Hey guys, just wanted to let you all know that I'm sayin goodbye. The girl doesn't approve of the pot, but I really think she's worth it. I'll be off any drugs other than booze (ironically) for a while, so I'll see ya alls laters!
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Hey guys, just wanted to let you all know that I'm sayin goodbye. The girl doesn't approve of the pot, but I really think she's worth it. I'll be off any drugs other than booze (ironically) for a while, so I'll see ya alls laters!
Whacche! (sound of whip). Don't be such a bitch man.
I told her to stay off the coke and heroin while she was dating me, and she's very good at living up to that promise. I think its a fair trade.
She's an ex herion and coke user and she doesn't approve of your marijuana use.....hmmm.....makes sense. I think you could teach her a thing or two.
I have gained more respect for you, there are certain things cannabis is worth giving up for.Quote:
Originally Posted by moeburn
i dont see how a cokey and a heroin user have a problem with ganja but hey different strokes for different folks
Wow...she did coke and heroin and has the nerve to say "NO WEED! Booze is fine though!"
Sorry man, but I just don't get that.
She did coke and heroin, and STOPPED after she met me. A very difficult choice, two choices in fact, which requires a great deal of self-discipline.Quote:
Originally Posted by Frivolous248
Quitting weed is easy game.
well, good luck, i think herb is no big deal though, but hey, its your choice, i've been slowing down for my friend some times, you know, when i was with her..
Herb isn't a big deal, but you gotta respect the guy for quitting something like weed for a girl. Quitting coke and heroin for a guy... now THAT ALSO takes some balls, erm, pussy?
True that. I just think that is a bit ridiculous she doesn't mind drinking, but doesn't want you smokin' the herb.Quote:
Originally Posted by moeburn
Well, if shes worth it then thats cool. If I found a cool enough girl I guess I'd stop...but if she wasn't down with the smoking I don't know how cool she could be :p
nah man if this chick wants you to quit weed for you to date here than she is not right for you, she should like you for who you are.
a potsmoker.
I guess I should be more specific.
She's cool with weed and booze, if its with more than two people (she was suprisingly specific about the number of people). Alone, and it just looks like all the "i do drugs I need help" ads on tv, and it upsets her. Her family situation, her life situation, she doesn't need me looking all pathetic. I can, and will, be strong for her, for as long as she needs me to be.
But she's perfectly okay with getting blitzed at a party, for example :P
I know it may sound kind of silly, a little demanding, and a little dominating. I really don't mind. A lot of girls would ask so much more. Plus, she's never cheated on me, never even looked at another guy the same way she looks at me. But she does so much for me, she improves the quality of my life so much, that a simple stupid little thing like a pot habit is insignificant.
Before her, I was halfassing school, i didnt have a job, i fought with my parents almost daily, and i was antisocial. Now that she's come along and I've recognized her as part of my life, i'm getting honors in school, i have a job, my parents and i have never been happier, and i get along with everyone but the crackheads.
To quote Clerks, "Most girls don't make you lasagna. Most girls cheat on you."
you look all pathetic not because of the weed mang.
so screw you, i aint pathetic and i smoke DA FUCKING HERB>
and what do you do, after you smoke DA FUCKING HERB?Quote:
Originally Posted by Dankmike
Cause all i ever did was watch tv and eat cheetos.
i would give up weed for my girlfriend too, if she asked
listen to music and eat lays with chip dip for me
i respect that, i try to keep my smoking habits to myself, i started as a party smoker and once it got easier to get a hold of it has consumed alot of my time...i kinda like it now because im a lil bit more open to the people that i once told i didnt do it(ex gfs, current one, parents) but they know where im coming from that it will never take over my life, i can quit in a heart beat
but really i have no reason to....i dont see how drinking ans smoking herb are much diff...yet myparents accept the fact that i get wasted at everyparty i go to...its weird how that works out
good luck and you are making a good decision...atleast you can still party!
:thumbsup:
Yeah man, sex is the best drug there is...
