Need opinions ...yetagain:(

Hello everyone,mylife has been one hell of a trainwreck recently ...Now the most problem Im having trouble is a big one, please bear with me if you're a stoner you probably dont want to read about a paragraph but please do bear with me.

Alright so I started a thread about this girl on here earlier. Now my problem is that everyone told me to forget her, I cannot forget her for she is nearly always around me or talking to me. Now its extremely hard to drop your feelings for a girl that you've pretty much fallen for and last night ..... Last night we were at a bush party out at a lake and one of my buddys started getting close to her, I pulled him aside n was like what the fuck man, stay away from my shit and hes all like ok ok ok. Sure enough I left like an hour later and I get a phone call from one of my other buddys saying, you dont have any idea of whats going on,turns out my buddy ended up making out with her but I think that was it. My buddy is not longer my buddy, he was a realllly good friend of mine its a shame he had to do this youknow, he was my partner in crime and my rowdy brother. Before this bitch showed up we were real tight, we wouldnt fight unless its the both of us there for it to go down just cuz we're like that. Anyway I really dont wanna fall for this girl again PLEASE o PLEASE what the fuck can I do to make my self better because I have seriously fell in a hole I cant get out.

EDIT :: what would be the most mature thing to do ... I dont want to be stupid but I also do not want to see either of them again.:(

You're probably having alot of different shit go through your head, it should get better with time but you have to remember man he was your buddy. Bros come before hoes. Everybody makes mistakes, I know I would never lose a friend just because he hooked up with a girl I liked. Women come and go, and if she really cared about you then she wouldn't have done it. Forgive and forget, pack a fat-ass bowl and have a peace pipe session with your friend. :rasta:

It's a girl man. I would never let a long friendship come between a friend and me. There are other fish in the sea, and the way I see it, is this girl isn't really too interested in having a intimate relationship with you, so why let yourself live in heartbreak for this girl.

Just stop talking to her all together. Get her out of your system completly. If she's around school or whatever, ignore her, if you're at a party, ignore her. She is playing mind games with you and is being a little tease. I wouldn't waste 2 more seconds on this ditzy bitch.

Go be buddies with your rowdy brother again. There are millions of girls in this world, but there can only be one true friend. Go after someone that will treat you right, not get sloppy drunk and lick the first mouth she sees.

I know what you're saying, but Ive been talking to my buddy and like he knows Im out to get it and I really do like her,and last night I even told him NOT to do shit and he was like i know man what the fuck I wouldnt.

I just ... need to smoke another bowl and think about this, Im in such a knot I dont know what in the fuck to do.

Dont get me wrong, what you're saying is making perfect sense but in my mind Im thinking differently, I guess its my emotions fucking with me, but man he was my hommie who knew I really liked her and she liked me before this. This is the one thing thats getting to me,and its not even my biggest problem, I almost put my head threw my window last night I was so pissed, my othedr buddy kyle had to tell me not to do it.

Been there got the T-shirt my friend, but it ain't worth losing your mate over bro! As the saying goes There's plenty more fish in the sea. Dont let a woman come between you and your mate. Yeah he did wrong and probably lost alot of trust when he kissed her, but hey put yourself in his shoes. You woulda done exactly the same, I'd put money on it! Us guys follow our dicks man, don't hold it against him, it's not like your gonna stay mad at your mates dick, coz that would just be weird right?

Peace

Buddy

Then get rid of your friend. That is a pretty shitty thing to do to you. Why keep the people who don't care around? The girl doesn't care, your buddy doesn't care, I say cut them both off. Wait for them to come and apologize to you if they really care, and if they don't, you know who your true friends are. Ignore the, don't talk to them, and if they ask what's wrong, tell them to fuck off, Simple.

Friends come and friends go and yes, it suckcs when you find out you can't trust them, but that's how you weed out the good from the bad.

Good luck.

I know we follow our dicks,but straight up if my buddy told me to stay away from a girl wich has happend with this vicky chick we know who he liked. I coulda totally got with her but I kept away like he told me too,like a true friend would, wouldnt you say?

Wow, lol lucky for me nothing has happened like that to me while I was in the "fell for her" mode or I'd probably kill the guy. But just forget her, trust me the more you accept you wont be with her or the more you believe you dont want her the better you'll feel and those feelings will completely vanish eventually. Just dont look at her any more :p.

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Originally Posted by Nochowderforyou

Then get rid of your friend. That is a pretty shitty thing to do to you. Why keep the people who don't care around? The girl doesn't care, your buddy doesn't care, I say cut them both off. Wait for them to come and apologize to you if they really care, and if they don't, you know who your true friends are. Ignore the, don't talk to them, and if they ask what's wrong, tell them to fuck off, Simple.

Friends come and friends go and yes, it suckcs when you find out you can't trust them, but that's how you weed out the good from the bad.

Good luck.

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I think I might just cut them off, Im moving on the weekend to a much better place across town Im really hoping for a change. The one bad thing about moving, Is Im only 2 streets away from this girl:(

"girls will fuck your whole shit up"
quote from dmx in belly

no matter who are you are or where you live
its always the same ol situation

first thing you got to do
is fuck a friend of that chick
thats hotter
find out what girl she hates and be with her

it looks bad if you get all jealous over that
its hard not to but you must control your emotions
your homeboy is just doing his thing
if that girl didnt want tongues in her mouth
and hands and her breasts and coochie
then she would have said no

learn to master this situation cuz teh older you get
the worse the game becomes
or just find an ugly fat girl who loves giving head
and live happily ever after

nothing lasts forever
get yours while you can

Bros before Hoes! plainly said

I know we follow our dicks,but straight up if my buddy told me to stay away from a girl wich has happend with this vicky chick we know who he liked. I coulda totally got with her but I kept away like he told me too,like a true friend would, wouldnt you say?

