parents dude omyfuckingod

my parents are driving me to the fucking edge. first they flip out cuz they find out i was "in a car with a teenager driving" and i mean FLIP OUT. they never give me a chance to speak for myself. e-v-e-r-y-s-i-n-g-l-e time they talk to me its a new problem. they think im on speed they think im on acid they wont stop being fucking outreagousley smuthering to me and then they go blaming me for shit and its fucking driving me insane they never listen to me, i try to exaplin something and they freak out at me about how wrong i am. how am i supposed to communicate when its a one way conversation. theyre fucking rediculous. they think im doing all this bad shit, and THEN they try and guilt trip me saying "its so hard on us, what youve been doing" and its like... I HAVNT BEEN DOING ANYTHING. theyre being so fucking stupid.

every day. and i mean every day. they accuse me of sneaking out or smoking too much "pot" or doing some outragousley stupid drug. and its not in the way of a normal parent. these guys are being smuthering and i literally am going crazy. literally. after one conversation, i punched my head insanely hard with my fist... just cuz the conversation drove me so fucking nuts. i cant talk to them. i try and say something and they cut me off telling me why im wrong and why waht im doing is bad. i tell them to please just listen, and they dont.. they accuse me of shit

and what i hate the most...
they fucking think that they are right and that im the one with problems. if you were to ask ANYONE else who knows me they would say no, hes fine, hes got his life on track. and then you ask my parents and they think im going thru depression and hard times and druggy times and bad times and that im troubled. i can tell you right now im not any of that.

my life are great, ive got the best friends i could ask for, i feel so set in my place, i feel so calm and relaxed, im doing well in school, and every day i feel top of the world..
until i go home
my parents make home a hell.
my home is at my life partners house. , my home is her.
thats where i belong, i dont belong here anymore
my parents have succesfully made it hell.


im afraid to walk downstairs becuase they'll stop me and tell me how sad they are that im being so troubled.

Wow I feel so bad for you man, I hope things get better soon, I know they did for me. Look on the bright side, your parents let you smoke pot!:D

the life and times of a teenager, life isen't that bad quitchabitchin

Yeah thats how my mom is, my dad is a pothead so we just laugh about me getting high. My mom sniffs me and checks me for bruises ok, don't tell me you have it any worse.

Yea those assholes, Giving you a place to stay, and looking out for you, fuck i hate that shit

"after one conversation, i punched my head insanely hard with my fist"... DO you do hard drugs?, what did that accomplish?

"they accuse me of shit" Well you smoke pot and it sounds like they know, and I am guessing you did not tell them they found out... so you have now succesfully put doubt in their heads.

I am sure you are a cool person, and your doing good in school and shit, However the sooner you just stop fighting your parents the sooner its gonna be easier for you, you will be out of the house before you know it... trust me.


Even cannabis.com doesn't support you, read the guidelines. Respect your parents wishes intill you get your own place. If they do something illegal then take care of it over there heads.

Okay first off, your first area of being WRONG is when you said in your PARENTS house. You pay rent....work..if you work do you use the money to help support your family...do you pitch in for food...offer to help around the house? Just curious not saying you have to but just because your the kid doesnt mean you get to free load for 18 years and make your own rules cause what you have your own room. Why dont you thank them for supplying you with enough of the necessities to survive to whatever age you are...16 17 whatever...And how is your parents acusing you if you actually are doing drugs. I do drugs...i drink, I smoke....but NEVER have i done this around my family i hold more respect to them then that REGUARDLESS of how "bad" you think they treat you. Its amazing that after all these acusations they would even give you the offer to let you still live there...There are so many people that get kicked out the instant there parents hear they are doing drugs..Maybe when you pay for own shit (and i dont mean you save up from your minimum wage job to buy some jeans and shoes and take your "life partner" out for dinner) I mean legitamitly are paying your own way for YOU to survive. You cant even know and dont say you do of what its like to be in charge of all your own financials and have no one to come crying to when your going to be taken to collections when the real world doesnt care if you dont have enough money to pay bills. You think you have it rough now...please wait till your atleats out of your teens before you rant about this bullshit. Yea my parents probably would have killed me if i was doing DRUGS in THEIR house...Anyways enough about this ohh so sad story...:rasta:

Leave him alone hes going through what most weed smokers did at one time.

Sounds like a bummer man.

I'd blow up on my mom daily because she could never shut up. She would always ask a million questions and always riding my ass. She would say, "just one question", that usually followed 8 more stupid questions. :p Just leave me be women! Damn!

You'll get through it. If you're 18 now maybe you should consider moving out before you really snap on them. 18yrs of being told what to do can drive a person nuts. That's why I left home at 17 :D

my mom wouldnt stop talking either, then i just started joking around about pot more and more,,,, now she stopped talking about it and shes doesnt ask anything anymore,, she just knows its in the back of her mind "is my daughter doing drugs????? i laugh sometimes because shes so into that question

You know how to really piss your parents off. When they bitch at you just smile at them and say "ok." Make them think you know something they dont. If my dad's bitching at me for staying out to late and asks me what I was doing, I'll just laugh and say I was eating diner for 5 hours.

Some people are really lashing out at you. All I have to say is, they make valid points. Now, let me put it in a way that doesn't seem like a direct attack.

Stop and think about it from their point of view. I know it's hard to understand, but they're trying to do what's best for you. I know you want to be on your own and you think their rules are stupid. I'm sure they seem that way to you, but your parents are really just trying to protect you. You realize that most of the people out there think marijuana's a horrible drug, right? You really need to sit down and talk to your parents about all of this. It's gonna be really hard and really painful, but both parties will come out the better for it. Remember to show them love, they love you far more than you can even comprehend. Don't ruin the relationship you have with your parents now, because years from now you'll be regretting it.

