats another. If you're trying to make plans with someone and they wanna hang with thier other half, then thats what they're gonna do.
As your friends get older and hookup, they're gonna want to make other plans. You can't expect them to spend 100% of thier free time with ya :thumbsup:
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mastachronic.. being bummed about close friends (19+ years) bouncing out is not being a pussy, it is being a human. obviously you have never had a close, meaningful friendship, cause you don't watch years of friendship walk away without feeling anything. I hope you one day experience this kind of friendship
samwhore.. jealousy, probably but I have no problem with reasonable jealousy. If I was pissed cause he didnâ??t want to hang out one night or whateverâ?¦ that is stupid jealousy. When a friend doesnâ??t return calls, doesnâ??t show up when you have scheduled plans, and completely ceases making any effort to our friendship.. if that falls under jealousy then so be it! It is not unreasonable, in my opinion.
Thcbongmanâ?¦ no I wouldnâ??t do that if I were in his shoes.. I know this for a fact because I already was in his shoes and now I am married and I didnâ??t pull away. A shift in priorities is expectedâ?¦ but total change is different.
Benagainâ?¦ I totally agree. Read the lines to samwhore and you can see what I am talking about.
yes yes, but when the two finally break up I laugh my ass off,
samwhore.. i am assuming that if they do break up, my friend will be pretty upset and no matter how hurt or mad i am, i couldnt laugh at his pain or loss.
I laugh in secret while there all pissed off about there ex and talking dirty about them.
"Josh was NOT 8 inches"
yeah yeah, like I care about your ex,
Im not saying your (am im) not supportive, but my best friend has been fucking up real badly and all I can say "I told you so, consider my advice next time"
Just another case of using the word friend loosely...
samwhore, i respect your stance if you were to be in this situation, and a huge part of me would love to react like that as it would make me "feel better" or "justified."
below is an extract from a famous quote on love/friendship... it is a personal inspiration of mine to live this type of love and be this type of friend in this world that desperately needs it. everyone is so egocentric and self-preserving that it is a cut-throat, dog-eat-dog world that is not very forgiving or compassionate of mistakes... i want to live in a different world that is forgiving and compassionate. when i screw up (which i do like everyone else) i would prefer to be shown grace instead of harshness and an "i told you so" mentality. i can't make the world like this though. the only person in this world that i have control over is me. so i made a decision to start making this world the way i want it by changing myself first. hopefully others around me will follow or at least i will find others who believe and live similarly.
anyway, not sure if you care to know all of that, but it was in line with this thread so i just blabbed it.
"Love cares more for others than for self.
Love doesn't strut,
Doesn't have a swelled head,
Isn't always "me first,"
Doesn't keep score of the wrongs of others,
Doesn't revel when others grovel"