in your circle of people
do you make deciscions for your group
are you respected or just dealt with
ive been talking with a lot of you for some time
i have a pretty good idea whos the individuals here
so what do you think
leader or follower
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in your circle of people
do you make deciscions for your group
are you respected or just dealt with
ive been talking with a lot of you for some time
i have a pretty good idea whos the individuals here
so what do you think
leader or follower
man i dont think we have one in our group, whoever has the weed though usually gets dibs or dibs out picking what to do lol
Im a loner.
I have like a hugh varied of friends. Sometimes I'm the leader and other times were even i guess. I dont really follow anyone cause I liek to make my own descions and be independant. :)
A lot of my old friends don't toke anymore, and I don't drink anymore, so we never hang out much. I guess I'm a loner, I like it though. Although sometimes it gets kind of lonely, but my weed lasts a whole lot longer. :D
Neither. But I'd always be a leader before I be a follower..unless I'm following after some one thats very wise and has good info.
IM The sticker ninja KING..... Is that your answer?
I am da boss man, i don't follow no one who answers ''I don't know'' to any question.
To be a leader you have to inspire people, and you can't do that stoned off your ass, not the right people anyway.
I am niether. I am both. I am an idea person. I take the group, listen to them, observe them, and bundle it all together. Being a 'leader' or a 'follower', for me, depends on the situation. If someone has more experience than me, than I have no problem following in order to learn. If I feel I have the most experience, then I take the iniative. The end goal is to reach whatever resolution/goal/destination we're trying to get to as efficiently as possible. Everyone is not strong in every aspect of their life. Sometimes it's better to be humble and learn silently. Other times, it is better to inspire and lead.
So which are you then? or you just doubting people who smoke weed?Quote:
Originally Posted by MegaOctane12
Neither I'm an individual
I am neither. While people may come to me for guidance I also seek guidance myself.
I have a way with words and with providing a perspective on things that reaches people. But, I also have a spiritual mentor and guides that I seek from. I am evolving.
I consider myself more of a bridge and a conduit through which wisdom flows. Sometimes this wisdom leads others towards their truth while sometimes it leads me towards mine. I am only human so I have my weaknesses.
I learn as I teach, I follow as I lead.
peace.
You, my friend, are a wise one.Quote:
Originally Posted by FunkyMonkey
I do not believe in leading or following others. I am an anarchist.
A wise one is not simply one who can say things that reach into another persons mind and soul but also one who can recognize wise words and apply them to their own lives.Quote:
Originally Posted by DannyMan
This is what I believe anyhow. But what do I know, Im just a monkey hammering keys :)
Whoever has the weed is a leader when its not me with it i become a follower :D
Its only an illusion, I just live my own life.
Who the fuck are YOU? STFU comes to mind...................Quote:
Originally Posted by MegaOctane12
I am a Leader...Not only have I worked as a general Manager of Retail stores doing around 6 mill a year. I had to hire Fire and also did buying duties.... Remember a good leader will listen to others and take thegood ideas, and through out the bad and make it better for all.
Part of being BOSS, ie Leader is knowing when to listen and when to deligate.
All stoned......................
Listen Megadipshit................You are who you are, weed isnt who you are.
Marijuana is my antidrug........That is what I told my Doctor.
Strong reaction...
I used to be a follower. Then I grew up a little, and realized I was following jerks. Now i'm a loner. I love being around people, but I hate immaturity. I also have a tad social anxiety. I find I'm 100 percent happier away from young people. I have one friend. We're similar in this respect.
My only hope is that, as I grow older, the ones who used to be immature pricks will have developed into mature accepting adults. Or maybe not. I'll always have mary jane.
It was a strong reaction........Quote:
Originally Posted by Inferius
He comes on here attacking all of us.........
Old mega...comes to a marijuana Board and says you cant be a good leader if you smoke.... He has a small mind.
Inferius.....you seem like a good guy. Some of the guys will grow up and some will not. You will see the diff.
try to find some people that have common ideas, and Morals, love for weed and you will be fine.
Leaders are a rare breed. I see alot of loser stoner kids that just stumble around after a couple cool stoners to every session they can find.
I am like a cat. I do what I want to.If someone has a good idea,thats cool. If not then I will say thanks,but no thanks. I do my own thing,sometimes it includes other people,sometimes not. It depends on Where,When and With Who.
I am Independent.
i do what I wanna do
don't like it tough shit
I don't lead and I don't follow
I play by my own rules
i hate these sterotypical threads...of course everyones gonna say ya im a leader...but even leaders follow
both it depends, but im becoming mroe and more of a loner. I used ot give myself a hard time voer it now I just don't give two fucks.
we are all , learners, doers, and teachers. Every single one of us.Quote:
Originally Posted by friendowl
dai*ma:stoned:
But, he has a right to his opinion the same way we expressed all of ours. Why get offended? I wasn't offended at all. It would have been a waste of energy to worry about someone with such a small and closed mind. Better things in life to think about.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bong30
Well done on completely blowing that out of proportion. The phrase 'not only have I worked' leads me to believe you were sacked, bad attitude problem, there is nothing speical about you my friend.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bong30
For anyone that was offended about 'To inspire people you can't be stoned off your ass, not the right people anyway' It was a general comment, it wasn't an attack on anyone or a particular group of people. Objectivity yes ?
Bong30 you are a virtual leader. In order to do your GM job you had to adhere to laws and operate within the confines of the law. You followed protocal and failing that would have resulted in your title being taken away.
NLIM Leaders aren't a rare breed. We all lead each other without recognising it. Sometimes we lead each other astray and often times that is the only time we notice we have been led and followed. Good Leaders are a rare breed.
dryst is right. But I am still da boss man, and i don't follow anyone who says 'i dunno' to anyfing.
MO12 I agree with you for a change. Bong30 did get a bit fired up with all them spaces between lines and .......s. but there is a difference between 'To inspire people you can't be stoned off your ass, not the right people anyway' and 'To be a leader you have to inspire people, and you can't do that stoned off your ass, not the right people anyway'. I'm most inspiring when I am wrecked ask all the wrecked people who listen.
Well said.Quote:
Originally Posted by SpiritLevel