The Ugly Friend

Does anyone in here ever feel like the ugly friend? I'm not looking for compliments because I know I'm not ugly. This mostly applies to females, but do you ever have a friend that always gets the guy? I'm friends with some GORGEOUS females and I love them to death, but when we go out the only time males talk to me is to get their number lol. It just makes me feel like the weird ugly friend. Its ok though because I'm also the funny friend I guess, people always tell me that I'm funny, and guys just bring drama. Haha. Its just funny cuz I will get ready to go out and feel like I look good and then my friends are like "What shoes should I wear? What belt matches" and I'm like ummmmm cuz I don't know stuff about that.

Also this is a tangent, but I HATE IT when my gorgeous friends are like "Oh, im so fat/fugly/stringy-haired" because it makes me second guess myself which I hate doing. I just have a high body image I guess, lol. I just think its rude because theyre all like size 3-5 and I wear a 12 I'm like hello?!?! I obviously weigh more than you, but I'm happy about it and it feels almost insulting when they say that. I wish they could see theyre gorgeous. I hope I just didnt sound hypocritical.

Don't think of yourself as ugly or weird be confident in who you are and how you look that in itsself is attractive. confidence projects

maybe you dont fall into the common pamela anderson style if you goto niteclubs etc most of the guys go for them types of girls and most of the guys who go for them girls just want a fuck so does it matter? :p

Cause she would like a one night stand too. Don't we all sometimes?
As for relationships.. those girls sound annoying anyway.

ooooo yeah my bad lol but she could go to a place with a dif vibe and get her one nite stand on haha

Doesnt surprise me bentleygtgirl... Does it surprise you?

A lot of girl groups (especially the more superficial ones) have atleast one friend in that group that all the rest want to feel 'better' then. Sounds like you're that girl. I would get new friends.

These guys have no self confidence is all...

I never feel like the ugly friend. But I fuckin hate the ugly friend. Dealing with that shit gets old.

Yes, I do have that "ugly friend" sometimes its my best friend, sometimes its me, sometimes its a girl I hate.

When those superficial girls say, "im so ugly, or im so fat" all I say, is "yeah you are" because if they had any self confidence they wouldnt be asking these questions in the first place.

Me, I know im not the prettiest girl, but im not the ugliest either, all I know, is that in my eyes I am the best person of all, ME

yeah I get that ugly girl feeling sometimes. It really sucks.

keep the sunglasses on!

yeah i hate that shit too sometimes i feel like that, well that's why i'm going on a diet so i dont have to worry about that anymore lol. well if that's you in your avatar, you're very cute.:) [no lesbo]

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Originally Posted by Samwhore

Yes, I do have that "ugly friend" sometimes its my best friend, sometimes its me, sometimes its a girl I hate.

When those superficial girls say, "im so ugly, or im so fat" all I say, is "yeah you are" because if they had any self confidence they wouldnt be asking these questions in the first place.

Me, I know im not the prettiest girl, but im not the ugliest either, all I know, is that in my eyes I am the best person of all, ME

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would a guy get away with saying that? lol

Just go up to guys.... Trust me they will be interested.

You wanna look like the swan if your the ugly duckling. Hang out with people who are 10 times uglier then you. then YOu will be the pretty one of the bunch.

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Originally Posted by Gatekeeper777

You wanna look like the swan if your the ugly duckling. Hang out with people who are 10 times uglier then you. then YOu will be the pretty one of the bunch.

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thats what i did made friends with all the ugly people around me so we are all just as ugly so it dont matter
rip a huge bong hit and kick back and dont worry about the little shit:S5:

I always used to feel like that weird/funny friend and I was chill with that cause I love making people laugh, then I got with my boyfriend who is pretty much the most gorgeous guy I've ever met and he loves me to death. My best friend is drop dead gorgeous though and she even complains about how often people hit on her. I think funny girls just come on a lil stronger then soft spoken ones. (tanget as well cause im stoned.)

I feel like the ugly one sometimes too, its okay though I'm different and some people don't find that attractive but I'd like to think I will attract others like me who are funny and somewhat different from cookie cut. If I go into this anymore it'll get ugly.

But I am happy with who I am, I think.

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Originally Posted by bentleygtgirl

Does anyone in here ever feel like the ugly friend?

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Stop worrying about what other people think, or worse, what YOU THINK they think! I would trade 5 supermodels for ANY girl who is smart and funny and confident enough to have a thoughtful conversation with me. I have met TONS of really hot hot HOT women in my life, and 99% are perfect 10's from across the room, but when I've actually taken the time to speak to them, they often make me sorry I did. To me, there is nothing worse than a girl who is 95% beauty and 5% brains. Stupid people make me angry, no matter how pretty the package is.
I guess what I'm really trying to say is, you will find that there ARE some people who will care for you, and not JUST for how you look. Think about it... How much value can you put on a relationship that starts because of what your boobs look like, or how well you fill out a pair of size 4 jeans!
The hottest thing in the world to me is a smart, funny girl, who is comfortable and confident in her own skin. I hope I meet her someday... :)

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Originally Posted by Jderringer

To me, there is nothing worse than a girl who is 95% beauty and 5% brains. Stupid people make me angry, no matter how pretty the package is.

