Stupid Fucking Parents!

Hey all,

My parents are stupid fucking assholes.

Ok, the deal is, I missed school on friday so my parents told me to get my teachers to write down the work I missed. I handed the paper to my teachers to get the work and they either handed it to me (like a worksheet, so no need to write it down if its right there.) or they said there was none. So I get home they ask if I got my missed work, I said yes. Because I did get it.

Well, later on, like 30 minutes ago, my step mom got all pissed because I was listening to music while I was doing my homework. She asked for the paper and I told them what had happened. Then my dad gets all pissed, and starts fucking yelling at me. "YOU HAVE TO MAKE THE SIMPLEST THINGS DIFFICULT" and all this other bullshit. I fucking hate it. They always fucking do that, for no god damned reason. They're (my step mom and dad) are always getting into arguments or yelling at my little brothers or at me. I think theyre fucking anger-holics or something.

I don't know, I just felt like venting my frustration. Well Im getting a dime bag tomorrow, so fuck them!
Thx
Peace:stoned:

damn dude that sucks. tell them they have to remain calm in situations like that, getting angry doesnt work

Sounds like you have great parents, and you should go tell them you love them, cause they care for you.....


Have you ever asked them if there is something you can do to help? they might fall over.

Remember... you get more flies with sugar.....so be cool and they will be cool back...ask them if you can help seriously

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Originally Posted by Bong30

Sounds like you have great parents, and you should go tell them you love them, cause they care for you.....


Have you ever asked them if there is something you can do to help? they might fall over.

Remember... you get more flies with sugar.....so be cool and they will be cool back...ask them if you can help seriously

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LOL. Im not laughin at that. I do that. Im always cool. Thats how I am. If theres no reason to be angry Im not angry. Thats how I am, I try and stay in a positive mood all the time, and pretty much I am always in a positive mood even if something like this happens. But ya, i think parents gonna take comp away....maybe.... shit...ok guess not. Damnit I hate that feeling.

But ya, they always yell and make a big deal out of something small, all the time. Its like theyre trying to make me be in a bad mood, but it never works. Oh well

:dance:

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Originally Posted by NightProwler

damn dude that sucks. tell them they have to remain calm in situations like that, getting angry doesnt work

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Ya I thought that could help, but I remember all the other times I try to say that, they flip out even more. I use to get grounded for not eating an egg in the morings because it has protein. Fucking pychos. I wish they would be cool like me, but not many people are. See Im always happy (like i said before) but its hard always being in a good mood when other people are in bad ones and trying to get you down.

NOW may not be the right time....

BUT stor this away for a rainy day....

no matter what you think NOW.. if you don't reconcile all your issues with with your parents (with yourself) and love them... you have NO chance for FINDING YOUR TRUE SELF... and worse yet ... you will become THEM.... THE FINAL BATTLE of LIFE.... IS TO ACCEPT YOUR PARENTS and love them for exactly whom they ARE... YOU ARE THEM.....


iloveyou

Tell your dad that your only intentions are to make him happy.. that fighting with him... really hurts you... and that you want his LOVE.... THIS is the truth correct?

iloveyou

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Originally Posted by Garden Knowm

Tell your dad that your only intentions are to make him happy.. that fighting with him... really hurts you... and that you want his LOVE.... THIS is the truth correct?

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Yes but....




























He'll punch me in the chest.:eek:
jk

See my dad is cool and all, but sometimes he justs flips out at the tiniest things. But ya this happens alot and he always gets over it, i never say anything back cuz i know ill end up saying something stupid that will get me in deeper.

I hear you bro.. and I am 100% with you... I think My dad will probably yell at me tomorrow.... :) KARMA... LOL

iloveyou

LOVE them to DEATH.. it is the only way...

im just throwing this out so please, dont take any offense at this but.......maybe......your parents are tweekers.........

dude I wouldnt live my life with them If i were you, start considering options or learn to live with that type of shit.

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Originally Posted by Garden Knowm

NOW may not be the right time....

BUT stor this away for a rainy day....

no matter what you think NOW.. if you don't reconcile all your issues with with your parents (with yourself) and love them... you have NO chance for FINDING YOUR TRUE SELF... and worse yet ... you will become THEM.... THE FINAL BATTLE of LIFE.... IS TO ACCEPT YOUR PARENTS and love them for exactly whom they ARE... YOU ARE THEM.....


iloveyou

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Guess that means I'll have to be content with finding my Fake self.
Oh well.

