stupid, stuPID, STUPID,...little me.

gr!!! So the other night I decide that I want a freaking bottle of wine....so I drive my ass on up to safeway...and as I am pulling into my parking spot...the car DIRECTLY next to the spot I am just pulling into starts to back up REALLY fast....!! Well first fucking thing I notice is that this girl has NO REAR VIEW MIRROR and is NOT turning around to look at me...so I honk..and next thing I know she hits me.

We both get out of the car, really freaked out..I doubt this girl is any older than me....

SO I decided to be REALLY nice and say just give me your phone number and if I notice any damage later I will call her...
..because at the time I didn't really see any damage to my vehicle(didn't think about trying to see what happened when I opened up my door!)..

..SO to make a long story short, I have some people look at my car that night, some friends...they say to call that girl right now because the damage is not good.

SO I call her, leave a message...and decide to wait until the next day.

I call my insurance...they say I need to get an estimate..so I go get an estimate...ONLY to find out that by law I now have to fill out an accident report because the damage to my car is OVER 1500$....

My kelly blue book value on my car in the condition it is in is only worth 1800$..so there is a good chance that if I am ever able to make a claim on this girls insurance my car title will have to be salvaged anyway(which wouldn't be that bad...).

GRR...why must I be so nice? The whole time I knew I should be getting all of this girls information.

OH well, I guess you live you learn though....
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ouch yeah in that situation you always have to get the persons info, i dont care if they are 80 years old and look like the nicest granny ever, people will do just about anything to get outa thier insurance jumpin up. Who knows she might call back...

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ouch yeah in that situation you always have to get the persons info, i dont care if they are 80 years old and look like the nicest granny ever, people will do just about anything to get outa thier insurance jumpin up. Who knows she might call back...

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Yeah, and I know that...but I have this huge problem sometimes of not wanting other people to feel bad...
I have totally been in that girls situation and the girl that I barely hit freaked the fuck out on me and it was just a horrible experience...

I didn't want that girl to feel like I did....PLUS at the time I really thought the damage was nothing..(which I know you should still get the info)..

..I was just in a moment of SHOCK..I wish I had had someone else with me...

It's been 2 days and 2 messages, she isn't calling back.

i saw the title , i thought you broke your bong or something...

nice guys finish last.

that sucks!

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i saw the title , i thought you broke your bong or something...

nice guys finish last.

that sucks!

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I don't know why but for some reason I feel I would probably be a lot more upset if I broke my bong....ahaaa...oh god.

Something similar happened to me when I wasn't moving and some stupid ass truck driver ripped up the side of my bumper. I told my friend to get the fuck out of here, he was rolling a blunt right when it happened, so he darts away and I exchanged information with the driver, and simply let it go, I was in a rush to do other things. I end up being screwed by the insurance company because the guy said I hit him! His truck had no damage, and I had a ripped bumper. I ended up in a dispute over a year to get it ruled the other way around.

At least you have a phone number. Time to do some research. Good luck!

i hate insurance bullshit
on the freeway during heavy traffic
i got rear ended by a biG plumbing truck
i was in a civic so he didnt see me
he rear ended me again i was like what the fuck
then he ran into me a third time.
i got kinda scared and put the car in park and jumped
out real quick waving my arms to get his attention
he was a lil illegal mexican homie and he was scare when he realized
what the fuck he did .he kept saying "im sorry im sorry"
"please dont tell my work,ill pay ill pay"
i was like ok so i got his license and address and phone number

this mother fucker had the balls to say that i cut him off
when the insurance man came to look at my car he said
" are you sure you didnt hit the car with a bat"
"you know you can get in troulble for that"

i was pissed

lesson is 'DONT BE SO DAMN NICE ALL THE TIME"

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Something similar happened to me when I wasn't moving and some stupid ass truck driver ripped up the side of my bumper. I told my friend to get the fuck out of here, he was rolling a blunt right when it happened, so he darts away and I exchanged information with the driver, and simply let it go, I was in a rush to do other things. I end up being screwed by the insurance company because the guy said I hit him! His truck had no damage, and I had a ripped bumper. I ended up in a dispute over a year to get it ruled the other way around.

At least you have a phone number. Time to do some research. Good luck!

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It is a cell phone number. My only hope at this point is to pay a reverse cell phone search website. I know it is her real number because the message machine sounds like her and is the name she gave me.(unless shes screwin over a friend?)...

...the police said they can't help me because I didn't call right when it happend and they can't do anything with a cell phone number and a first name.

Insurance company says the same thing.

So basically....I think I am screwed. I don't know how much effort I will put into getting anything out of her....chances are she probably doesn't have insurance and thats why she won't call me back.


