mind games....... someone i thought was a friend

ok last 2 days ive been pondering,

i have a problem,
or my ex-friend has the problem,

lemme tell ya the story ill try to keep as short as poss:

ok thursday night my best mate gives me a call and says he's had a big ass argument with his mum and wants to move out.... he says he needs a place to stay untill he hooks a job up with his girlfriend in bournemouth about 50 -70miles away (long trip) i ay yeah thats cool ill hook you up, (soposedly best mate) well anyway i go help him move his shit into his car and he says he's goin bournemouth tonight and if i want he'll come get me tomorro......i say ok we'll go down there for the weekend,

now friday morning i call him and ask whats goin on he says "im still in bournemouth youll have to get the coach down" ...... i shout and moan and call him prick for letting me down. but in the end i agree. (costing me £20 for fare)

when i get there everythings cool me and his girlfriend get on great everything is goin good. well over the weekend i must have spent about £300+ just on drugs (yeah multiples) on wedsnday morning he says he has to go work so he leave really early like 4am...which is when i discover i left my keys at home....and like fuck anyones gonna be awake at 4am,

now his girlfriend said she didnt mind me waiting there till later for him to get back from work,

he starts moaing "no man yougotta come im not leaving you here"

me: wtf why the fuck not?

him: cos you cant

.....im thinking whoa its not your house so its not even your decision..i mean wtf is up with you? you think im gonna make moves on your girlfriend?

well anyways we end up leaving..and i have to phone home and wake someone up to open the door,

he says ok ill be here about 3 to pick you up we'll go back down there,

now i know for a fact that his girlfriend picked up an 8th of something small n white powder....i cant say the name directly here its not allowed,

he never came to pick me up, he turned his phone off.....

i phone his girlfriend about 7pm and say have u heard form him? she says no

half hour later i get a text message saying "hes here its all good"

all good? wtf whythe fuck hasnt he picked me up then?

i go phonebox call his mobile which has now mysteriously turned back on.

i say to him "wtf is goin on why didnt you pick me up"

him: it was long.

me: IT WAS LONG? im 10 fucking minutes from you how is that long? all you ad to do was phone me when you left work,

him: it was long

me: so what the fuck am i sposed to do now all my fucking clothes are still there aswell as my phone charger and grinder,

him: really? shit man oh no

me: it aint fucking funny son!!

him: allright shut up........and hang the phone up



well when i see him i got soemthing to say.


look boy...yeah boy cos thats what your acting like, i dont know what the fuck is goin on in your head but you need to fucking think about what the fuck your doin youve left home on bad terms with yur mum your living 50+ miles from work and no dont chat shit you can drive there everyday it would cost you £80+ in fuel everyday, your on a binge, well you fucked me up for the last time your a selfish useless twat who never thinks of anyone but himself, your a lying dirty cunt i hope everytime u look at that new k800i you remember what best mate you USED to have who did go into a shop and get a contract phone on his bank account and give it to you cos yours got nicked, you fucking remember who said they wouldnt have minded you staying with him at his family home for probably over a month no probs...now u fuck off back to bournemouth and think about it with your 3 week old girlfriend who means so much more to you then your oldest friend sitting at home with no clothes no phone charger no grinder and now no money,

i did somehing i think is above average for a friend,

i needed you to do something anyone with an inch of respect would have done.....and you let me down,


the worst thing about it? that prick must think im so stupid that hes probably gonna be ringing me today trying to act like hes done nothing wrong,

i mean cmon like its a coincidence......his girlfriend gets sum expensive drugs.....but seeing as ive allready spent my money im not any .....so he leave me at home,does the drugs then tried coming back begging friend .

well fuck it im ready for that big cunt and im gonna smash his fucking face in.

sorry for abnormally long post but yeah, wot a cunt eh?


learn from me.......dont trust your friends...they're the ones who will really fuck you up.

or am i jsut touchy?

just touchy.

nahh im kidding, thats pretty low for him. Make sure not to let your anger cause you to lose the brand new k800 cuz thats a sick ass phone.

hes not being a proper friend by smashing lines, but thats what fiends are like, you should know by now dude.

w/e, its all your choice if u stil wana be friends w/ him or not.