Tell them to calm down dear, repeatedly.

for some reason, i feel like this is not the entire story.

lol i passed the stage of arguing with ppl now i find it allot more entertaining just being really calm at them n just winding them up, like on monday when i got excluded from skl the teacher was going mad at me n in a really calm n low voice i was going calm, calm, calm it, calm down, calm, then she stopped tlking and i went ok now try n repeat it wthought the anger. lol she went mad and because you havent started shouting ect it feels like you have wont. altho i ended up switching in the end resulting in me getting excluded again but soon i will perfect the art of piss-taking and just take the piss out of ppl instead of arguing n shouting

i dont really see what the big deal is here. when my parents would piss me off like that id just be really calm about it, like theye be yelling at me and id just go "ok ok, calm down, i can hear you, i understand." and that would usually really piss them off cause i wasnt challenging them, but at the same time was letting them know that them talking to me was pretty meaningless by then, and all themwhile i was doing nothing wrong or that they could punish me for, so it realy pisses them off, if they think you are really pissed about ther punishment or whatev er is going on here or their talk or stance on the argument or whatever, theyll think they got through to you or at least its working, after all youre pissed. if youre calm it will let them know that they really have no idea how to get to you. I used to be like you, where id get mad.
if my dad told me i made the simplest things difficult and yelled it at me id go calm down dad, youre right, take it easy, how i make the simplest things difficult

tell them to ask the teacher about it :thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by Skrappie

for some reason, i feel like this is not the entire story.

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I 2nd that idea. But if you really feel you not being treated right maybe you should seek out help. A school consiler or group therapy. Arguing with them on there terms will just lead to more punishment.

Parents just don't understand...

Kids say the darndest things. Zip-zop-zoopedy-bop!

I agree, I assume there is more to the story.

Sounds like they are only being crazy cause they care about you and want you to do well in school.

So do well in school and maybe it will calm them down....

my parents are horrible people...:(

First, does your school have a "Homework Hotline"? I work in a school and The homework for the 4th through 8th grades is posted on a school website. If your school doesn't, ask about them creating one! Parents like being able to check if there is actually no homework tonight. Kids like it because when you lose or forget the assignment, it's there.

Secondly, you can tell them that a school aide, who also does tutoring with students with learning disabilities, said that for some people, music creates a barrier between the student and a distracting environment, such as a normal home. Learning styles vary and yours may include music. There have also been studies that have shown that music increases your ability to deal with math. :thumbsup:

Was your music blasting through the house? Or did you have headphones on? Either one could set stepmom off. Headache + loud music is a bad combo. Or if she said something to you about the paper while you were using headphones, and then repeated it, but you still didn't hear. She could get peeved, if she had a bad day or something.

And speaking of "or somethings". It could be PMS (I just heard a chorus of "Ewwwww"s from the peanut gallery- well, get used to the idea. It's biology and unless you're gay, you're going to be living with someone who is affected this way!) One week a month, even sweet tempered gals can be ill-tempered, and if the gal isn't sweet-tempered, look out! You might want to see if there is a pattern (usually about 28 days) to her bursts of irrationality. (I'm of the opinion that males "go irrational" unpredictably, while women have a pattern and can plan for "crazy days". ;) Hormones! Ya gotta love them!)

By the way, being a stepparent can be the pits. There is often anger- if not actual hatred- coming from the kids. Being hated is not good for your emotional health- you tend to strike back. The kids feel the anger being directed at them and things go from bad to worse! My stepfather (alcoholic, @sshole marine) and I hated each other, BUT we were always (often coldly) polite to each other. We both loved Mom (manic depressive, alcoholic, suicidal, beautiful and brilliant). Our fighting hurt her, so we stopped. It was not a friendly truce, but a truce of desperation on both our parts. Mom was just too fragile. I was 12 when we made our truce. I married at 19 (4 months after I started toking) and that solved the problem between us. You might, when everyone has calmed down, propose a truce (you get to be the "adult" here). It isn't a great solution, but it's workable.- Granny :stoned:

ps. Politeness is a survival skill.

tell them they are irrational and they should call every single teacher