Please read, what a life....

ok to start things off, i just found out that one of my good friends just died. im quite shocked, i last saw him friday and he was alive and well. he was driving around with my other 2 friends. they got hit by a drunk driver (:mad:fucking alcohol). my other friend (who was also my main dealer) is in a coma, the doctors tried to stop the brain hemoragy but ended up fucking up and making it even worse. i wish him the best, i hope he makes it out alright. the other guy i didnt really know that well, but hes ok right now, conscious, talking to the doctors, etc. the guy that died was 17, why do people have to die so young? its just not right, especially when hes murdered by a drunk.

to top things off, right before i got the phone call i was having a talk with my dad because he found my pipes and weed today. that went ok, hes REALLY dissapointed, but said its my own choise. he gave me my pipes back but threw away my .5 i had left so its no biggie. he told me to hide my stuff better because if my mom finds them she would freak out and call the cops on me. i really dont care about my parents finding my weed at the moment, but why did these two bad things have to happen to me right now? im just really bummed out.... i didnt know what else to do so i decided to make a thread on here, for venting purposes. :(

Aww, I'm so sorry about your friends.
That's a lot to take in one day; a buddy dies, another in a coma, plus your Dad finds your stash.
Blah *hugs*

Time heals everything.

ive lived through that second paragraph, but dont worry, you will soon find pleasure in life to heal the pain of losing your friends

sorry to hear that kid. I have lost at least 5 friends all before they turned 18 except one. It sux to deal with. One of them I saw get shot in the forehead from point blank.

the thing you gotta realize is you have to move on. there is nothing you could have done or can do to change the fact that they are dead.

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Originally Posted by Mean Green Charlene

Time heals everything.

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dude, true

yeah, time does heal everything. anyways im headin to bed now ive had way too much bad shit going down in one day. *sigh...

fortunatley, life moves on

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Originally Posted by biohazard

ok to start things off, i just found out that one of my good friends just died. im quite shocked, i last saw him friday and he was alive and well. he was driving around with my other 2 friends. they got hit by a drunk driver (:mad:fucking alcohol). my other friend (who was also my main dealer) is in a coma, the doctors tried to stop the brain hemoragy but ended up fucking up and making it even worse. i wish him the best, i hope he makes it out alright. the other guy i didnt really know that well, but hes ok right now, conscious, talking to the doctors, etc. the guy that died was 17, why do people have to die so young? its just not right, especially when hes murdered by a drunk.

to top things off, right before i got the phone call i was having a talk with my dad because he found my pipes and weed today. that went ok, hes REALLY dissapointed, but said its my own choise. he gave me my pipes back but threw away my .5 i had left so its no biggie. he told me to hide my stuff better because if my mom finds them she would freak out and call the cops on me. i really dont care about my parents finding my weed at the moment, but why did these two bad things have to happen to me right now? im just really bummed out.... i didnt know what else to do so i decided to make a thread on here, for venting purposes. :(

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Yah man alcohols the worst ive never lived through anything like that but to look on the bright side (in no ways do i mean your friend should have died) this will be a testament to the dangers of alcohol, and im sure that guy, if he has any emotions at all, will never drink again. or at least not drink and drive.

peace be with you

so sorry to hear that love and hugs sent your way, this is one crazy world and ya gotta hold on tight and never give up the fight XX stay strong X life will always be ups and downs as are the highs and lows, if we dont know what it feels like to be sad then we can never know when we are happy, and you have plenty of happy times ahead XX just surround yourself with those you love for now to help you through. take care XX

i shall definately keep those guys in my thoughts man...ive lost a few good friends to car accidents(some alcohol related) and other incidents..shit happens in life, and unfortournately, people end up stepping in it sooner or later...peace be wth you and them, and here's a joint to em! rest in peace fellas.

OK, you are feeling like you world has fallen apart. I've been there at various times in my life( My Mom suicided; my Dad died suddenly; husband wrongly jailed for almost 5 years). It will get better with time, but you may consider talking to a counselor at school to see if you can see a psychologist. Seeing a psychologist is NOT saying you're crazy, it's saying you need someone to talk this through with and you do! Smoke a few, don't be alone, talk about it.

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that's bitter, bio. I lost a couple friends in high school, fortunately they weren't close friends and it was easier to understand their deaths because they were doing something stupid. One was hiking alone in the winter and fell off a cliff, one rode a motorcycle with no helmet and went into a tree and died of head trauma. It just adds insult to injury when your parent finds your stash. One time my parents found out about my 4-day -old daughter and my cannabis colony growing in their basement on the same day.

Sorry to hear that man, and I agree with you, fuck alchahol. Has anyone ever been killed by a stoned driver? Maybe like, hit with some food wrappers or roaches being thrown out the window but thats it.

this is from the local paper: http://www.canada.com/calgaryherald/...04d40e&k=52346

it was a really sad day at school today, we put up flowers on connor's locker, etc... i can't even imagine what his family is going through right now. he is dead, and nothing will change that though. i hope mike pulls out ok from his coma, it will be one happy day when i will find out he finally woke up. until then, please keep these guys in your thoughts and prayers.

My condolences to you. I've never had a friend die, just family, but doubtless it will happen sooner or later, since my friends aren't exactly altar boys. It always saddens me to hear about shit like this; you'd think our govt. would finally realize that alcohol is a dangerous drug, not good, nontoxic weed.

I love the name connor :( & again im sorry for the loss