A little help...please

So, I lost my virginity the other night and even though it was an amazing experience with someone I care about dearly, im a bit troubled. Now expecting that it wasnt going to be a marathon or anything i straight up told her not to get her hopes up for anything long and spectacular.....We went for 30 mins and i still hadn't ejaculated, she was tired and wanted to stop(was her first time aswell) so i was fine with it.

Later after i went back home it felt quite strange it was like i had to piss without the burning feeling so i went to the bathroom and essentially pissed cum.... this freaked me out quite a bit. i just decided to go to sleep and expect to be fine in the morning.

i woke up the next morning pretty sore in my abdomen region and my balls were tender as hell. i go uhmm do my business and feel a bit better but my abdomen is still feeling strange.

i guess what im trying to get at it is, Is this not totally unheard of or should i consult my doctor about it. im just kinda worried about it

-thanks

dude, it means you had a good night, dont sweat it

It was just the pre cum in your cock. When you pissed you got rid of it all. normally if you finish you'll get rid of it all, but it's nothing unnormal.

ya dude your fine. did she get off?

lol nice stuff, man!

haha guess i dont have anything to worry bout. just me being paranoid. and judging from the moaning and "Oh God's" id say she got off :D

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Originally Posted by Chewbaccas Revenge

haha guess i dont have anything to worry bout. just me being paranoid. and judging from the moaning and "Oh God's" id say she got off :D

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Don't count on that, Chewbaccas R. If y'all are young and just starting out sexually, chances are she didn't--or that she simply played up the drama a bit. It takes girls longer to figure that response out, and intercourse isn't what gets the vast majority of us there. When she does, she'll do more than just moan. It's pretty unmistakeable, and it'll likely happen before or after the intercourse part.

^^maybe im abnormal (lol)...when my bf and i first started having sex i orgasmed every time, from the very beginning. unfortunately, im not as blessed now but im working on it!

You're lucky! You mean it happened through intercourse alone? You're definitely in the 17 - 25% minority. I'm in the 75 - 83% majority. The only way it happens for me during intercourse is either by hand or toy, and usually only then when I'm on top. (Not that any of that is a problem, of course . . . . ;) )

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Originally Posted by birdgirl73

Don't count on that, Chewbaccas R. If y'all are young and just starting out sexually, chances are she didn't--or that she simply played up the drama a bit. It takes girls longer to figure that response out, and intercourse isn't what gets the vast majority of us there. When she does, she'll do more than just moan. It's pretty unmistakeable, and it'll likely happen before or after the intercourse part.

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Yea i can see what your saying, but she enjoyed it atleast so i was atleast doing something right :o

yeah, that sore in the abdomen is a very severe case of blue balls combined with the half hour of exersize you did...

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Originally Posted by Hagbard Celiene

yeah, that sore in the abdomen is a very severe case of blue balls combined with the half hour of exersize you did...

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kinda confused at what blue balls is :confused:

Your balls will flash blue for a year, and then POOF, they're back to normal.

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Originally Posted by birdgirl73

Don't count on that, Chewbaccas R. If y'all are young and just starting out sexually, chances are she didn't--or that she simply played up the drama a bit. It takes girls longer to figure that response out, and intercourse isn't what gets the vast majority of us there. When she does, she'll do more than just moan. It's pretty unmistakeable, and it'll likely happen before or after the intercourse part.

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Thats not entirely true. My girlfriend (usually) has at least a couple orgasms every time we do it. She never comes as hard as she does when we are going at it. Do I have an abnormally shaped cock that hits her just right? Maybe... Is it the marijuana that intesifies the feeling? Possibly...

Now, I know you dont "indulge" once and a while, but if you do, it should move you back into that 17-25%. ;)

Yah, it's pretty unmistakable when she starts to cum during intercourse. I always ASSUMED that foreplay was what did it for her, but the last time we were together she mauled the fuck out of my back with her nails and started cunvulsing like one of those bull-riding machines.

A mutually pleasant surprise.

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Originally Posted by birdgirl73

You're lucky! You mean it happened through intercourse alone? You're definitely in the 17 - 25% minority. I'm in the 75 - 83% majority. The only way it happens for me during intercourse is either by hand or toy, and usually only then when I'm on top. (Not that any of that is a problem, of course . . . . ;) )

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yeah i would cum from just intercourse alone...our connection was sooooo strong back then (lust lust lust!!!) that a stiff breeze might have got me off. lol. anyways, like i said, that doesn't happen anymore unfortunately. now it takes a little more work.:p