cannabis club accident

so i fucked up. really really fucked up. ive been taking care of my mom and got her this medicinal marijuana recommendation from a doctor and the whole works. im her caregiver. long story short, a guy im pretty chill with there knew i was having a bad day so he spent 5 dollars on me for a brownie and i got bored because they were stocking and not talking to me so i went out front and sat down on the sofa and when i should have just kept walking to my car i took a bite of the brownie in the waiting room and sure enough the boss comes out and grabs it out of my hand and yells "arent you a caregiver? you shouldnt be eating this?" and went back to yell at my friend i think but i took off. i feel so stupid for doing it. you have no fucking idea how retarded and ashamed i felt. i emailed another girl who works there and told her how sorry i am and what a fuck up i did. hopefully ill get a reply soon. i told my mom too and she says "well you just got too comfortable with them" and its true. so warning to all caregivers....dont fuck around like i did. because im too scared to go back. and much to embarassed to say im sorry in person. so anyways...i just needed to tell someone that.

thanks

aw, damn bro.

I'm not too familiar with the clubs, but I'm sure they will be okay once they realize that you just slipped up and it wont happen again.

and why cant a caregiver eat/smoke pot?

What is a "caregiver" anywho

Just tell them you have problems paying attention and you tend to go on "auto-pilot" and you had food in your hand and you weren't thinking when you took a bite.

Yeah dude, id go back in person and appologise!!
You will feel better once you have done it!!

Go back and apologize. Be a Man. This will benefit You AND Your Mother. Wouldn't She do the same for You? Caregiver = CAREGIVER. Cmon Kid, You can do it.

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Originally Posted by Sabron

and why cant a caregiver eat/smoke pot?

What is a "caregiver" anywho

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Ha ha! A caregiver is not licensed to legally smoke cannabis, so it makes it just as illegal for them as everyone else, plus, they are there to help and aid someone with the use of cannabis. Some people frown upon that as that is the same as doctor getting high on morphine and treeating a patient.

A caregiver is someone who either gets prescrition cannabis from clubs, or gets clones to grow the cannabis for the patient. Just someone who takes care of a patient with the aid of cannabis.

Too bad bro, but you shouldn't have just ran out of the club, so yeah, I can see why you'd be embarrased to go back after running like a scared child. You should have stayed and tried to explain yourself.

Good luck.

Around here caregivers are only allowed in the front area of the club. there is a pickup window and the actual medicinal card holder has to place the order.

Shame, but don't run away from it. There should be no harm no foul if you appologize and explain yourself..

what else can you do? run away?

hardly.. be a man.

Bob.

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Originally Posted by BobBong

Around here caregivers are only allowed in the front area of the club. there is a pickup window and the actual medicinal card holder has to place the order.

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Yeah, that's how it works here, too. No recommendation means you're not getting past the back door.

I'd definitely agree that you should go back and talk to them in perosn, though. Everyone makes mistakes, most of the time people can accept, especially people who use cannabis.

The worst they can do is turn you away, right?

Apology should cover it no prob. I dont think pot heads could be asshole enough not to accept the apology and be cool with it. Heres an idea: Get some good bud and offer the boss to smoke a J with you! :stoned:

yeh i think the guy just bugged that hard cuz it is against the strict rules that they have to follow in order to exist, just appologize and let him know ya didn't know wtf ya were thinking, and you sincerely apologize for disrespecting the club

edit: or jsut tell him ya were stoned out of your mind and forgot where ya were lol j/k

wow im surprised i got this amount of response haha. thanks for support or those who gave it. and for those who told me to "man up" and go apologize...thanks i guess...? anyways. my mom and i are going to stop by tomorrow and im gonna try to do my best to just be honest and say that i fucked up and it wont happen again. i think the worst part in it all is that i was semi casual with 3 or 4 people there and i like the people and they always say come and bullshit with us and i was and i think i just got too comfortable there. unfortunatly the judgement that those people will have on me now though is what hurts me the most. all i want to do is help these guys and now i look like a total idiot. thanks for the support though.

to clear up the confusion basically my mom set me up as a caregiver so that i could go in there and buy bud for her and also have the legal ability to transport moms medicine legally too.

I really don't think anyone there gives a shit aside from the boss. All the other people that work there know what mj does and why people smoke it afterall, they do work at a cannabis club. The boss was just doing his job.

annnd you all were wrong haha. my mom and i went down today to apologize and the first thing they told us is "you and your son are banned" and they already voided our records with them or something. my mom still has a legal recomendation but were not going back to that club. my mom argued and tried fighting for me but i just walked out after a couple minutes. i said "well i just wanted to apologize" and walked out. tried to get my mom to follow but she kept fighting for me. i went to go wait at the car and she came out in tears because she lost the fight. i told her i was really sorry and that im ashamed of myself of such a stupid mistake. she said she was crying because shes not used to not being able to fight for her desicion. they already made up their mind before we walked through the door. and thats cool whatever they are just covering there asses but its just a little disappointing. we can go to a closer club and we'll just sign up with them. also something weird i thought my mom said was apparently when after i walked out but before she walked out herself they told her that something along the lines of, well if your son cant buy your medicine and return it straight to you then maybe he should just get his own recommendation and he meant it. so i just may do that. i feel a bit of arthritis coming on anyways...

thanks for the support though fellas.

I'm sure the people in the club give a shit because no doubt they are being monitored with a very close eye, but I'm sure they wouldn't give a shit outside the walls of the club and more in a social setting.

But yeah, it's good that you're going back to apologize. There's only way to learn. :thumbsup:

EDIT: Sorry, should have read last post. Like I said, they are being watched closely. Their asses and jobs are on the line and some of them are actually there to use, and aid others with cannabis, as a medicine. Not for social and enjoyment like a lot of us.