fucked up shit (rant, sorry)

yeh well a couple might remember my thread about needin some help with a date i was supposed to have., but here what happened.
i was sittin there at work tuesday (the date was supposed to be wednesday) and the girl i was takin out just works down the hall, so i went to her office just to see if we were still on and shit like thst, but she was like "i kinda stated datin someone this weekend and i would justt feel akward" so i was just like its kool. and wednesday, the day we were supposed to have our date, i was comin back from lunch and see her sittin on the bench in the hallway, with who i thought was my best friend from work.
this is super fucked up because this kid has been my freind from day one on the job. he is the only person even close to my age that works there (im 18 hes 20) and i even told him i was gonna ask her out before i did it(then i did and she said yes) and he just took that shit out from under me over the weekend. he wasnt even gonna tell me, the only reason i found out was i busted them together. i didnt want to be a dick about it right there cause then it would seem like it was over the girl but really it was about the lack of respect. if i see him over the weekend he will get dropped.

what the hell is wrong with me man?? this girl left me to sit on the bench of the courthouse for lunch with a 20 yr old kid who already has a kid. this kid is a fag. i pray to god i see him this weekend just cause i want to see his face and call him out. he even knows he would have no chance in hell in a fight.
i guess you find out quick who your true friends are and what they really want.



sorry for the long rant, but i needed it

it takes 2 to tango... the girl said yes to him...

Perhaps she didn't want you because she sensed the undertones of violence you have in you. Who knows? Sure, it sucks but don't you think in the long run it saved you a lot of grief? Obviously she's just not that into you. I mean think about it, if she was your soul-mate, would she have started dating him? And how is it his fault if she finds him more dateable? You can't have "dibs" on women and chemistry is a funny thing. Why fight over that? If he's your friend, "forgive" him...don't fight him. Cock fighting is just plain ridiculous unless she's the only girl in your city! Peace!

did you read it. its not about the girls at all, i dont want anything to do with her now. he just did that to me and thats fucked up. i have seen him walkin down the road before and just stopped and picked him up and gave him a ride to where he was goin. all he had to do was tell and it would have been kool but he tried to hide this shit from me

and he knows what he did was fucked up too cause he usually comes to my office a couple times a day just to see whats goin on and he didnt do that, not even to explain why he did it or anything havnt seen him since i saw them together

there is no such thing as loyalty when a dick is dunking...

Ok, I read it again. It's not about the girl perhaps but it's definitely a matter of pride. Tell him how you feel about what he did, stop being his friend even, but do you really need to slap him around? I guess that's what I have a problem with. NO ONE has the right to put their hands on ANYONE, no matter what the reason! You're smart, you know this! Peace!

your right man, but that is something i def struggle with. im just so used to bein able to fuckin rock someone when they do something that pisses me off. years and years of football, and i know that doesnt make a differene, but for as long as i can remember when someone pisses me off, thats how i make sure they dont do it again, maybe i wont hit him, but i am callin him out and he statrs gettin mouthy there is nothin i can do. i most definately cant stand there while someone is gettin smart wit me

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Originally Posted by Skink

it takes 2 to tango... the girl said yes to him...

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The girl said yes to him too though dude.

Sorry OP, but theres not too much you can really do imo, except for mind control

hes not trying to get the girl back hes just pissed off that his friend went behind his back.
you have good reason to be angry at him. he must not have been that good of a friend.

Sorry Dmo18, that's a shitty situation.

I'm not encouraging anything or telling you what to do, but I would have beat the shit out of him. The girl I wouldn't care about, I wouldn't want to have anything to do with her. But the (ex)friend, I would put some hurt on him. There's not much that gets under my skin, but this is one of them.

And if someone thinks differently about giving someone a good hard ass-kicking with just what God gave you (meaning it's gonna hurt, but you can walk away from it fine), then think about it from his side.

His friend knew they were going out, he ruined anything they could have. That's taking advantage of a friend, that is pure betrayal. Any "friend" who pulls that on me is NO friend. Really, I wouldn't do it to a friend, why would a friend do it to me? It really just shows what kind of person someone is at heart. Plus, next time this fucker tries to pull this shit, he might remember that ass beating and think twice.

Like he said, it's NOT about the girl. It's all about the person who KNEW they were going out, who was a friend, and who completely disrespected and betrayed him.

HiProGlow, I respect you opinion, but that shit hurts. Emotionally it's like taking a shotgun to the chest. He just fucked him up emotionally, in my mind, Dmo18 fucking him up physically is a fair punishment. When it's not accidental, an eye for an eye.

No need to kick his ass. If he's a fucktard and she's not retarded, then they'll split up and if you're still into her, you can make a move again. I dunno, kicking his ass would prolly be a bit more fun, but not the right thing to do. Good Luck :thumbsup:

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then they'll split up and if you're still into her, you can make a move again.

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Sloppy seconds? No thanks.

If this was me I'd be angry, but not all that bothered about the girl. I agree I'd be raged over my friends betrayal. I most likely wouldn't beat him if he was a good mate. I'm quite passive, but when someone winds me up the gloves come off.

I'm also under the idea that you should not do anything physical to him. I do understand this guy totally pissed on your trust, but you're 18 and an adult now, football time is over bro.

