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ok i am starting to really like this girl, shes chill, like a homie, a really good friend who i could def see me and her in a relationship.. but shes 15... and im 18...
i dont plan on just boning her, i like this girl for who she is and shes really nice to be around.. would dating her just for who she is and not sex be a problem at all? what do you guys think?
seriously replies please, tired of dumbass remarks
wait til shes legal
i know thats what bugs the shit out of me... but like what im asking is what do you think about just dating, being a good friend and always hanging out.. maybe now and then do something special but keep it on the dl
because its only 3 years.. shes mature as fuck, she acts like anyone else my age or older.. thats what matters i think is if they are mature or not... shes not some little girl
You are an adult.
She is not.
If you care for her, you will wait.
YEA I UNDERSTAND CAUSE MY GF IS 18 AND IM 24 like my adivce is wait til her 16th birthday to offically date rite :angelsmiley:
im 15 my g/f is 17 but before/during the time she got wit me she was wit a dude thats like 25 (who i found out later was like my 4th cuzin), they never fucked or anything & the main reason she was wit him is he had $ an was a dumbass (she said jump & he said how high? lol), but still age shouldnt really be a factor unless its on sum pedophile shit like shes 12 or suttin but its whatever, but anyways it was funny as fuck like we'd b fuckin downstairs in his house while he was sleepin LOL... good times...
jus make sure she aint tryna F an get u in trouble thats a given
I think it depends on the situation. 3 years isn't really that bad. If you are like 6'3" 250lbs and shes some little girl, people will notice.
no we are both the same size and she dosent even look young.. when i first met her i had no idea she was young
beat that ass up.
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Originally Posted by JeenYuss
Or so she tells -you-
LoL
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I would wait until she's 16 if I were in your situation. She may be very mature and cool, but her parents might not think shes old enough to be with someone your age and you dont want them to press charges - even if you dont sleep with her, her parents will think you did
plain and simple mate- wait,,, shes jail bate man ..and if u think no oone will find dont be so sure. Happened to one of my mates..got her pregnant was soo stupid coz i told him to wait then punched in the face for being an irresponsible jerk.
Honestly, I understand protecting a 14 - 16 yrs from some guy my age now (28yrs +) but it is totally f*cked up when the age difference is so close to pursue a technical legal action. It was in the news not too long about this black varsity football player that was an honor role student got busted for statutory rape with his HS gf who was either 16yrs or 17yrs... He got 10yrs in prison. Tell me that isnt FUCKED up. The guy just happened to turn 18 while in his senior year and got put in prison for dating his HS sweetheart.
Both the judge and DA should burn in hell for ruining a kids life with a bright future like that... Those laws werent intended to be used like that... But anyhow, be careful... If you're in the wrong income bracket or the wrong race and you get a over-zealous DA and judge you never know what may happen.
most of tha time i was wit them lmao me n her was fuckin tha whole time n he never even knewQuote:
Originally Posted by someuser
like literally this guy was sad, they was wit each other for a few months & only KISSED like 2 times... but i still chill wit him, he gots money & i say jump he says how high lmao...
15 will get you 20.
statutory rape ,
ever heard of it . lol . i had a friend do 5 yrs. n never even got laid . a lil tity is all . be careful , -n- don't piss her folks off .
peace
crispi
I donā??t know the specific laws in the states. But I know they cant press charges if you donā??t bone. And since you said you arenā??t going to, then go for it and at least wait till sheā??s 16 till you do. It will probably be better for her anywaysQuote:
Originally Posted by napolitana869
How did he get charged with S. rape if he didnā??t get ā??laidā??Quote:
Originally Posted by xcrispi
And didnā??t piss the parents off?
In cases like this, only the parents can press charges, the girl cannot as itā??s consensual.
I was 16 and my now husband was 22 when we met... we had to lie to parents about ages, but eventually it all came out. I was mature for my age, he was a 22 year old guy. :) We've been together almost 10 years now, and if we had listened to everyone else, we never would have made it. Follow your heart, just be careful, since 16 is the age of consent. Good luck!
so does anybody know anything about like statuatory in REVERSE, like the female being 19 and me being 15? theorhetically speaking of course;) not saying i've done it, or plan on doing it again
any feedback on this? any? or does any1 know any1 in a similar situation?
It goes both ways...remember the schoolteacher?
so do you like not wash yr dick & get vagina samples from it or sumthin??? how do they really do it is what i was trying to ask
ur 18 and shes 15. date that. if shes cool wit it its not like ur gonna get jail time if shes down for that.grab that shit b4 she grabs someone else.
No sex than i dont see why you guys cant be..besdies its only 3 years.
dude, GREAT first post... wow...
JeenYuss, I think the schoolteacher case was that the kid's parents pressed charges and they called him as a witness... and didn't she get pregnant by him too? Creepy!!!! I'm under the impression that most statutory rape cases don'r have an arrest made like right away after you just rolled out of bed and are prosecuted based upon testimony
At 15 it don't matter what she's cool with....if mommy and daddy decide that she was raped....the system WILL convict!Quote:
Originally Posted by K-town Kronic
If ya can't keep it in your pants you better run like hell.
Have a good one!:jointsmile:
personally i would have sex with her, you should have added a poll
Check out your state laws. If you're not having sex with her there is nothing to worry about; otherwise be careful. All it takes is one fight where she decides to tell the authorities and then you're convicted of a "sex crime." Being such, you will be listed as a sex offender on government websites and hassled for the rest of your life. Sex isn't worth that much brotha, wait til she's of the age of consent.
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Originally Posted by lil josh
Personally I think your sig does a good job of making your opinions a bit suspectQuote:
Originally Posted by lil josh
Listen, I had a really bad incident with this shit, so I really know what I'm talking about here.... basically, when she's 15, she's off limits. Wait until she's 16. Even if you're not going to have sex, because the minute you 'accidently' get lost in passion, you're putting yourself in jail also police can charge you with all sorts of fucked up laws like enticing a minor, which means the minute you kiss her, you're 'enticing' her. What's a year anyway if you REALLY think you like her and you're already friends? I dunno, that's just my opinion.
hey harris ,
i said . don't piss her folks off . i didn't say didn't piss her folks off .
girls dad was a detroit cop . lol . yes hey pressed charges -n- yes they stuck .
peace
crispi
appreciate your guys responses.. i think im just going to be real good friends with her and kinda of have like a relationship but not.. if you understand what i mean
so...basically what you mean to say is that you want to be friends with her.Quote:
Originally Posted by nikweiser
im pretty sure you can be friends with a minor, and then give her a real nice 18th birthday gift?
I say don't fuck with it, cause it could come back and not bite you in the ass, but bite your entire head off lol with the legal system.......
yea man make it work
in my books if ya care its ite
just if u sum 18 yr old da likes lil kids n a kidy way not a
i love her more a MOLEST !
meh
no em tell dem kiss ma black ass in da whip lord kno's
thats why i say FUCK THE SYSTEM..Quote:
Originally Posted by Psycho4Bud
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Originally Posted by xcrispi
OOOh. I spy with my little eye. Do we have a sex offender on the board?
I am still on the "Beat That Ass Up!" bandwagon.
Wait until she is legal. No point risking going to jail. All you need is one pissed off girl, friend, father, and your ass is going to jail for stat rape.
Secondly, I have to argue the age difference is pretty great.
You can't compare a 43 year old dating a 40 year old to an 18 y/o dating a 15 y/o. There is a big difference in maturity (in most cases) between those three years. Seriously dude, I would suggest not doing anything. Be friends if you like and wait until she is 17.
What the hell did you even say?Quote:
Originally Posted by Eazy