Found out dad smokes :]

Ha, well ever since i arrested for possesion my mom keeps talking to me about how i need to stop smoking, she kind of knew i did before but could never bust me on me. But we were having a talk about 2 days ago and then i finally said "i know dad smokes weed too". She replied with the weakest answer that could have been given "it doesnt matter if he does" lol. C'mon now how can my dad look me in my face and tell me im throwing my life away over fucking weed when he tokes up himself? To me this only means that i can smoke my ass off and then can kiss my ass if my dad is going to be smoking and i cant. Time to get another pipe and get that ROOR...


thoughts on any of this?

If you're under 18 and live at home..well even if your dad does he can be a hyprocrite and tell you not to..thats a power that parents get when you pop outa yer mom.

I think your in the best possible situation. If i knew my dad smoked herb i wouldnt care who knew i did it. I wouldnt care if they told me not to. Have you tryed smoking with your Dad yet?

That really is tough for your folks to push the "No drugs" thing on you if your Pop's not only smoked weed, but is still currently smoking.

I'd say your situation is probably a lot better than most kids who's parents find out though.

What can I say, good luck! :thumbsup:

ur dumb, if ur under 18 and still live with ur parents that means ur still a kid.
if ur excuse for toking is "because dad tokes" then ur a dumbass.
ur dads got a job, takes care of a family, so he deserves to smoke because hes doing well overall.
you, lol havent even started in "life"

I don't think a persons right to smoke depends on their level of responsibilities.

I think it is a legit argument to make. If his folks say smoking is terrible and it will ruin your life, but oh yeah your father smokes, your argument goes right out the window.

my dad smokes but he tells me "its the stupidiest thing and your throwing you life away" i dont know what makes it okay for him to smoke but he does what he wants and i do what i want, pot isnt an excuse no matter who you are, you smoke because you like it

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Originally Posted by ATrain

I don't think a persons right to smoke depends on their level of responsibilities.

I think it is a legit argument to make. If his folks say smoking is terrible and it will ruin your life, but oh yeah your father smokes, your argument goes right out the window.

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however, we dont know how much his dad smokes... he could be a weekender kinda guy. in that case if you smoke your ass off, your definately going to be smoking heavily and spend a large portion of your week high.

if your grades start to slip or you start to fuck up then they are right. however if you can keep your grades up and stay out of trouble then your arguement is still valid and stands a chance at being considered..... but then again, iof you cant keep your grades up and your not trying and get in trouble alot, then saying, "but dad does it" doesnt hold much weight...

if you get what i mean, i dont mean to accuse you of anything but you need to know your options, and need to know what situation you are in, and what you have that you can use to defend your situation.

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Originally Posted by emanresu

ur dumb, if ur under 18 and still live with ur parents that means ur still a kid.
if ur excuse for toking is "because dad tokes" then ur a dumbass.
ur dads got a job, takes care of a family, so he deserves to smoke because hes doing well overall.
you, lol havent even started in "life"

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Hmmm....fuck off maybe?

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Originally Posted by Professor Dan K.

however, we dont know how much his dad smokes... he could be a weekender kinda guy. in that case if you smoke your ass off, your definately going to be smoking heavily and spend a large portion of your week high.

if your grades start to slip or you start to fuck up then they are right. however if you can keep your grades up and stay out of trouble then your arguement is still valid and stands a chance at being considered..... but then again, iof you cant keep your grades up and your not trying and get in trouble alot, then saying, "but dad does it" doesnt hold much weight...

if you get what i mean, i dont mean to accuse you of anything but you need to know your options, and need to know what situation you are in, and what you have that you can use to defend your situation.

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Yea i agree. Next semester i plan to pull all my grades up and make all A's to show them i can smoke and still be responsible about it. Getting arrested kind of threw it out of the window but thats a mistake ill never make again.

hm suck a cock,..better yet,
join ur dad for a bowl,
then get on them kknees

the real question you should be considering is how many times your dad has been busted for possesion before you call him a hypocrit. The plan fact is that you really havnt told us much about the sistuation, for all we know you could be spending all your money on pot whereas your dad may smoke once or twice a week. If your getting your ass in trouble and spending all your money (and possible others, like i said i dont know) on weed then it dosnt matter if your father smokes or not. Its kinda like being 16 and smoking a pack of ciggies a day just because your parents smoke. Just because they are doing it dosnt mean your not stupid for doing it.

Also when it comes down to it there is a BIG difference between a teenager who dosnt really have experience taking care of themselves and an adult who has their own family.

also to be honest, by saying "To me this only means that i can smoke my ass off and the[y] can kiss my ass if my dad is going to be smoking and i cant" pretty well makes your parents right because if that is how you think then odds are you will end up throwing your life away.

lol yesterday my mom asked me why it smelled so much of bounty and other air freshners, i told her how i used a lightbulb and hooter to cover up the smell from everyone she called me clever and left me be... then my dad took my torch from beside my desk so i cant do blades :(

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Originally Posted by emanresu

hm suck a cock,..better yet,
join ur dad for a bowl,
then get on them kknees

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Lol, you must be like nine? If your over the age of 12 you should embarassed. No more need to reply to anything you say.

i toke with my mom :) its a bonding thing lol

Maybe your dad just said what he said because of your mom. I don't see a big deal in your parents not approving of you smoking weed. They are just doing their job and you'll probably continue to smoke no matter what they say anyway. I'm sure things will change once you're an adult...your dad may ask YOU if you can get any for him.