I learned my lesson. My car is a 1992 piece of crap anyway, but it had no dents in it...and although this dent isn't really noticeable...I am still pissed...and it makes me angry everytime I open and close my door and it hits the front panel over the drivers side tired. Grrr.

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lesson is 'DONT BE SO DAMN NICE ALL THE TIME"

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Basically yeah.:S1:

Leave a message and tell her you don't want to get her in trouble with her insurance company and to put $500 in small bills in a brown paper bag and put it in the trash receptacle in front of Safeway and all will be done.

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Leave a message and tell her you don't want to get her in trouble with her insurance company and to put $500 in small bills in a brown paper bag and put it in the trash receptacle in front of Safeway and all will be done.

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Yeah I unfortunatly don't think she is that stupid. I don't even have her last name, I don't have shit. I was stupid...but whatever, it won't happen again. :/

hmmmmm....
I was just kidding in the above post...

She may call, probably not, because she would of called by now.
I would call that number every 5 minutes till she answers or disconnects

and

keep an eye out for her everywhere you go

-or-

let it go

It seems the police are never helpful when you need them. I imagine you didn't get her license plate number by chance did you?

Yeah, that sucks

Offer to get her high.

Who knows! She might come crawling for a toke.

You should have told her to hold on and then went inside bought the wine, came back out and broke it over her fucking face.

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You should have told her to hold on and then went inside bought the wine, came back out and broke it over her fucking face.

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Wait a minute. The girl only was a idiot and crashed into her at this point. She wasn't even a cheat or a liar yet.

Fuck it, it is like minority report NOW.

A total bummer all the way around. If she is young and scares easily I'd try a simple threat such as getinng the cops involved or something. She doesn't need to know what the cops have already told you. One other question though; doesn't the insurance company owe you to fix your car no matter what? What if a tree fell on it or something? Do you have to get the first and last name of the tree first also?

shit my sister got fucked that same one too once this prick hit her and she decided to be nice and not call the cops and just call him later and then got fucked out of her car

LOL I would have ben like my number is 000-555-0000 ok goodnight and when called it would have been the wrong one.

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LOL I would have ben like my number is 000-555-0000 ok goodnight and when called it would have been the wrong one.

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Thats the weird part, it was the right one..it was her voice and her name on the message machine....

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A total bummer all the way around. If she is young and scares easily I'd try a simple threat such as getinng the cops involved or something. She doesn't need to know what the cops have already told you. One other question though; doesn't the insurance company owe you to fix your car no matter what? What if a tree fell on it or something? Do you have to get the first and last name of the tree first also?

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I only have liability insurance...so I can only get it fixed if I pay my deductible..and I am not paying that.

My car is a pos anyway I suppose....but it was in good condition...grrr.

you met an honest woman. better marry her cuz she may be the last.lol

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Yeah I unfortunatly don't think she is that stupid. I don't even have her last name, I don't have shit. I was stupid...but whatever, it won't happen again. :/

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You have her phone number, and if you do a reverse phone number look up, you can get her full; name, and address. that might help a bit

assuming i had a liscense and it wasn't suspended (which it is) i woulda raised hell right on the spot, considering the consequences you can end up paying for it if not....

i usually avoid conflict as well... but about something like that i woulda been bitching and screaming, and yelling, then i woulda got the cops there.. just like pretty much everyone else does.... i ain't paying no few grand becasue some asshole hit my car, just to be nice... and i'm a damn nice person, that usually avoids conflict at all costs.. lol that says alot...

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assuming i had a liscense and it wasn't suspended (which it is) i woulda raised hell right on the spot, considering the consequences you can end up paying for it if not....

i usually avoid conflict as well... but about something like that i woulda been bitching and screaming, and yelling, then i woulda got the cops there.. just like pretty much everyone else does.... i ain't paying no few grand becasue some asshole hit my car, just to be nice... and i'm a damn nice person, that usually avoids conflict at all costs.. lol that says alot...

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Thats the thing....cosmetically...it's really NOT that bad, and you can hardly tell unless you are just really looking...so I told her it didn't look that bad....and that if later on I noticed it looked bad, like many do, that I would call her than and get her info...but that I didn't think I would have to. So I had 2 of my guy friends(one my boyfriend) look at it right after it happend..and they both said it was bad....so not more than 30 minutes after it happend I called her. Than the next day I called my insurance...and got an estimate...and it does not look that bad, however it is a lot to fix it. Also the lame part is that my drivers door hits the front panel now which is over the tire....makes me sad everytime I open and close my door. Although to can't really see the damage..it makes me sad. I have had this car 5 years and it had no damage...
Ah well....I suppose it had to happen sometime..I just wish I would have been more assertive....
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