Ok i have question

well okay i prolly wont get a serious response here, and some sarcastic bullshit, but here it goes.....

Ok im 15 yrs old, and i have a girlfriend lets call her janet, ok so janet and i really love eachother and wer really in love. we've been going out for almost 4 months, and we make-out and give eachother hickies and shit, and ive been up janets shirt, so things have gotten pretty physical. so my question is how shuld i go about taking things further, like oral sex. I want to b careful because i wanna do it when shes ready, but how wuld go about even seeing if she wanted to.

O yeah and wer both virgins.

Ok thanks in advance
Peace and Love

Here's an idea . . . maybe talk to her about it????

My thinking here is that if you're not to the point where you can communicate with her by talking, you're not ready for more in-depth sexual activity. Just a hunch.

try getting a bit more physical when your kissing her, just gently and see if shes into it, if shes not then youve just gotta wait.

Club her and drag her back to your cave.:D

Give Her Some Hickies On Her Stomach And Then Gradually Move Further Down

If Shes Cool With It Keep Going

If Not Idk What To Tell You

whip your dick out and slap her in the face.

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Originally Posted by VaporDaddy

Club her and drag her back to your cave.:D

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:D but make sure you drag her by her hair, if you drag her by her feet she'll fill up with mud.

Ask her if she would be down for oral sex or taking it a little further. If she says yes, she is interested, then make your move. Then you both can practice on each other. But do some research on making sure you do it right. If you go any further than that, intercourse, make sure you use protection. Cause you don't want no baby!

Hope that helps a little

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Originally Posted by smoking habit

whip your dick out and slap her in the face.

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YESSSS. But not really.

Definately just have to say it to her and ask her how she feels about it.

Skip the oral and go strait to having babies...

oh to be 15 and in love. I haven't been either in quite awhile.

Birdgirl's response owns.

Although it seems more fun to kind of find out for yourself how far shes willing to go once you two have already started fooling around, I think it would be a better idea to talk about it first. If shes already turned on and you add a little pressure to have oral sex she might do it but wish she hadn't when you guys are done.

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Originally Posted by smoking habit

whip your dick out and slap her in the face.

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works for me every time

wow that cracked me up for like 30 seconds readin that smoke it, dont know really why.

shit son i dont even remember being 15.all i gotta say is wear a dome, ya dont wanna have little ones running around do ya...

and my advice to u on giving it to your girfriend. just ask her dude or when your getting "physical" go exploring see how she takes it.:D

slapping her in the face with it might work for a few years...wait untl
1. its long enough to swing
2. she's old enough NOT to run screaming out the room like her hair is on fire.

at this age it would be best that you respect her and talk about it.

which reminds me of a quick story...

we're smoking, this girl and I, and I've made the bedroom look real nice....candles all over the room, rose petals on the bed...the whole 9 yards.

I am laying on my back, in the candle lit room, looking up at the ceiling as she is busy doing the oral thing. suddenly a bad smell fills the room...and I am like "what the f....."

I look down at her and she does not yet know that her hair has come too close to one of the candles and caught fire. :eek:

WHOOOSH!!!!

too much hair spray i suspect.

I had to beat out the fire with a pillow.
Poor girl.

Communication is the key to great sex. That and having a wang worth sucking.

When you have sex at 15, you don't discuss it like normal people. You don't have the capacity to discuss it. Yeah im in my early 20s and can discuss it before I nail me a hussy....but thats different. Do you really think they are going to sit across from each other and discuss their sexual future intimacy....as virgins?

Maybe that reflects some brady bunch episode, but that hardly represents real life.

Its pretty basic....find her limit. Keep going, keep taking off clothes, and when an objection is made (or not).....respond accordingly. Yall both already know what you want. All talking will do is fuck that up and make it awkward.

Communication.

Gentleness.

Respect.

Ground Rules.

Protection.

Above all, don't be a dick. Think with the head on your shoulders before you act with your body.