Don't get tangled up in the legal system beause some fucktard betrayed your trust.

if i remember right, in your last post you said something about it being hard for you to task her out right? Well you did it this time, do it again, but with a girl thats interested in you. Thats a ton of more fun then getting all physical with a guy:)

some of you all feel what im feelin right now and thanks
and to those who dont:
you really think he should just get to walk away like he didnt even do it and not have to answer to me as to why the fuck he did do it?
some people maybe could let something like this go, but im not THAT laid back. he is gonna have to answer some questions, either this weekend or monday when i see that bitch

but its good to know that im not the only one who would feel this way in this situation

I think you should rip into him verbally but not physically! Peace.

Kick is ass....... Find him and beat the shit out of him...........

i agree with ar15 he disrespected u and he was fake about being ur homie thats one of the worst things someone could do i say kick the shit out of him he just fucked with ur emotions and dont feel down about the beez shes just a fish in the ocean dont do it at work tho but make sure she sees u beat his ass

no i dont want her to see it. just looking at the 2 of us side side she knows who would beat whose ass, but i dont want to give her that feeling like "oh wow, i made 2 guys fight over me" i just want him to understand that i dont put up with shit like that, from anyone, friend or not.

USE YOUR BRAIN NOT YOUR BRAWN.
If your (ex) friend has any sense after you told him what or how you feel about being betrayed by him if he has a conscience at all.that would hurt more than a few physical blows. If not than he was never a friend so therefore you would not be missing much.
as for the girl looks like it was never there in the first place.
Put it down to experience on move on.

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yeh well a couple might remember my thread about needin some help with a date i was supposed to have., but here what happened.
i was sittin there at work tuesday (the date was supposed to be wednesday) and the girl i was takin out just works down the hall, so i went to her office just to see if we were still on and shit like thst, but she was like "i kinda stated datin someone this weekend and i would justt feel akward" so i was just like its kool. and wednesday, the day we were supposed to have our date, i was comin back from lunch and see her sittin on the bench in the hallway, with who i thought was my best friend from work.
this is super fucked up because this kid has been my freind from day one on the job. he is the only person even close to my age that works there (im 18 hes 20) and i even told him i was gonna ask her out before i did it(then i did and she said yes) and he just took that shit out from under me over the weekend. he wasnt even gonna tell me, the only reason i found out was i busted them together. i didnt want to be a dick about it right there cause then it would seem like it was over the girl but really it was about the lack of respect. if i see him over the weekend he will get dropped.

what the hell is wrong with me man?? this girl left me to sit on the bench of the courthouse for lunch with a 20 yr old kid who already has a kid. this kid is a fag. i pray to god i see him this weekend just cause i want to see his face and call him out. he even knows he would have no chance in hell in a fight.
i guess you find out quick who your true friends are and what they really want.



sorry for the long rant, but i needed it

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He could have been trying to spare your feelings by not telling you, perhaps he did not realize that you'd prefer him to tell you the truth. You said you guys are best friends but maybe you guys don't know each other like best friends should because there seems to be some confusion. It a choice, him trying to spare your feelings or you wanting him to tell the truth that or he's just a dick. If it were me I'd rather someone be brutally honest to me than lie.

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Originally Posted by le vallette

USE YOUR BRAIN NOT YOUR BRAWN.
If your (ex) friend has any sense after you told him what or how you feel about being betrayed by him if he has a conscience at all.that would hurt more than a few physical blows. If not than he was never a friend so therefore you would not be missing much.
as for the girl looks like it was never there in the first place.
Put it down to experience on move on.

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Yup,,,life experience but believe me if you said nothing it would mess up their minds more... go about your business and you may even get the chance to pop her in the end,,,act like a jerk and you lose...

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Perhaps she didn't want you because she sensed the undertones of violence you have in you. Who knows? Cock fighting is just plain ridiculous unless she's the only girl in your city!

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That's funny stuff.

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Originally Posted by Skink

go about your business and you may even get the chance to pop her in the end,,,act like a jerk and you lose...

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:p

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Ok, I read it again. It's not about the girl perhaps but it's definitely a matter of pride. Tell him how you feel about what he did, stop being his friend even, but do you really need to slap him around? I guess that's what I have a problem with. NO ONE has the right to put their hands on ANYONE, no matter what the reason! You're smart, you know this! Peace!

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dont listen to this man, the fool disrespected you and needs to be bitch slapped at least twice.

that really blows dude. nothing worse than a mate cockblocking you.

but, there are plenty of other chicks out there. and the harsh reality is that this chick doesn't want you, and her actions speak louder than any words can. she's a bit of a tramp.

i don't think you should get too aggressive towards the dude about it. remember what they say about love and war. all's fair.

tell him it was a dick move on his behalf, and leave it at that. he knows what he's done, you don't need to paint it out for him.

just remember, how many chicks have you slept with in your life? well this chick aint gonna matter when you're getting laid next time. ;)

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Originally Posted by crudemood

He could have been trying to spare your feelings by not telling you, perhaps he did not realize that you'd prefer him to tell you the truth. You said you guys are best friends but maybe you guys don't know each other like best friends should because there seems to be some confusion. It a choice, him trying to spare your feelings or you wanting him to tell the truth that or he's just a dick. If it were me I'd rather someone be brutally honest to me than lie.

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we are not BEST friends, i would have considered him a good freind though. havnt known him long enough to be a best friend but ive known some shady people in my life but no one has ever done that to me, you would think a freind wouldnt do that but w/e now i know how he is