Repeat, I dont think he falls under the category of true friend anymore. More like , decieving?

ur one of those emo kids arent u?...well all i can say even though u may not want to, cut both off, friends are friends untill that trust is broken,
ive had close friends back stab me for petty shit, i cut em off, sometimes we never make u, sometime we do, but when we do itll never be the same, ill always keep em at an arms length from then on...

i had this 1 firend we hung out like every day all day for like 4 months, he said he wanted to make some money so i was like aight dude...i trusted him, he brought some clientel to me in past, i gave him some shit to sell...fronted it to him, i go outta town for the weekend, i come back and the fucker popped all the shit i gave him...i was like wtf dude...come to find out he thought i moved and wasnt comin back or someshit...nothing the less i cut him off, we made up (kinda) but i rarely talk to him...

This friend will be a true friend when he comes and apologizes. Until then, cut them both off.

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Originally Posted by Nochowderforyou

This friend will be a true friend when he comes and apologizes. Until then, cut them both off.

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Thank you for this advice, and no I am not an emo kid I bring my problems here cuz I dont openly discuss them other place's other then with my sister.

comes and apologizes?...if he was a friend he wouldnt have made out with his best friends crush...i woulda went back tot he party with a shank :D and shived the both of em...

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comes and apologizes?...if he was a friend he wouldnt have made out with his best friends crush...i woulda went back tot he party with a shank :D and shived the both of em...

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I believe everyone deserves a second chance as us humans make mistakes. That's just me though. :)

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Originally Posted by Nochowderforyou

I believe everyone deserves a second chance as us humans make mistakes. That's just me though. :)

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Im on with you on that man...By the way my older brother is sitting here no chowder, he used to visit this site he says he knows who you are. His account was Joel.

Anyway yeah people to deserve a second chance, and as for dryst, your a crazy mother fucker.lol:stoned:

i got trust issues...second chances are for the weak...
do ti once shame on me do it twice shame on you...i wont ever let it get to twice...ur setting urself up if u go back...just my oponion

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Im on with you on that man...By the way my older brother is sitting here no chowder, he used to visit this site he says he knows who you are. His account was Joel.

Anyway yeah people to deserve a second chance, and as for dryst, your a crazy mother fucker.lol:stoned:

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Yeah, I remeber Joel. Where's he been at man?!

We all have our own opinions on this subject, but it's up to you what you want to do. I have major trust issues as well, but if you have been friends with person for so long, I think he deserves another chance. I know I would be mega pissed off at this situation as well, but like I said, if he comes to you and apologizes, then I would give him another chance. If he doesn't apologize, he obviously doesn't care, and yes, I agree, there is no second chance.

But hey, I've given all the advice i can, now you decide what you think is right.

Good luck. :cool:

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Originally Posted by Nochowderforyou

Yeah, I remeber Joel. Where's he been at man?!

We all have our own opinions on this subject, but it's up to you what you want to do. I have major trust issues as well, but if you have been friends with person for so long, I think he deserves another chance. I know I would be mega pissed off at this situation as well, but like I said, if he comes to you and apologizes, then I would give him another chance. If he doesn't apologize, he obviously doesn't care, and yes, I agree, there is no second chance.

But hey, I've given all the advice i can, now you decide what you think is right.

Good luck. :cool:

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Hey, joel just walked out the door to go hang with some people but he stopped coming around because he got caught last year about this time in a Dodge ram 2500 coming back from BC With 2 garbage bags of weed and 2000 hits of e. Cops busted him outside of Watson lake, yukon. Possesion with intent to traffic. Anyway he got off light because hes not legal age yet, he spent 4 months in a Juvy correctional center and then got out. His PO is an asshole cant even go out and get crunk.

one thing you learn in life is dont trust anyone with anythin
fuck em all cos at the end of the day they will fuck you if they can
not sexually tho
really tho bruv if this gal know you like her she shouldve known better and same goes for ya mate really
also give it a month or so an youll prob be with some next gal and it will be like none of this has ever happened if ya get me
or you can jus take it as a lesson learnt at least as i said at first an say fuck em
me i would do the latter the way i see it freinds are jus like bitches they come they go
accept apologies but not too often for the same thing. hope it dont happen again.
keep ya head up

Sit in yer room and wank yer wee heart out bud:thumbsup: .

And make sure youre ex friend gets a slap:dance: ....


Ching Ching

did u just tell him to wank his weewee? what is that gonna do for him?...

Wee means small over here dude ,suppose you gota be a jock to get it:D ..

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Wee means small over here dude ,suppose you gota be a jock to get it:D ..

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oh lol...i thought u told his to spank his monkey :)...i guess that could help a little?

Hey everyone...Little update lol.

Anyway I took your advice nochowder and started pushing them away, slowly but surely. My buddy phoned me up saying that the night was really fucked up and I told him it was a big breach of my trust and that he might not be my greatest friend anymore ... Now the bitch asked me if I was mad at her, I told her I wasnt and that I was doing something I should have done along time ago and to remember there was no hate in what I do.

Since that whole scene Ive been hanging out with a new group of friends,but these 2 other guys that I have been hanging out with have some beef with my old homeboy. Im not too sure what hes going to think of this as soon as he finds out we been chilling alot.

EDIT :: My feelings seem to be fading for this girl:D