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Originally Posted by ValkyrieAg

When you have sex at 15, you don't discuss it like normal people. You don't have the capacity to discuss it. Yeah im in my early 20s and can discuss it before I nail me a hussy....but thats different. Do you really think they are going to sit across from each other and discuss their sexual future intimacy....as virgins?

Maybe that reflects some brady bunch episode, but that hardly represents real life.

Its pretty basic....find her limit. Keep going, keep taking off clothes, and when an objection is made (or not).....respond accordingly. Yall both already know what you want. All talking will do is fuck that up and make it awkward.

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Then if your so 'mature' about you, you should know that your suggestion of finding her limit is way out of line.

Not only might that pressure her into going further than she intended, but she may not know HOW to say no. Your assuming she's talked to a parent or another 'parent figure' and has decided what she will and won't do, and how to protect herself. She may be completely unprepared for 'finding her limit'.

Think twice before you do this yourself. I know plenty of 20somethings who are still quite naieve about sex and relationships and have regretted many things because of that kind of action.

janet jackmeoff?

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Originally Posted by ValkyrieAg

When you have sex at 15, you don't discuss it like normal people. You don't have the capacity to discuss it. Yeah im in my early 20s and can discuss it before I nail me a hussy....but thats different. Do you really think they are going to sit across from each other and discuss their sexual future intimacy....as virgins?
. . . . All talking will do is fuck that up and make it awkward.

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You say this with great certainty, but I think you're full of baloney or you're completely incapable of looking at this from any perspective other than your own myopic one. I had sex as a teenager of 17, and we discussed it before it happened. So did all my friends and so have a lot of my son's friends. It might be awkward if the person you're thinking of having sex with is a perfect stranger and a sudden hookup. But if it's someone you're in a relationship with, it is possible. When I was a kid, we had to talk about it to figure out what we were going to attempt and what we weren't. And we had to figure out birth control and a place where we could be alone. Kids can and do discuss it. And if they feel like they can't, they need to at least try. If they're feeling awkward about it, chances are they're not to a point where they're ready to be having sex. Maybe that would have been awkward for you, but for plenty of kids it isn't a problem.

im 15 my g/f is 17 we're in love very deeply and whatnot... we have sex on regular basis but not too into tha whole oral thing so idk... wut i would do is b kissin on her stomach & jus keep going down further if she doesnt object or anything ummmm then jus take ot from there? idk i have never did oral on a girl & most likely it wont be one of my biggest interests in the future...

i prefer peepee in vagina, thats wut god made them for :D

No dear,

God made "pee-pee's" for 5 year old boys to put pee into the potty.

Tell her how much you love her. I think that works on pretty much all women.

dude. i hate to burst your bubble but if your 15 years old and been together 4 months i seriously doubt you have any idea what love is.

back to the oral part, lay her down and start kissin her until you get between her legs, if hes into it, go for it and i bet she'll hook it up in return.

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Originally Posted by Fan o KmK

dude. i hate to burst your bubble but if your 15 years old and been together 4 months i seriously doubt you have any idea what love is.

back to the oral part, lay her down and start kissin her until you get between her legs, if hes into it, go for it and i bet she'll hook it up in return.

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Everyone says that but no1 understands man

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Originally Posted by ReUp

Tell her how much you love her. I think that works on pretty much all women.

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Ohhhh bad.

tell her that if she isn't cool with it, you'll leave her for someone who is older and has had sex at the age of 17 and before....i give this method a 50/50 chance, the other 50 is as you whip it out she'll kick you in the balls.

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Originally Posted by DarkHorse014

Everyone says that but no1 understands man

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coincidently, it's also perfectly normal for all 15 year olds to feel like nobody who's older really understands them...

Just bring it up and see where it goes...

Yeah, just ask her if you can get a blowjob ... worked for me back in the day ... if you don't have the balls or if she gets offended then you guys aren't ready ... and don't forget to tell her to watch her teeth!!

Dude skip the foreplay and go straight for the brown eye!

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