Love sucks

Have you ever been in love with a girl you have no chance with? It fuckin sucks... This is a very confusing situation but I need to get it off my chest and I really dont have anyone I can talk to about this particular problem... My brothers friend has been going out with this girl from about and hour and a half away, she has been staying with him and his family. They have a very fucked up relationship and I really dont think its going to last.

Now my brother and I are fairly close, our respective groups of friends hang out all the time. But they are all still 20. My friends and I are about 23, the girl in question is 22, so she'll come out to bars with us when we go. I have become fairly close to her and have completely fallen in love with her. She is the most amazing girl I have ever met. She's intelligent, and easy going, we have a ton in common, and shes one of the most beautiful girls I have ever known in my life. I mean I would do anything for this girl, I have never felt like this about anyone, ever before. Every now and again she will say or do something that makes me think she feels the same way I do, but I'm never sure if its my imagination or not.

Now here is the meat of the problem. Either she stays with this guy who takes her completly for granted and pays no attention to her, and I get to see her almost every day. Or they break up and she moves back home... I don't know whats worse. This is very much a lose/lose situation for me. Completely in love with a girl I don't think I can ever have. When shes around it makes me incrediblely happy and unbelievably depressed at the same time. I feel like I can't just give up on feelings like these but I cant do anything about them either...

I dont know if any of that made any sense to anyone but thanks for reading anyway, I can't really talk to any of my friends about this cause I don't want it to get back to this guy that I'm in love with his girlfriend.

ill whack your brother for 1,000....500 up front and 500 after the job is done.
^joke.

iidk man sounds like your just gonna have to find another chick.

2 things

better to love once then to never have loved at all

also ive had a first love who broke my heart and it took a year to get over. then i found my TRUE love who i will be with forever.

lmao how did that work out it ryhmed. but yeah man keep your head up. everyone gots a soul mate and when you find yours. it will be forever. even if it takes a few heart breaks you can never give up on love. its great when you find it.

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Originally Posted by ForeverZero

Have you ever been in love with a girl you have no chance with? It fuckin sucks.

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oh yes... too many times... even now!.... and yes, it does suck very much. :(

but theres not really much u can do about it, except move on.

good luck mate :thumbsup:

Peace

Your lustfully inthacturated, with a broad who you cant hook up with. Get over it, and move on to another broad. She's teasing you, to see where you stand, and if your suitable to the kind she likes. Apperently, she likes someone more exciting, and she probally sees you ass more of a good friend, with potiential on the side.

For someone with the neame "Green Love" you don't sound too convinced in the concept of Love.

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Originally Posted by ForeverZero

Have you ever been in love with a girl you have no chance with? It fuckin sucks... This is a very confusing situation but I need to get it off my chest and I really dont have anyone I can talk to about this particular problem... My brothers friend has been going out with this girl from about and hour and a half away, she has been staying with him and his family. They have a very fucked up relationship and I really dont think its going to last.

Now my brother and I are fairly close, our respective groups of friends hang out all the time. But they are all still 20. My friends and I are about 23, the girl in question is 22, so she'll come out to bars with us when we go. I have become fairly close to her and have completely fallen in love with her. She is the most amazing girl I have ever met. She's intelligent, and easy going, we have a ton in common, and shes one of the most beautiful girls I have ever known in my life. I mean I would do anything for this girl, I have never felt like this about anyone, ever before. Every now and again she will say or do something that makes me think she feels the same way I do, but I'm never sure if its my imagination or not.

Now here is the meat of the problem. Either she stays with this guy who takes her completly for granted and pays no attention to her, and I get to see her almost every day. Or they break up and she moves back home... I don't know whats worse. This is very much a lose/lose situation for me. Completely in love with a girl I don't think I can ever have. When shes around it makes me incrediblely happy and unbelievably depressed at the same time. I feel like I can't just give up on feelings like these but I cant do anything about them either...

I dont know if any of that made any sense to anyone but thanks for reading anyway, I can't really talk to any of my friends about this cause I don't want it to get back to this guy that I'm in love with his girlfriend.

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Man I was in the same situation a little while ago.. except the girl's BF was one of my closest homie. I just stopped going to their house everyday (it's our group's main chill spot) and found other things to do.