Oh, and girlfriend or boyfriend, not life partner. No offense, I'm sure it feels you'll be together forever, but things have a way of coming crashing down around you. But you know who'll always be there for you? Mommy and daddy. Awwwwwww.

Good luck, just remember sometimes you gotta sit back and think about it from their point of view.

haha sorry to the people who get all pissed off, you gotta understand, im venting and i say this shit on a forum for a reason.

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haha sorry to the people who get all pissed off, you gotta understand, im venting and i say this shit on a forum for a reason.

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is it because you are prowling in the night?

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Originally Posted by graph

Some people are really lashing out at you. All I have to say is, they make valid points. Now, let me put it in a way that doesn't seem like a direct attack.

Stop and think about it from their point of view. I know it's hard to understand, but they're trying to do what's best for you. I know you want to be on your own and you think their rules are stupid. I'm sure they seem that way to you, but your parents are really just trying to protect you. You realize that most of the people out there think marijuana's a horrible drug, right? You really need to sit down and talk to your parents about all of this. It's gonna be really hard and really painful, but both parties will come out the better for it. Remember to show them love, they love you far more than you can even comprehend. Don't ruin the relationship you have with your parents now, because years from now you'll be regretting it.

Oh, and girlfriend or boyfriend, not life partner. No offense, I'm sure it feels you'll be together forever, but things have a way of coming crashing down around you. But you know who'll always be there for you? Mommy and daddy. Awwwwwww.

Good luck, just remember sometimes you gotta sit back and think about it from their point of view.

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Graph! you wonderful, wonderful human being you.
nice words.

much love.
:)

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Graph! you wonderful, wonderful human being you.
nice words.

much love.
:)

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And I wonder, what is the secret to his wisdom?
A magical ring perhaps..?


...... My Presciousssssssss

not uncommon

it's a way for them to feel superior, or feel sorry for themselves, or maybe something else; society is full of shit, i see a lot of maturity in what you're saying, don't let folks get you down; and the troubles suck, but it can be quite helpful in life if you can have your parents on your side; but sometimes you can't, and if you had to leave then you have to; don't know how old you are, but if you can manage to keep on reasonable terms with them, it may pay off in the future; and one thing i'm thinking is if they don't understand than perhaps just be more secretive about your life; i know that's generally considered lousy advice, but i don't want you to be hating life at your folks house

i'll mention my story cuz there are similarities. i just had to move back in with my mother because of illness (lyme disease), but have recovered and am moving out; things are pretty chill but i find that she absolutely expects me to live the way she lives, value what she values; this has nothing to do with weed (i actually don't smoke myself, not cuz i don't want to, but i just never did, funny huh? :) ,..........why i'm here researching this fascinating plant...but i digress) but rather it has to do with her "god" if you will, which is hard work, work work work. always doing something, AND caring very much about what others think. i'm not that way; i value determination and follow-through, but i don't see "work" as an end-all............i could go on but this is all to say that freedom is important and as cliche as it is.........just keep it real, don't lose track of yourself..................something that happened to me in high school (which i imagine could be where you are) as i was desperately trying to fit in, a foolish ocupation

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And I wonder, what is the secret to his wisdom?
A magical ring perhaps..?


...... My Presciousssssssss

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It's actually the crappy power of heart ring. It doubles as a whistle though, so that's kinda cool.

Oh, and thanks MaryJane. I speak from experience, growing up without a daddy and all. I'd give so much just to see him again, it's sad to see some people throwing away the relationship with their parents.

Different strokes, you know?

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the life and times of a teenager, life isen't that bad quitchabitchin

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i can't agree; i think being a teenager was a much more troublesome time in my life than my tweenties (and i've had serious illness and a divorce); everyone is different but i sure as hell don't look back on highschool as the "best time of my life"


..........all this makes me think of how i'd raise kids if i have them. i'd without a doubt smoke with them if they were of an age that they wouldn't be harmed by it and could handle the responsibility of keeping it secret; as well as alchohol. it's funny, my mother is norwegian, grew up in norway; i don't know what the drinking age is there but most teenagers will have a glass of wine with dinner with their parents now and again; it's very american to have these solid "puritanical" if you will (though "hypocritical" is better) statutes like "weed is bad", these ABSOLUTE laws in social culture...............which leads me to my last point which is:

recognize that your parents are IGNORANT. they have been told the same things about ganja that everyone in the usa has, it may be difficult to educate them, but you can try, and by all means educate yourself while your at it, there are risks

......as hard as it is you have to give them the benefit of the doubt in that way; if you HAVE to live with them, which i imagine you do, it will make life MUCH easier if you try to reconcile as best you can, explain things to them and perhaps they'll respect you for it, and if they don't, well at least you tried

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Originally Posted by graph

Some people are really lashing out at you. All I have to say is, they make valid points. Now, let me put it in a way that doesn't seem like a direct attack.

Stop and think about it from their point of view. I know it's hard to understand, but they're trying to do what's best for you. I know you want to be on your own and you think their rules are stupid. I'm sure they seem that way to you, but your parents are really just trying to protect you. You realize that most of the people out there think marijuana's a horrible drug, right? You really need to sit down and talk to your parents about all of this. It's gonna be really hard and really painful, but both parties will come out the better for it. Remember to show them love, they love you far more than you can even comprehend. Don't ruin the relationship you have with your parents now, because years from now you'll be regretting it.

Oh, and girlfriend or boyfriend, not life partner. No offense, I'm sure it feels you'll be together forever, but things have a way of coming crashing down around you. But you know who'll always be there for you? Mommy and daddy. Awwwwwww.

Good luck, just remember sometimes you gotta sit back and think about it from their point of view.

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he's right; don't burn that parent-child bridge, it's perhaps the most valuable one you get in life