The 3 gets busted.

Well last night I was tokin' it up from my bong and watching The Big Lebowski. I fell asleep (as always) watching the film.

I'm awoken at approximately 3am to my Mum turning my tv off, she walks over to me and looks at the chest of drawers next to me and says "I can't believe you sometimes" and walks off, so I look up on there and realise my bong is still out, I forgot to put it away after I'd finished toking.

She didn't wake me up this morning as she usually does and she got back from work half an hour ago.. How long can I avoid her, I hear you cry, well I'm off out in a bit (fuckin' hopefully), so most probably avoid the subject until tomorrow after I finish work at 4.
;)

mate!!
That sucks!!

If I were you id get it over with now....stay calm and talk about it, then when she goes off on one (if she does) listen then tell her the facts...then go out haha
It didn't really work for me hahaha but they know, dont like it but I pay rent so what i do im my room is my business.

lol Or just be a bit more careful next time....

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mate!!
That sucks!!

If I were you id get it over with now....stay calm and talk about it, then when she goes off on one (if she does) listen then tell her the facts...then go out haha
It didn't really work for me hahaha but they know, dont like it but I pay rent so what i do im my room is my business.

lol Or just be a bit more careful next time....

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I'll go with the latter... Mr. Jake told me to do the former, just come straight out and have a talk about it, but I'm too much of a pussy to lol

Is she set in her beliefs about smoking?
It's up to you dude....I personally would rather talk about it now, than worry about it for the rest of the night....especially if you come back stoned later...she will know and use it as an excuse.

But that is just my opinion... :)

Josh, swallow your pride, a measure of vodka or two, and just go up to her and tell her straight off you smoke. Do not deny it, cos she knows. Its far better to gain trust back by being honest. It happened to me, and I can talk to her about it any time, and I don't have to be sly, just careful.

Hell, my cat keeps grassing me up, comes in to my room when my mam is changing my sheets or summit, scratches at the spot where me weed is, and my mam finds it.

Hell, he even found me my lost bag of weed, lol. My mam left it on my bed, and I was like, 'Where did ya find that? I had lost it, cheers for finding me it.'

Sweet as, fellas... I think I might leave it for tonight.

damn i'm so glad all my family know :p

you brave souls, i'm too much of a pussy for that kinda talk.

3,
You are right let it chill tonite....

Dont lie about it...dont flaunt it in her face.


I wouldnt smoke in the house......I got kicked out of the house twice when i was younger.

Good luck

Ah shit 3 sheets, that sucks balls, awkward as fuck huh? I guess you should just try and talk to her about it, even though that will feel weird as fuck...most likely.

or you can go the other way

DENY EVERYTHING

peace ;)

(P.S. do you remember me?)

3 I can’t remember how old you are so I’m not sure what advice to give you. Be honest with her she’s probably scared that your doing other drugs.

Just avoid her!

so im pretty much new to this whole website
and i have no clue where to begin
help would be greatly appreciated

give her a little while to think it through herself. My mom would get really irrational after catching me, think it through, and then always realize she over reacted

She completely flipped out friday night, so I went out, came back saturday morning and didn't say a work to her. Went to work at 9, came home at 12:30 for lunch and she had to talk to me a bit 'cause my Grandad was there. I got back at 4 after work and avoided her, then went out and got wasted, came back and she drove my friend home and was talking with me ok, not like usual, but ok at least (hell, I was too drunk to care what she said).

So now it's sunday and she seems ok-ish with me, I'm still a bit pissed that she flew off the handle over finding a bong, damn it!

:)

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Josh, swallow your pride, a measure of vodka or two, and just go up to her and tell her straight off you smoke. Do not deny it, cos she knows. Its far better to gain trust back by being honest. It happened to me, and I can talk to her about it any time, and I don't have to be sly, just careful.

Hell, my cat keeps grassing me up, comes in to my room when my mam is changing my sheets or summit, scratches at the spot where me weed is, and my mam finds it.

Hell, he even found me my lost bag of weed, lol. My mam left it on my bed, and I was like, 'Where did ya find that? I had lost it, cheers for finding me it.'

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I agree. Just make it sound like ganja is just a part of your life as much as drinking or doing homework is a part of your life. Don't let her think that it controls you and I think it should be fine.

Cool cool, fellas :D

Also, Lardman.. I do remember you! ;)

Dang bro, bite the bullet and bring up the conversation with her. No point sitting there worrying about what she might be thinking! Man up, roll her a joint and ask her to toke with ya. Failing that, just sit down and have a chat about this 'evil drug!'. It aint like she can stop you from toking, so whatcha gotta lose?

Peace bro

Buddy

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Dang bro, bite the bullet and bring up the conversation with her. No point sitting there worrying about what she might be thinking! Man up, roll her a joint and ask her to toke with ya. Failing that, just sit down and have a chat about this 'evil drug!'. It aint like she can stop you from toking, so whatcha gotta lose?

Peace bro

Buddy

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That's true, but I'm too pussy to go and talk to her straight up about it, would be way too uncomfortable.

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That's true, but I'm too pussy to go and talk to her straight up about it, would be way too uncomfortable.

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Dang man, take cams advice then a few shots for dutch courage and then have a chat! You could even write her a letter!

Peace

Buddy

3 sheets it sounds to me like maybe you’re a little mad at yourself for leaving your bong out (rule #1 ALWAYS put your shit away immediately when your done.) I’ve found that following rule #1, even if you live by yourself, will avoid many mishaps. That being said, what’s done is done.

She’s your mom you can’t really blame her for worrying or being scared for you. I think she blew up at you because she cares about you and she doesn’t know what to do. She probably feels like she filed in raising you “right.” If I were you I wouldn’t talk to her about pot like it’s a part of your life or your new religion. That will freak her out and she will be convinced that you have a “problem.” You might just wake up and find yourself in rehab : (

Talk to her about it like you would alcohol.

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3 sheets it sounds to me like maybe youâ??re a little mad at yourself for leaving your bong out (rule #1 ALWAYS put your shit away immediately when your done.) Iâ??ve found that following rule #1, even if you live by yourself, will avoid many mishaps. That being said, whatâ??s done is done.

Sheâ??s your mom you canâ??t really blame her for worrying or being scared for you. I think she blew up at you because she cares about you and she doesnâ??t know what to do. She probably feels like she filed in raising you â??right.â?� If I were you I wouldnâ??t talk to her about pot like itâ??s a part of your life or your new religion. That will freak her out and she will be convinced that you have a â??problem.â?� You might just wake up and find yourself in rehab : (

Talk to her about it like you would alcohol.

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Thanks for the advice pally. Thank you all, but that advice is best for me, I don't much like confrontation so I'll just leave it to see what happens.

cambam you changed your avatar.. whats up bro?

but 3 sheets, damn that sucks. thats happened to me before but i was lucky enough not to get caught. I feel asleep watching some movie in my living room and left my medicine bottle full of dank and my lighter out on the table next to me. she didnt notice, but i was scared shitless hehe

I'd just act normal, if she said anything to me I'd awnser straight but other wise no biggie.

pack a bowl into the bong, pick up the bong, walk to the room you mom is in, take a big hit right in front of her, blow it in here face and say "its ttabaco

come on... take my advise

Lol :D

Hi! Parents away till thursday, yay :)