Then I met another girl and we're going out. :thumbsup:

I suggest you forget about her if you don't plan on taking actions to make her yours. I'm not going to quote the fish in the ocean thing, but it's true man. I do feel your pain though man, sure isn't a happy feeling.

Good luck dogg

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Originally Posted by Green Love

Your lustfully inthacturated, with a broad who you cant hook up with. Get over it, and move on to another broad. She's teasing you, to see where you stand, and if your suitable to the kind she likes. Apperently, she likes someone more exciting, and she probally sees you ass more of a good friend, with potiential on the side.

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How is he lustfully infatuated with the girl if he spends alot of time with her, they share the same interests, and he says he likes her alot because of her INTELLIGENCE and PERSONALITY. Lust has NOTHING to do with such qualities. Also, how in the hell do you gather that she is teasing him as a test to see if he can be a friend with benefits?

I'm sorry but your post is just fucked

Ok brother,ur a sox fan,we think alike,im a die hard one,from boston,now listen up,somehow get the two to brake up or tell her that she deserves better than the sleeze shes with,wen and if you get them to break up go out with her and have her move in with you or move in with her or have a long term relationship and eventually move with one another.simple as that.hope it all works out,ttyl

I agree with Green Love, it's infatuation not true love. Not trying to be mean or anything, just realistic. Love is something that is shared between two people, a bond that is built up over time. Like Dannyman I was in the same boat before and once you've been there you know the difference.

First thing to determine is why do you say you have no chance? Is it because she only sees you as a friend or, even worse, friend of a friend? If so, nothing else matters. Move on, you'll be better in the long run. If, however, she actually has romantic feelings towards you, find a way to work it out. Be creative and find a way that will cause the least amount of friction in your circle of friends. Either way, I can guarantee that a year or so from now, if your not with her, you'll have forgotten about her.

dude straight up tell her. no joke man youve gota tell her cuz if they break up and she goes home and youve never told her then your goan hate yourself forever. and no offence to the guys above me but only you know if your in love. and if you are then do whatever it takes to get her. tell her. then let us know how it goes because for some reason i really want u to get this girl and be happy. i have no idea why, maybe depressing day and i want soemone to be happy..:[ yea ill stop rambling,.

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Originally Posted by lagstronaut

How is he lustfully infatuated with the girl if he spends alot of time with her, they share the same interests, and he says he likes her alot because of her INTELLIGENCE and PERSONALITY. Lust has NOTHING to do with such qualities. Also, how in the hell do you gather that she is teasing him as a test to see if he can be a friend with benefits?

I'm sorry but your post is just fucked

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your a smart guy. amen broseph.

All I am going to say is, I dated a guy who was amazing to me, intelligent, witty, mature... I thought it was true love and then we broke up. ;) Meaning, you either risk losing friends and telling her? Or go for the gold all out and prove to her that you're worth it. Plain and simple, there's no real problem here.

I stared at the girl next to me... She was my so called "best friend"... I stared at her... Long, silky hair... And I wished she was mine... But she didn't notice me like that... I knew it... After class she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before... And I handed them to her... She said "thanks"... And gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to hell her... I want her to know that I don't want to be "just friends"... I love here but I'm too shy to tell her... And I don't know why...
IT'S JUNIOR YEAR...
My phone ran... On the other end it was her... She was in tears... Mumbling on and on about how her love had broken her heart... She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone... So I did... As I sat next to her on the sofa... I stared at her soft eyes... Wishing she was mine... After 2 hours... A Drew Barrymore movie... And 3 bags of chips... She decided to go to sleep... She looked at me.. Said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I want her to know... That I don't want to be "just friends"... I love her but I'm too shy to tell her... And I don't know why...
IT'S SENIOR YEAR...
The day before prom... She walked to my locker... "My date is sick" she said... He's not going to go... Well... I didn't have a date and in 7th grade... We made a promise that if neiter of us had dates... We'd go together just as "best friends"... And so we did...
IT'S PROM NIGHT...
After everything was over with... I was standing at her front door step... I stared at her ... She smiled at me... I wanted her to be mine... But she doesn't think of me like that... And I know it... Then she said "I had the best time... Thanks!"... And she gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to telll her... I wanted her to know that I don't want to be "just friends"... I love her but I'm just too shy... And I don't know why...
IT'S GRADUATION DAY...
A day passed... And then a week... And then a month... Before I could blink... It was graduation day... I watched her... Perfect body... Floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma... I wanted her to be mine... But she doesn't think of me that way... And I know it... Before everyone went home... She came to me in her smock and hat... And cried as I hugged her... Then she lifted her head from my shoulders and said "you're my best friend"... "Thanks!"... And gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her.. I wanted to know that I wanted to be more than "just friends"... I love her but I'm too shy... And I don't know why...
IT'S A FEW YEARS LATER...
Now I sit in the pews of the church... A church that she is getting married in now... I watched her say "I do" an drive off to her new life... Married to another man... I wanted her to be mine... But she didn't see me like that... And I knew it... But before she drove away... She came to me and said "You came!... Thanks!"... And she kissed me on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I wantd her to know that I didn't want to be "just friends"... I love her but I'm just too shy... And I don't know ....
YEARS PASSED...
I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my "best friend"... At the service they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years... This is what it said... "I stare at him... Wishing he was mine... But he doesn't notice me like that... And I know it... I wanted to tell him... I wanted him to know... That I don't want to be "just friends"... I love him but I'm just too shy... And I don't know why... I wish he would tell me he loved me"... I wish I did too... I thought to myself and I cried...

