cant i ever get off from handjobs from my girlfriend?
i mean i can do it fine by myself, but it jsut never happens when she does it
wtf
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cant i ever get off from handjobs from my girlfriend?
i mean i can do it fine by myself, but it jsut never happens when she does it
wtf
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you have years of experience, she on the other hand, does not.
ask her to give it a little lick every now and than in the handjob to give you a little more insentive, works for me.
yea ive gotten a few hj in my day that end up with me saying" you can stop whenever" cuase i just cant go...takes either some head thrown in, good lube, or just being REALLY hot damn horny
be happy your getting anything ... you think u can finger her better then she can?
The guys are right, Skate. That's not a natural talent she has, which, if you think about it, makes sense since she's not born with the same equipment and isn't connected to your nerve endings to know what feels right to you and what doesn't.
For women, doing a good hand job is an acquired skill. As the man, you have to be patient and be a good teacher. Ideally a teacher who has plenty of lube, doesn't criticize, and is willing to overcome any uneasiness you may have about demonstrating your own technique and say, "Here, put your hand over mine and follow along with me as I show you what feels right." Then you can trade hands and put yours over hers. Practice makes perfect!
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Originally Posted by birdgirl73
Birdgirl solves the problem again!
tell her its just like shaking hands :D
i agree with philly,
ok im not gona lie. i hate handjobs from most girls. they hurt. ive had chicks just grab your dong and start crankin, totally dry and it just rubs and hurts im like ow god please stop. only way i can get off is if im wearin sweats or somethin and i lead her hand and she goes over my pants. lubs works too. i know its weird but try to explain what feels good, i guess thats the best bet.
yea dude be glad shes not the master at wakin off dicks
not all guys can come from handjobs or blowjobs, so if you can't that's totally fine- it's just how ur body chooses to do things.
but yea, if you feel the need to be able to come from a handjob, follow the other peoples advice and use lots of lube lube lube!! key ingredient.
ps: i totally agree with birdgirl when she says to sort of 'lead the way'...if more guys taught their partners exactly what they want, the world would be a better place! :)