Hard luck fella. You do fond out who your true friends are in the most inconvient of times. Same sorta things have happened to me before. I let them know, then left it. If they wanna speak to me, they make the effort now.

and people think there is something wrong with me for having no friends...

I can see why his Mum don't want him around too...

He sounds as if he is being a prick. Guess if its the white powder I think it is I sort of understand... It does seem to make a lot of people into selfish pricks!

Even if he was being a dick, you still could have talked to him with respect when you were upset. You compained that he didnt do something a person with an inch of respect would have done, and yet you laid into him like non other.

Even if i fuck up(and we all do sometime), i would want my friends to come to me and talk to me like a human being. No need for all of that abrassiveness.

Now the situation may turn up as, he being on the drug beinge that he was on does not think he was doing anything wrong. But you infact did. I say if he is still your mate talk to him in a few days and work things out.

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Originally Posted by Skrappie

Even if he was being a dick, you still could have talked to him with respect when you were upset. You compained that he didnt do something a person with an inch of respect would have done, and yet you laid into him like non other.

Even if i fuck up(and we all do sometime), i would want my friends to come to me and talk to me like a human being. No need for all of that abrassiveness.

Now the situation may turn up as, he being on the drug beinge that he was on does not think he was doing anything wrong. But you infact did. I say if he is still your mate talk to him in a few days and work things out.

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agreed well sed ;)

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Originally Posted by Skrappie

Even if he was being a dick, you still could have talked to him with respect when you were upset. You compained that he didnt do something a person with an inch of respect would have done, and yet you laid into him like non other.

Even if i fuck up(and we all do sometime), i would want my friends to come to me and talk to me like a human being. No need for all of that abrassiveness.

Now the situation may turn up as, he being on the drug beinge that he was on does not think he was doing anything wrong. But you infact did. I say if he is still your mate talk to him in a few days and work things out.

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yeah but thats the point mate it wasnt a fuck up....it purposly done.....as in he planned it...... he planned leaving me at home before we even left bournemouth.......thats why he didnt wanna let me stay there while he went back to london.

a mistake yes i can forgive .... but when sumone delibratly does something down right cuntish no im not allways the first to act like nothing has happend.

i appreciate the reply but i dont think you grasp that he had this all neatly planned out thinking i didnt know about the drugs his girlfriend bought..

its like this :

oh he's run outta money.......but my birds just picked up.....i know ill leave him at home and give him a bollox excuse like it took to long ...then there be one person short to share with....

thats why im so angry, :o

there is a new girl and coke involved... a "Friend" would trust you!!!

I said this before "We throw the word Friend around to freely" Do you really know how long it takes to develope a real friendship??? I often wonder what percentage of people just don't have it in them to be a friend period...

are you sure thats the case?
All i'm saying is when i was younger i went on a few beinges with a few substances, and i don't remeber doing half the things my friends (the few that knew me back then, that still even talk to me) said i did.

If you are SURE that is the case, then i clearly see the point.

But when certain substances are involved, people can stop being themsleves, and if that is the case, then like i did at one point, he needs a friend to help him out while he is still helpable. Or things can get real bad in his life, and jointly everyone who is connected with him

if that is not the case and he is just being a huger prick then what i understood when i first read it.
dump his ass.

thanks for understanding.. i do really beleive thats how it is, there really was no other reason why he wouldnt just let me wait there.

im just sad after all that time and he wanst to throw it away over an eitgh of chop,

the thing is i know hell be back even his bird was noticing his attitude when i was still there.......pretty soon she'll relise what kinda asshole he really is........well i hope she does it took me too long

Man I totally dont understand you.

I feel tired after reading that,id be well pissed off aswell.make him suffer

what a dick, thats happened to me before with my best friend, but oh, after her boyfriend breaks up with her, were all best friends again and she comes crying to ME and im like, wtf, NOW you want to talk to me, but ya know, if your a true friend you'll forgive him, and if he's a true friend, he'll be there when you need him the most, i wanted to say "fuck you bitch, you left me alone for 5 months to be with him" but damn, when i needed someone, and i mean really bady, i ended up crying for 2 hours at 4-6am in the morning, yes, she was the one who was there,, you proved that he's your best friend, now he need to prove himself to you