Damn Ammie! That's some crazy shit right there.

wow ammie nice post and so true as to the point...risk it while its there to risk.

foreverzero yeh it sucks man and i feel your pain honestly. just tell her how you feel. if she doesnt feel the same then just be there for her, be her friend. it hurts i know man. smoke some weed and throw on a slow tune. it feels good to cry

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Originally Posted by Ammie

I stared at the girl next to me... She was my so called "best friend"... I stared at her... Long, silky hair... And I wished she was mine... But she didn't notice me like that... I knew it... After class she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before... And I handed them to her... She said "thanks"... And gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to hell her... I want her to know that I don't want to be "just friends"... I love here but I'm too shy to tell her... And I don't know why...
IT'S JUNIOR YEAR...
My phone ran... On the other end it was her... She was in tears... Mumbling on and on about how her love had broken her heart... She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone... So I did... As I sat next to her on the sofa... I stared at her soft eyes... Wishing she was mine... After 2 hours... A Drew Barrymore movie... And 3 bags of chips... She decided to go to sleep... She looked at me.. Said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I want her to know... That I don't want to be "just friends"... I love her but I'm too shy to tell her... And I don't know why...
IT'S SENIOR YEAR...
The day before prom... She walked to my locker... "My date is sick" she said... He's not going to go... Well... I didn't have a date and in 7th grade... We made a promise that if neiter of us had dates... We'd go together just as "best friends"... And so we did...
IT'S PROM NIGHT...
After everything was over with... I was standing at her front door step... I stared at her ... She smiled at me... I wanted her to be mine... But she doesn't think of me like that... And I know it... Then she said "I had the best time... Thanks!"... And she gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to telll her... I wanted her to know that I don't want to be "just friends"... I love her but I'm just too shy... And I don't know why...
IT'S GRADUATION DAY...
A day passed... And then a week... And then a month... Before I could blink... It was graduation day... I watched her... Perfect body... Floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma... I wanted her to be mine... But she doesn't think of me that way... And I know it... Before everyone went home... She came to me in her smock and hat... And cried as I hugged her... Then she lifted her head from my shoulders and said "you're my best friend"... "Thanks!"... And gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her.. I wanted to know that I wanted to be more than "just friends"... I love her but I'm too shy... And I don't know why...
IT'S A FEW YEARS LATER...
Now I sit in the pews of the church... A church that she is getting married in now... I watched her say "I do" an drive off to her new life... Married to another man... I wanted her to be mine... But she didn't see me like that... And I knew it... But before she drove away... She came to me and said "You came!... Thanks!"... And she kissed me on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I wantd her to know that I didn't want to be "just friends"... I love her but I'm just too shy... And I don't know ....
YEARS PASSED...
I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my "best friend"... At the service they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years... This is what it said... "I stare at him... Wishing he was mine... But he doesn't notice me like that... And I know it... I wanted to tell him... I wanted him to know... That I don't want to be "just friends"... I love him but I'm just too shy... And I don't know why... I wish he would tell me he loved me"... I wish I did too... I thought to myself and I cried...

