SOOOO confused....

Ok im having serious girl problems here, and i need the folks from cannibas.com's help. Hes the situation. I was with this girl, will call her M, for 10 months. At the beginning of the summer, we went on a little break because we both needed time away from eachother (too much fighting) So we went are seperate ways for a month and a bit. After that, she called me up and said she wanted to get back together. We started dating again, then soon after it was too much for her i guess, and we broke up again. Now were not dating, but she still calls me, still wants to hang out with me and what not. She came over today and she started kissing me, so one thing led to another and we had sex. Then after we were done, she turned over to me and asked, "what are we gonna do about this when we start dating other people." Im so confused, one minute shes kissing me, the next she doesnt want me to touch her. I really like this girl, but i think shes just trying to fuck with me. If anyone can offer there opinion it would be much appreciated.

later

Sounds like she's using u for booty calls

Be firm with her, don't let her jerk you around.
Find out how she feels and base it from that.. and don't take "I don't know..."for an answer.. the last thing you need is to misunderstand her intentions and set yourself up just to get hurt.. find out what she wants.. if it's not what you want.. well, go from there..

You the man!

Bob.

^ that makes a lot of sense. thanks bob.

ill post back when i find out if im being jerked around or not.

later

She's looking for a "friend" by the sound of it. Friends are good - weigh your options before drawing a hard line...

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Originally Posted by OniEhtRedrum781

Sounds like she's using u for booty calls

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How tragic!!! :p

Anyhow, Not Enough Herb what's this chick's name and number out of curiosity? ;)

This thread looked really funny from the index, the word confused in the sexuality section lol. But yeah sounds like your being jerked around

shes trying to get in your head man...

If you two can still manage to be good friends and still have sex even when your dating other people it is a -sweet- situation to be in. Been there a few times..

it sounds like shes after sex

well heres the update everyone.

we got into a big fight, and stopped talking for a bit. Few days later she called me again and everything was good. Then she just called me at 2 in the morning and asked about this rumour that she heard that i did blow in the summer. it was true, she freaked out and said dont talk to me so i said good and hung up.

so thats the end of that

oh well

make her do yayo then tell her your dont want to talk to her anymore. T®auma logic is out of the box.

my advice, flip the coin on her, do what shes doing to you, mess with her head. she probably thinks she can just own you and use you for whatever and you'll be cool with it all. my advice, if she tries pullin some shit like tryin to suck your wang, dont let her do it just start screaming "WTF B*TCH!? YOU DONT WANT NOTHIN TO DO WITH ME AND THEN YOU WANT TO SUCK ME OFF? WE SCREW AND THEN YOU DONT WANT ME TO TOUCH YOU!? F*** YOU B*TCH! I DONT WANT TO SEE YOU, I DONT WANT TO TALK TO YOU, STOP CALLING! F*** YOU!" you will feel so much better afterwards, ive gone through this before and if this doesnt straighten things up, you've got a psycho bitch on your ass. dont even worry about making her cry, she brought it on herself by messing with your head. im not saying its okay to make women cry for no reason so please dont get me wrong and under no circumstances should you hit her, not even if she hits you. you know what you do if she hits you? press charges and get a restraining order

OK, I'd give some very diffferent advice from MastaChronic's in this instance.

If she's a game-player and rather judgemental about what you have and haven't done, just let it die like you seem to already have done. That's the fastest route to a happy ending. Don't call her back. Don't get into a game-playing, head-screwing cycle with her. Just let it go. Move above and beyond to greener pastures, meaning prettier, nicer, more open-minded girls who don't play back-and-forth games. They're out there. And you'll be happier when you meet one of them.

congragulations dude. you are officially her fuck buddy. all of the benifits, with none of the commitment. :dance:

"M" has a penis.

"M" is a fucking succubus. She ruined this kid's life. He would be in the best mood and then go hang out with her and be drained of all his energy and enthusiam.... then we would get drunk and it would all come back again lol. But yeah, she's a hoe fo sho, and he know. She fucking changed you so much man, glad to have you back lmao.

act like a bitch and that u dont know and fuck her for all she's worth,,,,,,just ride it