Kinda like Darkhorse's thread....

OK SO IVE BEEN GOIN OUT WITH MY GIRLFRIEND 4 4MONTHS.SHES A VIRGIN. IM NOT.WE BOTH WANNA HAV SEX N WERE BOTH IN LOVE. WEVE TALKED ABOUT DOING IT N STUFF BUT EVERYTIME SHE GOES DOWN ON ME I TRY TO TAKE HER TO MY ROOM N GET 2 IT....BUT SHE DOESNT WANT TO:(...SO THIS THREAD IS JUST LIKE DARKHORSES BUT THE ONLY DIFFERNCE IS A) SHES GONE DOWN ON ME. B)WEVE TALKED ABOUT IT. C) IM NOT A VIRGIN......THE PROBLEM I HAVE NO EXPERINCE IN MEANINGFUL SEX(AS IN EVERY GIRL I FUCKED WAS AN EASY WHORE)AND I WANT TO MAKE THIS TIME I HAVE SEX MEANINGFUL...CUZ ITS WITH MY GIRLFRIEND...ANY ADVICE?

Easy. Wait. She knows you want to. She's obviously not there yet. When she's ready, she will tell you. You wouldn't want her to regret it would you?
AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO YELL PLEASE

no like shes told me she wants to.....

well like wait until she like wants to have like sex then.


:rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by CUPNOODLES

no like shes told me she wants to.....

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Okay... so in theory, she would like to at some point have sex.
So why are you pushing it so hard? You're in, man... at some point... piss her off now, make her feel pressured or uncomfortable, she jets, you got nothin'.

Geez how did kids ever figure out how to get laid before the internet?

Just because she says that doesn't mean she's not going to be apprehensive. If you love her like you claimed you do waiting shouldn't be that much of a problem?!
It could be worth the wait :p

Ok, she wants to. That doesn't mean she's ready.

If she's going down on you, that's a bad time to try to have sex with her. She's already doing what she is comfortable with.

Have *you* gone down on her. Maybe you should try it. She might be more recepitive. But then again, she might not be ready for intercourse.

Stop asking her, or trying to lead her away. When you go down on her, make it comfortable. Set her up on the sofa (she's obviously not comfortable going back to your room) with lots of pillows, soft light, great music, and start strokin the kitty. Be gentle. Take your time, and 'listen' to her body. You'll know when she likes something, rememeber it, do it more, and she'll melt in your mouth. ;)

It sounds like shes not ready. She cant speed that up so you're just going to have to keep on waiting. Keep in mind that she may just be saying she wants to have sex because she loves you and doesnt want to lose you, not because she really feels ready to sleep with you

hmmm then shuld i cheat on her cuz ive been on a 9 month dry spell here n it looks like my dicks gonna run away cuz im neglecting itz needs.....

Be a man.

The difference between a boy and a man is a man under any condition never begs for sex.

Go have sex with another girl, but be considerate of your girlfriend's feelings.

It sure doesn't sound like you love her at all. You are just horny :p

im not....i do love her but she noez im a horny little bastard n its hard 4 me 2 go atleast a week w/ out atleasting beating my meat:D

if you'd really cheat on her than you dont love her.

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Originally Posted by CUPNOODLES

no like shes told me she wants to.....

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This is exactly what i was like when I was a virgin. I told my boyfriend after he had asked me a couple times if I wanted to have sex, "Listen, I WANT to have sex, I am just not ready yet, I don't know why, but I will tell you when I am." And I did. So she will let you know. Just because she wants to have sex doesnt mean she is ready, as you are finding out.

Like everyone else said, she's probably not ready yet. Just give it a few weeks and make another attempt, and just because you've already talked about it doesn't me you should stop, consistency will also help

No means yes,,,the answer is date rape...

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Originally Posted by CUPNOODLES

im not....i do love her but she noez im a horny little bastard n its hard 4 me 2 go atleast a week w/ out atleasting beating my meat:D

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So keep on beating it. Durrrrr... how hard is that to figure out?

Or go find someone else... since you are considering cheating you obviously don't love her... and you have no business telling her that you DO and then taking her virginity anyway. WTF!!!

I hate when kids come on here and ask a question, then basically wait until someone gives them the answer they obviously wanted to hear all along!

My god. You can't go a week with out doing it yourself, DO IT MORE OFTEN LEAVE THE GIRL ALONE.

Sex does not make or break a relationship.

w-t-f? You "love" her but you would cheat on her and take her virginity? A girls virginity is an important thing to her, don't be a dirtbag and sleep with her if you don't really love her; which you obviously DON'T or else you wouldn't even consider cheating on her. If she read what you're saying on here I bet she would dump your ass. Leave the poor girl alone and let her find someone that really cares about her.

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Originally Posted by CUPNOODLES

hmmm then shuld i cheat on her cuz ive been on a 9 month dry spell here n it looks like my dicks gonna run away cuz im neglecting itz needs.....

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let me level wit u...i kinda went thro the same thing but lil different...i have a boyfriend i have ben wit for 10 months now...i do love him but it was only monday i slept with another guy i met wen clubbing. To be honest i didnt feel guilty but now i fel guilty as fuck. Its not worth cheating if ur actually in love becoz u'll regret it sooooo bad.

As for ur girlfriend...u need to make her feel real comfortable, like wen ur makin out touch her gently between her legs teasing her and give her oral...if she really enjoys she will probably wana have sex shortly after. But remember...concentrate on her first...make her feel at ease, shes probably really conscious about herself...since its her first time so compliment her, kiss her and stuff while tellin her.

Good luck dude

I thought about what prozac said and.....I wont cheat on her because i talked to my friend and he went through the same thing a couple years back and he said the he regretted cheating on her and that that was the thing that broke them up.....thanks for the USEFUL advice prozac....oh n btw muffin i do love her....but wen u get blue balled 9 times in 1 week....5 out of the 9 times u swear ur in.....come talk to me other wise stfu

don;t push her too much, she has already said she wants it...Take her out somewhere proper for dinner, go watch a movie, go home, and let the magic happen...........

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Originally Posted by thcbongman

Go have sex with another girl, but be considerate of your girlfriend's feelings.

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hahaha