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Dang, that gave me tingles when I read the last part! It's so true, you just gotta take a chance and seize all opportunities. Great post Ammie:D

Peace

Buddy

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Originally Posted by ForeverZero

Have you ever been in love with a girl you have no chance with? It fuckin sucks... This is a very confusing situation but I need to get it off my chest and I really dont have anyone I can talk to about this particular problem... My brothers friend has been going out with this girl from about and hour and a half away, she has been staying with him and his family. They have a very fucked up relationship and I really dont think its going to last.

Now my brother and I are fairly close, our respective groups of friends hang out all the time. But they are all still 20. My friends and I are about 23, the girl in question is 22, so she'll come out to bars with us when we go. I have become fairly close to her and have completely fallen in love with her. She is the most amazing girl I have ever met. She's intelligent, and easy going, we have a ton in common, and shes one of the most beautiful girls I have ever known in my life. I mean I would do anything for this girl, I have never felt like this about anyone, ever before. Every now and again she will say or do something that makes me think she feels the same way I do, but I'm never sure if its my imagination or not.

Now here is the meat of the problem. Either she stays with this guy who takes her completly for granted and pays no attention to her, and I get to see her almost every day. Or they break up and she moves back home... I don't know whats worse. This is very much a lose/lose situation for me. Completely in love with a girl I don't think I can ever have. When shes around it makes me incrediblely happy and unbelievably depressed at the same time. I feel like I can't just give up on feelings like these but I cant do anything about them either...

I dont know if any of that made any sense to anyone but thanks for reading anyway, I can't really talk to any of my friends about this cause I don't want it to get back to this guy that I'm in love with his girlfriend.

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Just recently I asked out my ex girl who I fell in love with, to make it short, she only wanted to be friends and it devestated me. I've been really down as of late. I hope you have better luck then me coz mine sucks.

i say just do it man, there was this girl i really liked i met her at a friends house we hung out a few times there and this girl happened to be my friends EX who he still wasnt over her at all, she was a amazing person to be around we always flirted with each other everytime we were together.

i myself didnt think i stood a living hell chance of being with her but i couldnt help myself from trying either i was just way too into her so one night some drunk prick smashes into her car while it was parked i chased him down and found him and he was arrested, so i got to drive her home it was like 3am she invited me in we hung out for a few hours but in the mean time i could just tell she like me now so i went for it and kissed her.

needless to say its over 4yrs now since that day and we are together and have a baby she is still the most amazing person we are like bestfriends and lovers that would have to be the best moment in my life when she walked into it.

you have to do it just tell her how you feel or you will hate yourself if you didnt you have nothing to lose and everything to gain form it :)

oh yeah forgot to add my friend who she used to date didnt like this at all and doesnt speak to us anymore.......it was well worth it :)

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Originally Posted by lagstronaut

How is he lustfully infatuated with the girl if he spends alot of time with her, they share the same interests, and he says he likes her alot because of her INTELLIGENCE and PERSONALITY. Lust has NOTHING to do with such qualities. Also, how in the hell do you gather that she is teasing him as a test to see if he can be a friend with benefits?

I'm sorry but your post is just fucked

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What part of your piece did i need to understand? I've already been in that sistuation before. Don't take my words as critisim, but as a truth to my perspective on life's experiences. I'd be more inclined to watch her, and let her chase me, than vice versa. Apperently she likes something intriuging about you. Make it a challenge to her, don't come across as so easy and even if you do play it where she cant see it. lol

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Originally Posted by ForeverZero

Have you ever been in love with a girl you have no chance with? It fuckin sucks... This is a very confusing situation but I need to get it off my chest and I really dont have anyone I can talk to about this particular problem... My brothers friend has been going out with this girl from about and hour and a half away, she has been staying with him and his family. They have a very fucked up relationship and I really dont think its going to last.

Now my brother and I are fairly close, our respective groups of friends hang out all the time. But they are all still 20. My friends and I are about 23, the girl in question is 22, so she'll come out to bars with us when we go. I have become fairly close to her and have completely fallen in love with her. She is the most amazing girl I have ever met. She's intelligent, and easy going, we have a ton in common, and shes one of the most beautiful girls I have ever known in my life. I mean I would do anything for this girl, I have never felt like this about anyone, ever before. Every now and again she will say or do something that makes me think she feels the same way I do, but I'm never sure if its my imagination or not.