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Doesnt bother me. To me there is nothing worse then bad teeth, foul body odor, being significantly over-weight, having facial hair, or having a STD...

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Originally Posted by someuser

Doesnt bother me. To me there is nothing worse then bad teeth, foul body odor, being significantly over-weight, having facial hair, or having a STD...

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Well of course, those are very obvious signs of someone who doesn't take care of themselves. (with maybe the exception of being overweight, because some weight problems are glandular in nature. Certain glandular problems make ANY weight loss very difficult for some people) I also said "The hottest thing in the world to me is a smart, funny girl, who is comfortable and confident in her own skin." A female who has an odor, or body hair in the wrong places, or STDs for the most part isn't comfortable with themselves enough to be able to take care of themselves properly.

maybe you hang with these people cause you want to be the ugly friend? this isnt your first post like this...the other one was about you not getting as many compliments as rebgirl or something, if i recall......very similar in nature to this post....maybe that other person was right and you should get some larger, not as attractive friends, so you can be center...

all i can say is eventually, as you get older, these things will not bother you anymore..i stopped giving a shit about what people thought around 28..

princess

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Originally Posted by bentleygtgirl

but I HATE IT when my gorgeous friends are like "Oh, im so fat/fugly/stringy-haired" because it makes me second guess myself which I hate doing. I just have a high body image I guess, lol. I just think its rude because theyre all like size 3-5 and I wear a 12 I'm like hello?!?! I obviously weigh more than you, but I'm happy about it and it feels almost insulting when they say that. .

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That comment actually reminds me of something that really made me angry last year.

We have a gym chain called 'Curves' which is supposed to be a chick-only, SUPPORTIVE workout environment.

I had been going to a normal meathead gym, and decided to give it a try.

So one day I'm in there puttering around and there are these 2 skinny chicks in there -like size 4- complaining LOUDLY about how fat they are. Right in front of the rest of the clients... and a LOT of women who go there are VERY overweight.

I'm built on the thick side of average... I used to lift weights, I'm kind of beefy, I ran triathalon for a while, and worked commercial fishing... no skinny asparagus stick here, that's for sure! I am generally happy with my build and was still WICKED insulted. Seriously WTF.

I just think it was really insensitive for these women to be saying those things, almost as if they were actually really insecure, fishing for compliments, or -yikes- had joined that particular gym to feel superior to the middle-aged office ladies just getting into a workout routine!

Needless to say I'm back with the beefcakes at the co-ed meathead place.

So actually your original tangent wasn't one at all... it's like the 'ugly friend' syndrome taken even further.

sounds like your friends are the type
that get drunk then get flirty then get fucked
then get no call in the morning then get an std and end up pregnant
with 3 kids from 4 daddies . i bet you aint like that
just be cool and get new friends

Lol you're asking a group of stoners about this?

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lol bentley it just hit me.. your av pic makes you look like that chick from dirty dancing...

guys want to fuck me bc i am hotter then my best friend (not to be cocky but i am) but guys want to date her ... it sux bc i want a relationship but i have a shitty personality and guys only use me

then again this cunt bitch who i was bff with for years was ugly she is ... but she is so damn cocky that she confuses SOME stupid weak minded people everyone who has half a brain and working eyes can see how she really is... and its really annoying bc she has this way of being cocky without it comming off that way its hard to explain ...
so i guess just be confident

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Originally Posted by gabee42ee

guys want to fuck me bc i am hotter then my best friend (not to be cocky but i am) but guys want to date her ... it sux bc i want a relationship but i have a shitty personality and guys only use me

then again this cunt bitch who i was bff with for years was ugly she is ... but she is so damn cocky that she confuses SOME stupid weak minded people everyone who has half a brain and working eyes can see how she really is... and its really annoying bc she has this way of being cocky without it comming off that way its hard to explain ...
so i guess just be confident

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This is the case with alot of girls for me. I mean who the fuck could date a gril with no personality, I tried it, I loved her amazing giant boobs and smothering my face with them, but no good conversation just led to a bunch of great sex and boringness. The chick with the personality always wins me.

Not that I hate you or anything.

lol, this thread is gold.

I guess I'm the odd ball out... I'll go for a girl that has a so-so personality but looks really good over a girl with a really good personality but looks so-so... Though I would probably be good friends with the latter and date the former. Though girls with hardcore 'girly girl' personalities is an instant libido kill for me... But other then that, so long as the girl isnt that type with her cell glued to her ear, has a billion gfs, and isnt afraid to drink some beer, smoke some weed, and ride motorcycles and 4-wheelers I couldnt care less if the rest of her personality isnt stellar.

lol damn a lot of people posted, haha, its not like an everyday thing cuz i love my friends but sometimes you just feel like the odd duck, but really, im confident in myself, thanks for the compliments from those who gave them, im sorry if i made it sound like i was fishing for them , i wasn't, but i think every girl has gone through ugly days

yes, and when you made this thread it was an "ugly" day

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Originally Posted by bong_man

maybe you dont fall into the common pamela anderson style if you goto niteclubs etc most of the guys go for them types of girls and most of the guys who go for them girls just want a fuck so does it matter? :p

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he's right