She sounds like she's made a big improvement on your life. :thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by moeburn
Everybody's gotta make their compromises, good luck and hope it's a good time
Look where a girl that's against weed got Paul McCartney.
I'm not even indulging very much these days, but a woman has to accept me as I am - pot or no pot, at home or at a party. If they can't do that, then they aren't the right person to be with.
'The Girl' sounds like 'The Law'.
Sorry man, but me personally, no matter how much 'we love each other', there's no way I could quit something like smoking. If she truly loves ME, every part of me, there's no way she could just hold that against me. I can't compromise such a large part of what I am for anything/anyone. That wouldn't be true to myself. All she would have to do is look at the mother fucking facts. - My girl, where ever she is, would at least have a head to make notice and take them in. -
I couldn't unconditionally love anyone that didn't accept me for me. I wouldn't be me without smoking. Not that I can't go without it, but I don't think I'd be MYSELF without it. I know that sounds bad, but it's tough to explain. I wouldn't be as happy, fullfilled, maybe? That's just my extended two cents though. If she makes you happy, and you can't bare to wake up and she's not there, you're set man. To each their own, and cheers. ~
congrats man. screw all the self-protective whiny bitches on this thread, you've got a right to pursue happiness. Any one who thinks they're completed by a bowl and a bag of dorritos hasn't expanded their horizons. Best of luck.
Thanks for hastily generalizing smoking to 'a bowl and a bag of dorritos' chief. What was that about expanding horizons? :rolleyes:
I'm all for happiness, believe that, but I would hope that being happy -truly happy- means NOT compromising or 'settling' ? Maybe that's just me.
Death of Cannabis, Harveset of Love...awww. :o
I couldn't do it...well,....nope couldn't do it. Good on ya though, man. Sometimes it's worth it. I feel ya anyway. I'll smoke double for ya tonight, man.
:rasta: :rasta:
TGF
Dude, I wasn't even attempting to refer to you. Way to take offense at anything. Freudian?Quote:
Originally Posted by Its a Plant
As for true happiness, I can only assume it's true when it comes from within. So you shouldn't need something else, be it another person or a substance to be "truly happy".
Having said that, I'm glad moeburn's found something to make him happy.
Chill out Plant, no one's going to make you put down the pipe...
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Originally Posted by moeburn
Whipped already huh bud? ;) Too bad for you man, more weed for us. Next she'll be taking your paycheque when you get home, then you have to ask permission to sue the bathroom, and then at dinner time, forget dinner in front of TV, you sit at the dinner table, and you know what you do there? You talk about your day! My day was good today, how was your day today, my day was good, it was a good day, etc.....
Manmade prisons I tell ya. I guess I'm glad to be single for right now. :)
Lol my bad, didn't mean to come off like I was pissed. Points taken, all around.Quote:
Originally Posted by Polymirize
And let everyone be happy, trim or not! ~
What would Bob Marley do? ;)
Geez guys, women aren't that psycho.
If he is willing to quit weed for a girl, than maybe his life isn't as consumed with weed like ours? Is that necassarily a bad thing? Whats wrong with just being a social smoker? I mean shit...I think it is a really great thing for you do do that for your girl, because she obviously made an effort for you, and a relationship after all is a 2 person job.
If you feel that you would rather choose a girl over weed, I don't think there is anything wrong with that. In fact, some might find it sad that people are even arguing that weed is better than love
I myself don't know if I could have a boyfriend who didn't smoke, but you know, I might be willing to compromise if the relationship was important to me.
Good for you!
...and to all you other guys jumping up his ass, just realize...we are not all the same, just because thats how he wants to live his life doesn't mean its going to be bad. It doesn't mean this woman is a psycho controlling bitch, she just obviously has issues with too much pot smoking. I am really baked right now so I don't know where I was going with this, but I will say, just let people live their lives man. We are not all the same...
Good luck to you bro, it takes a real man to give up one of his pleasures for the woman he loves. Much respect, im sure she's worth it.:thumbsup:
Peace
Buddy
I am loving the wide range of responses here, really insightful into the personalities of the community.