Now here is the meat of the problem. Either she stays with this guy who takes her completly for granted and pays no attention to her, and I get to see her almost every day. Or they break up and she moves back home... I don't know whats worse. This is very much a lose/lose situation for me. Completely in love with a girl I don't think I can ever have. When shes around it makes me incrediblely happy and unbelievably depressed at the same time. I feel like I can't just give up on feelings like these but I cant do anything about them either...

I dont know if any of that made any sense to anyone but thanks for reading anyway, I can't really talk to any of my friends about this cause I don't want it to get back to this guy that I'm in love with his girlfriend.

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Unhappy unhappy
you have no complaint
you are what you are
and you aint what you aint
so listen up buster
and listen up good
stop wishing for bad luck
and knocking on wood:D

dai*ma:stoned: sfca
In other news...*beep* *beep* *beep* dit dit dot dit dot.......
The miracle of birth has just happend for the 100th trillion time:D

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Originally Posted by ForeverZero

Have you ever been in love with a girl you have no chance with? It fuckin sucks... This is a very confusing situation but I need to get it off my chest and I really dont have anyone I can talk to about this particular problem... My brothers friend has been going out with this girl from about and hour and a half away, she has been staying with him and his family. They have a very fucked up relationship and I really dont think its going to last.

Now my brother and I are fairly close, our respective groups of friends hang out all the time. But they are all still 20. My friends and I are about 23, the girl in question is 22, so she'll come out to bars with us when we go. I have become fairly close to her and have completely fallen in love with her. She is the most amazing girl I have ever met. She's intelligent, and easy going, we have a ton in common, and shes one of the most beautiful girls I have ever known in my life. I mean I would do anything for this girl, I have never felt like this about anyone, ever before. Every now and again she will say or do something that makes me think she feels the same way I do, but I'm never sure if its my imagination or not.

Now here is the meat of the problem. Either she stays with this guy who takes her completly for granted and pays no attention to her, and I get to see her almost every day. Or they break up and she moves back home... I don't know whats worse. This is very much a lose/lose situation for me. Completely in love with a girl I don't think I can ever have. When shes around it makes me incrediblely happy and unbelievably depressed at the same time. I feel like I can't just give up on feelings like these but I cant do anything about them either...

I dont know if any of that made any sense to anyone but thanks for reading anyway, I can't really talk to any of my friends about this cause I don't want it to get back to this guy that I'm in love with his girlfriend.

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Love takes two people... What you have is a crush

Love might be painfull, but you can NEVER give up on it..

Even if you're the ugliest mother fucker on the face of the planet, try and try and try over again..

Because, if love dies, you'll die on the inside.. There'll be an empty spot where your heart used to be...


Love is what makes the planet revolve. Love is what makes the stars shine. Love is what makes water flow. I could go on and on.


Love is my life force.

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Originally Posted by PaRaNoIa

Love might be painfull, but you can NEVER give up on it..

Even if you're the ugliest mother fucker on the face of the planet, try and try and try over again..

Because, if love dies, you'll die on the inside.. There'll be an empty spot where your heart used to be...


Love is what makes the planet revolve. Love is what makes the stars shine. Love is what makes water flow. I could go on and on.


Love is my life force.

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what happens when love kills? when one kills for love? doesnt/isnt "love" just become a meaningless word that tries to capture our emotions.., good and bad?:confused:

dai*ma:stoned: sfca

so umm....what happened?

Love sucks

Fuck love

no

on second thought

Fuck me

I suck.

that was a nice post ammie, it still makes me think after reading it now.
its been a while!
i saved it so i cant lose it this time.
but you should just tell her, if she doesnt feel the same way you can just be friends right. i mean.. she's ur friend she'll understand.

I remember this thread now. Ammie's post makes me think, too. Hell, where was this thread when I was in high school? Then again, the girl I had it for was also my best friend, and for some reason, she didn't want to risk losing what we already had. Go figure. ~

You should say something. You'll regret it later if you don't. One day you'll wake up and find that you are fifty years old and wondering why you didn't do the things you wanted. Dont have regrets over the things you didn't do. It sounds more like infatuation than love, but that's cool, it might turn into something else. My experience of being in love is akin to being chained to an idiot 24/7, not that great really. Infatuation is probably better. Give it your best shot...

its hopless,

i hate when dudes try to steal otherguys girlfriends.