Im too damn horny when Im with her!

Just got back into a relationship with my ex (and before you say anything, Im glad I did :) ).
Anyway, we have sex pretty regularly, 3 or 4 times a week sometimes more, but whenever Im with her I always wanna go down on her, have sex etc. Its not that I only see her in a sexual way, I love her to bits and have even got engaged to her a few days ago. I always feel warm and gooey inside when I see her, but when I look at her I just imagine tearing her clothes off. Its really frustrating for me, because even if for just one day a week I just want to be able to be around her without wanting to fuck her silly.

Another thing... would it be unfair to not go down on her/finger her until she does the equivalent to me? I get really down and depressed when she doesnt make me come, I just want her to love my body as much as I love hers. Im nearly in tears thinking about this, but if I just cannot have a partner who isnt as attentive to me as I am to her :(

I got it the same.
Say youll do it only if she does it too.

rub one off before she comes over...

Congrats man, i hope it all goes well for you and her. Tell her i said hey :D

Satan666, does it work? She LOVES it when I go down on her (I love it too, hehe), so maybe after a few days of no lickin she will decide to start 'sharing the love'
Dryst, done that many times. Only thing it does it make me last longer in bed
And Alex, cheers, and Ill tell her ya said hi

Swizzy, I gotta ask about this.

A week ago you were in torment, believing she wasn't interested at all. Then there was interest again. Then y'all got engaged? And now you're feeling like you can't get enough of her. It's all awful fast, isnt' it? From 0 to 110 in five to seven days. I worry that this is gonna flame out rather than last in the way you want it to.

Just to clarify for everyone, I didnt get engaged after a week of going out. We were seeing eachother for a couple of months back in June, then I (this is going to sound really bad) wrote a list of what I wanted in the relationship. She got mad, we had sex, then she broke up with me the next day, ultimately making me mad - shagging me one day then breaking up the next - which resulted in me not talking to her for two months, but still loving her. We only got back together because I met up with a couple of mates in town, and they met up with Emily too. Eventually we started talking again, one thing led to another, then started going out again. Yes, she did say someone elses name (Ben) but not while having sex, and he has been on our minds a lot over the past few weeks... hes having quite a few problems at the moment, but thats another story. I trust that it was a mistake because she rang him up the next day, telling him that she doesnt have any feelings for him at all (apart from friendship). That, and hes becoming a woman soon. I have completely lost track of the point to this story.

I just love her so damn much. All I want to do is hold her in my arms 24/7. When Im with her, every trouble I have just fades away. Birdgirl, you seem to know a lot about, well, everything, so I have a question... what are the chances of getting pregnant if you have unprotected sex four times in a row, just after a period, and you take the 'morning-after' pill 82 hours after sex?

How soon is "just after a period," Swizz?

Two days if I remember correctly.

Would you like to take this up into chat so I can ask you some quick Qs a bit more privately? I'll PM you if you'll meet me up there.

Sure thing, Ill be in there in a sec :)

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How soon is "just after a period," Swizz?

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That doesn't really matter at this point. The morning after pill has no effect 82 hours later.:confused:

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That doesn't really matter at this point. The morning after pill has no effect 82 hours later.:confused:

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45% chance according to the nurse... I dont like those odds, but Im going to care for and love that kid with all my heart if it does happen.

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45% chance according to the nurse... I dont like those odds, but Im going to care for and love that kid with all my heart if it does happen.

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Is this what your girlfriend took?

http://www.emergencybirthcontrol.org/

There are lot's of sites here (below) to read as well.
http://www.ask.com/web?q=the+morning...rc=0&o=0&l=dir

It warms my heart to hear how you'll love your child.:) I hope everything works out for you and your Emily.

I was shaggin my ex, emma, and the jonny split [Guess im just too big rofl]

Anyway, she was pregnant, and then got rid of it :(

She didnt really consult how i felt.

I feel all warm and happy to know other people are too. And im gettting more BUDS today... well , in about half hour rofl.

Hi lip , just thought i`d add my bit to this!


I am 26 and I have a 5 1/2 year old boy who means the world 2 me and another baby on the way oct 24th 06 (dont know what it is)
Anyway my girl and i have been toghether 10 years this january and we had many ups and downs and scares with pregnancy.
I know for a fact that the morning after pill is actually effective 48 hours after
anymore ......no good!
This doesn`t mean she is going to be pregnant though it took us 6 months with first....it didn`t take long for the second admititley.
But remember this,people who say it costs a fortune to bring up a child are probably spoiling theres.......You get by with what cash u got!
The thing you sacrifice is your time,with mates and going out.
You tend to loose friends when kids are at home 24/7 (well u find out who ur mates are) but u make new ones on the way.
Make sure your with the right girl before planning kids as they give you a un-explainable emotional attachment that cant be described.......losing that kid through some silly arguement that happens alot in the uk is the worst thing that can happen to anyone......Goodluck with everything bud!

oh by the way lick ur mrs for a few minutes then stop when she getting into it
and fingers crossed she will return the favour.......called teasing bro ;)

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Just got back into a relationship with my ex (and before you say anything, Im glad I did :) ).
Anyway, we have sex pretty regularly, 3 or 4 times a week sometimes more, but whenever Im with her I always wanna go down on her, have sex etc. Its not that I only see her in a sexual way, I love her to bits and have even got engaged to her a few days ago. I always feel warm and gooey inside when I see her, but when I look at her I just imagine tearing her clothes off. Its really frustrating for me, because even if for just one day a week I just want to be able to be around her without wanting to fuck her silly.

Another thing... would it be unfair to not go down on her/finger her until she does the equivalent to me? I get really down and depressed when she doesnt make me come, I just want her to love my body as much as I love hers. Im nearly in tears thinking about this, but if I just cannot have a partner who isnt as attentive to me as I am to her :(

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I thought you said you were homosexual

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Originally Posted by LIP

I was shaggin my ex, emma, and the jonny split [Guess im just too big rofl]

Anyway, she was pregnant, and then got rid of it :(

She didnt really consult how i felt.

I feel all warm and happy to know other people are too. And im gettting more BUDS today... well , in about half hour rofl.

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lip, we love you and all but no offense bro but all that smoking is gonna make your baby brain damaged, LOL!!!!!

give it time, if you stick with her and if you continue to pleasure her, i guarentee she will begin to do the same. sorry if that had nothing to do with your question... im higher than ive been in 4 months.

you need to talk to her about getting head, if your getting engaged to her that shouldn't be hard and i shouldn;'t be telling ou that. don;t rush...

Cheers for all the help peeps, everythings being sorted out at the mo. Looks like Ive got something called hypersexuality, quite common affecting 1 in 20 people but for people with bipolar theres three times the chance. My counsellor, Claire, agrees with me that I have it, and by the end of the month Ill be on some meds or something to sort it out... hopefully :)

It really isnt fun being horny 24/7 lol.